Of course that's all that matters, if it is good enough for you..if it really is.I am going to say this and then be done....
My mother is 75 is now exhibiting signs of dementia, and within couple of yrs at the rate she is going will need to be in the care of a home or someone else. As I stated, what her particular arrangements are I do not know, she has not told me but since she is fastidious about keeping everything else in order I'm sure that it has been decided. I DO NOT CARE if I have control over her, ok? It is good enough for me to see the woman who has been perfect in everything she has done, have control over everything and everyone to finally be out of control. It makes no difference to me whether that is good enough for you, because it IS good enough for me and that is all that matters.
I am not completely ignorant, the courts would never grant me conservatorship because of my health; I have one brother that lives just across the street and my other is right down the road, I told you this is a small community not a big city.
I do wish you well.
"My revenge is doing the things that she could never do."
actually I believe that is a bit of a misquote, because I said something more to the effect that it hurts her more to seee me doing the things that she said I would never do.
I wish you well, too.