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Anon
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To 'Anticipate Your Life':
First off, a young person died. Lost his life. Does the punishment fit whatever crime you're concocting against the young man? A decent human being would not be condemning a dead person for "walking around with a chip on his shoulder." You're obviously someone who did not know Brian. For those of you reading this, please do not give any credence to such distortions of Brian.
During the tragedy, Brian was trying to pull his friend out of a fight. That was how this young man lost his life, by trying to protect his friend. He was always known as boy who stood up for the weak. He NEVER DID ANYTHING TO HARM ANYBODY. If anything, he protected the disable and mentally challenge from ridicule in school. How many of us did that in school? Most would not have enough heart to. But this was a sign of Brian's good spirit. This is a fact. They were present at his funeral.
Bottom line, for anyone to condemn the dead is cruel and immoral. Especially for condemning the death of a young man for so little. Brian was a good kid. For a fact, a good soul was taken from this world. I ask that you stop what you're doing, and have respect for the dead, especially one that was GOOD TO MANY.
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Anon
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Anticipate Your Life,
Please stop being inappropriate with your violence and 'LOL'. The family and many others are still coping with the lost of Brian. He is loved by many. Once again, I ask that you build some human decency. I knew firsthand that Brian was a good person. So please, stop your fabrications.
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me myself and i
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to everyone. no i don't get any joy out of defending a murder and i'm not truly siding with anyone, but i am pointing out true and known facts which each and every one of you ignores. this was a two way fight which was started by people who were friends of brian or friends of brian's friends. none of you is willing to admit even that much. instead, you call names and belittle the chairez boys. at the same time you whitewash the actions of everyone else involved. if steven and juan and jose and danny and the other danny and everyone else hadn't decided to pick a fight with gang members (because one of the gang members was supposedly mad dogging juan, from 40 yards away ... something juan didn't even see for himself) then there would have been no fight. no fight, no death. if you get into fights, you risk death. especially if you are stupid enough to pick fights with gang members. accept some truth and responsibility for once. put a little blame on steven, juan, jose, danny and everyone else who participated. yes blame the chairez boys and carrillo too. but not just the chairez boys and carrillo. everyone gets the blame, but only the gang members got the convictions. and about bz, he didn't start the fight, and he didn't join in the early stages. all he did was run towards it, maybe just to help out, that's what's the most tragic. he might be the one who should get no blame. everyone else involved gets blame. from both sides. when you can admit that, then you have an idea what happened that night. until you admit that, you don't have any idea about what happened that night.
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Nicole
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wow, everyone needs to leave it alone...isn't it enough someone died
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Melanie
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OK "Me, Myself and I"... Congrats. You've schooled us all and made your point. Impressive. Now we see the light. Just want to say thanks again for being such a kind and compassionate individual who knows that the details of this fight couldn't possibly matter to the family and friends who lost Brian. I pray for you and look to the time that you really understand the effect of the words you have said.
Rest IN PEACE Brian. Your family and friends love you, and will always be blessed by having had the chance to know you.
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jlm
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anticipate your life wrote: Brian might not have been a killer type but he always had this attitude like he was this big buff mack daddy that could beat up anybody in the world, which in reality he probably could, but he was constantly acting hard and down for his friends. Nevertheless he found out the hard way like many other kids that he wasn't invincible and that he couldn't beat up everyone in the world. So the moral of this is to talk to your kids and the youth of today and let them know that violence doesn't solve anything and trying to be hard and down for your friends wont get you anywhere, as we can all see where brian ended up six feet under pushing up daisy's while his friends and his killers are running around living to see another day. So sad.... I dont ever remember Brian acting this way...I had the priviledge of going to high school with him. i was even on the Varsity soccer team when he was on JV...he always had a smile on his face and was a very good friend to everyone... "Trying to act hard???" who fucking says that anymore. Gang members maybe... A fight is a fight, fists to fists...when you start bringing in weapons, you are nothing but a coward. Murderers are "running around living to see another day..." That is sad...whats more sad is what your saying about someone who you barely even know. he was murdered and cannot defend himself...yeah your pretty "hard" yourself. You say "Down for your Friends wont get you anywhere," 3 gang members were "down" for eachother and ended up stabbing someone...and where are they now? Think twice before you speak your mind. R.I.P. Brian
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danielle stipo
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barbara,
i'm sorry you and your family have had to endure so much pain and heartache. i'm even more sorry that ignorant CHILDREN, run around online all day making stupid accusations and making it harder for you to cope.
i knew brian, not super well, but i knew him. we sat next to each other in spanish class in high school and he'd make me laugh all period long. he was more than a nice guy, he was truly genuine. he never walked around like he was a "big buff mack daddy," is that the term that was used?( haha) and he never acted like he was any tougher than the next high school boy. all i know is brian was loved by everyone who KNEW him, and those who didn't know him were definitely missing out.
barbara, i'm sorry i don't know more details about the murder or trial, if i did i'd be able to better defend brian's good name. but the truth is, i don't know much about it at all. i just know that brian was murdered. and which ever way one CHOSES look at it....NOTHING justifies that. who started what with who is irrelevant. NOTHING justifies murder.
barbara, i hope you and your family can find peace in knowing that the people who did know and love brian know the bullshit from the reality on this page. and it's those people who's opinions matter. and for those boys who participated in brian's murder, and those who defend them, will pay their debts, if not in this life, most definitely in the next.
love u! xoxo
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ALL THE PARENTS IN LEUSD
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I know Barbara personally and I am shocked about some of the things that are being said about her and the family. To know Barbara is to know Brian and to know either of them is to know the family. I can’t imagine the work her parents must have put into her to get her to turn out the way she did because she is stubborn and independent, just like my little girl and raising her has been tuff.
I got to know Barb because of the work she has done in the community. She has taught my children in school for several years. I don’t feel a need to leave my name because I’m sure there are several families that feel as I do. I would rather her think that this is all of us talking.
I have never met anyone that so freely gave of herself to the people around her as well as complete strangers. I have never met anyone the shines so brightly in the wake of defeat as she battles for her life and the lives of those around her. She never complains. She downplays her heartaches. She never puts her pain on anyone else. She is humble, loving, and has truly changed my life and the life of my two children. I don’t know any other 20 something that thinks in such a global way.
I have so many things I could say, so many rebuttals, so many comments but I just couldn’t possibly do them all. I cannot comment on the facts of this case because Ms. Barbara has not discussed them with me. I can say that the any person saying the things that some have said about this family does not know them. I don’t personally know Barbara’s parents but I know her and she shows me what a great job her parents did every time I see her. I see her nearly every day driving around the community in what used to be Brian’s truck. You can’t miss the large white door with red letters. But we have missed her; she has been taken from us too. When Brian died she left. I have not seen her for over four months as she went through this trail process. When she called me back she says she doesn’t know when she will return. And she sounds tired. I worry and my children worry that this stress could kill her as well, not just Brian.
I can’t imagine her family being vindictive, hateful, angry, mean, dismissive, or having a "chip on their shoulder" because Ms. Barbara always listened to all of my feelings and includes me in my children’s education. I think anyone that would add this unecessary stress to the family is not a good person. And anyone who would say such horrible things about a person who is deceased has no compassion at all. In the name of Jesus please stop speaking ill of the dead!
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Melanie
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"Anticipate your Life"
Thank you for your last comment. I can't speak for any other of Brian's friends and family but I appreciate it.
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Melanie
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Barbara, I have to second what your friend danielle said above...
"i hope you and your family can find peace in knowing that the people who did know and love brian know the bullshit from the reality on this page. and it's those people who's opinions matter. and for those boys who participated in brian's murder, and those who defend them, will pay their debts, if not in this life, most definitely in the next."
Knowing your family, and getting a chance to know Brian, made this world a brighter place for me. I will always remember your brother. I will always cherish his memory.
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RENA
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IN LOVING MEMORIES OF THE HOMEBOY
(FIDEL NAVARETTE), 18, of Valinda. I KNOW YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE NOW.YOU ARE FOREVER IN ARE HEARTS & MEMORIES, ALWAYS & FOREVER LOVED GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN. I'LL MISS YOU INTILL I'M WITH YOU.
"R.I.P. MALO"
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KIM
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EVERYONE IS GANGING UP ON THE MURDERS BECAUSE THEY ARE MURDERS! THESE PEOPLE ARE JUSTIFYING A MURDER AND BLAMING IT ON THE VICTIMS. YOU KNOW WHOSE FAULT IT IS THAT ANYONE WAS STABBED? THE PERSON WHO DID THE STABBING! TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOU OWN ACTIONS! YOU LOGIC IS RIDICULOUSLY FLAWED AND RETARDED!
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clarissa garcia
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Did Raymond Chairez say anything about his children?
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PRR
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No, he never said anything.
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Richard
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leave lil malo alone!!!!!!!!!! let him rest in peace now!!! cant you guys see gang violence ended this young mans life what a shame especially on people who think its cool to take another life! instead of homies pushing you to get a degreee there pushing you to drink a forty! ask yourself are these truly homies????
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Richard
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is this really what life has to offer me??? TTTHHHIIINNNKKK out side the box theres more to life than fucking some 1 up or getting fucked up grow up be be more civilized take care of sister and children and family rather than take care of this foo for the varrio!!!!
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KIM
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I AGREE!
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RaGdoLL
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You are
missed
and
loved
never
forgotten
Fidel
R.I.P
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thoams
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Whats up with the fire?
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Judge it!
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