my boyfriend is married

[in a pickle]

I have a boyfriend who is married. Him and his wife don't have any kids. We've been together for 4 years, and we have 2 daughters together. Should I come clean about this to his wife and let his parents know they are grandparents?

[roman]

I would like to think she already knows. If you have children together he should be with them all the time. He must never go home. His children should be his first priority...

[crazy]

Hell yes cheating is the lowest thing anyone can do and thats what hes doing and if hes cheating on his wife with you then you have to realize hes cheating on you or will cheat on you at some point

[your stupid]

you should tell the wife and your kids deserve to know who they are ..your just as wrong as your low life married boyfriend ..

[connie]

Whose this michelle swantek? Oh wait she's got 1 kid she don't even take care of her looser boyfriend does. I see this bitch all the time at the bar bragging about how her man is home watching her son and she's out fucking this guy, then the next night doing it all again with some other dude.

[crazy]

People dont realize that when your married and you cheat its illegal adultry is in the nys law its just not enforced it just helps in the divorce the person guilty of adultry gets nothing not even custody if there are kids involved

[Guess what]

Rome TRASH.Kids or not hes not your boyfriend.He has a wife,has'nt left her yet.Your a ho on the side,just a piece.Feel useless yet? I agree come clean,tell the wife.She deserves better than a cheater loser.

[mary jane]

absolutely you should come clean, hes having the best of both worlds!! she has a right to know as well so she can move on wih her life as well as you. trust me you will feel so much better after it is all out in the open. good luck

[youvelostit]

in a pickle wrote:

I have a boyfriend who is married. Him and his wife don't have any kids. We've been together for 4 years, and we have 2 daughters together. Should I come clean about this to his wife and let his parents know they are grandparents?

SLUT. your kids will hate you later in life. bank on it.

[THATS AMAZING]

connie wrote:

Whose this michelle swantek? Oh wait she's got 1 kid she don't even take care of her looser boyfriend does. I see this bitch all the time at the bar bragging about how her man is home watching her son and she's out fucking this guy, then the next night doing it all again with some other dude.

Sounds like trash to me. I have heard of her. A real dirty slut. I would tell the kids father. Sounds like he would be better off with him then those losers.

[Wondering]

Heard she is a SLUT. Can't believe she only has one kid with the way she gets around. Great life she has being a waitress. She she accomplished a lot in life

[lol]

you have to love rome ny wow

[PPPSSssshhhh]

I love ho-pieces lol

[LeObvious]

Hey! Just what Rome didn't have! A cheating scumbag. Wow. That's a FIRST!

[Tell her]

Been there done that. The difference is I didn't know they were still together until I was pregnant. He had told me they were split up because she cheated. We worked together and she used to bring him his lunch. She hadn't come in in months. So I believed him. When I found out her boyfriend was actually a job not a boyfriend I was hurt. Deep in my heart I thought if I told her she would leave him and we would be together. THINK AGAIN! She was hurt and angry but they stayed together and worked it out. He has had nothing to do with his child in 14 years. I do believe telling her WAS the correct thing to do though. Even if I did it for the wrong reason. Last time we were in family court I found out he has another child...not with her. She is too old now. What a piece of crap. Why is the woman always looked down upon? Sometimes it is not our fault.

[LeObvious]

When you knowingly have a relationship with someone who is in ANOTHER relationship, especially a marriage, you are just as bad and trashy as they. It makes you just as wrong, and just as guilty. If they have left the other person, and can PROVE it, fine. But the minute they start that wishy-washy back and forth crap, you are still BOTH wrong. Plenty of people will disagree with me, and frankly I don't give a damn. It's a simple reality. The reason so many people who sleep with married men/women try to claim they aren't in the wrong is to make themselves feel better about behaving like trash. If you're that god-awful desperate to get laid, at least wait until he or she has left their previous partner. Or better still, find someone else. Think about it ...(and I really don't understand why all you women AND men find this so hard to grasp ...) If they are going to screw around with you behind the wife/husband/gf/bf's back --- what do you think they'll be doing to YOU before long? Oh, I know you THINK that whatever you have between your legs is made of gold and drips honey, but the reality is, it's no better than the last one or the next one. When you start realizing that, you'll finally be able to handle some monogamy.

[wow]

sounds like trailerpark trash to me

[mistress]

Leobvious I agree on most of your points. However, I was duped for a long time by my man. He told me he was married, but separated. He told me all kinds of stories to keep me around and off their tail. I was a fool. I believed him. Sometimes we are just vulnerable and fall in love with a fantasy wishing with all our hearts that it is what we dream it is. However, when you start having kids with the man, there should be no more games. if he didn't man up during pregnancy number one, you should have known he was not going to be yours. Having a secret affair is one thing. Making a baby and still hiding......come on, use your head.

[no excues]

mistress wrote:

Leobvious I agree on most of your points. However, I was duped for a long time by my man. He told me he was married, but separated. He told me all kinds of stories to keep me around and off their tail. I was a fool. I believed him. Sometimes we are just vulnerable and fall in love with a fantasy wishing with all our hearts that it is what we dream it is. However, when you start having kids with the man, there should be no more games. if he didn't man up during pregnancy number one, you should have known he was not going to be yours. Having a secret affair is one thing. Making a baby and still hiding......come on, use your head.

You are misusing the vagina for which you are responsible. To be clear the vagina is to be used only for moral purposes. You don't own it you are simply the care taker and need to act as such. the only seed you should allow to come in contact with the vagina for which you are responsible is the seed of a man who will support the children who pass through the aforementioned birth canal. Please refrain from any further activity.

[heather]

no excues wrote:

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You are misusing the vagina for which you are responsible. To be clear the vagina is to be used only for moral purposes. You don't own it you are simply the care taker and need to act as such. the only seed you should allow to come in contact with the vagina for which you are responsible is the seed of a man who will support the children who pass through the aforementioned birth canal. Please refrain from any further activity.

Someone should have told your mother the same thing.Or have your father at least wear a condom.