Young girls dating older men

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Morally speaking

Watertown, NY

#1 Feb 5, 2012
What are peoples takes on this?
That Girl

Springfield, MA

#2 Feb 5, 2012
If you're talking about underage girls, go talk to their parents! Otherwise, who cares.
Morally speaking

Watertown, NY

#3 Feb 5, 2012
That Girl wrote:
If you're talking about underage girls, go talk to their parents! Otherwise, who cares.
But like you see 20 yr olds w like 45 yr olds and its looked down upon....
lol

United States

#4 Feb 6, 2012
Morally speaking, who cares!! Maybe if you had a 20 something in your life, happy relationship or life at all..you wouldn't be on topix bitching about what you think is morally right. If your in your 20's and 40's your all adults to make your own decisions.

“the rippin' and the tearin'”

Since: Jul 09

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#5 Feb 6, 2012
Morally speaking wrote:
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But like you see 20 yr olds w like 45 yr olds and its looked down upon....
only by the women with psychological problems who got ditched, when their man wanted a younger, tastier woman.
it goes both ways, older women ditch their douche' bag men for younger guys.
stay young at heart, and be active.
no one wants to be tied to a fat, listless mate.
Society

New York, NY

#6 Feb 6, 2012
I anything over a few years age difference is seen upon weird. If you ask me, there is alot of desperate people out there, or act desperate when they not to get with anyone ro quick to marry.

Seriously though, if man 50 and women 40, no big a deal, if man 40 and women 30, uh, you know,if man 30 and women 20 no big of deal still but it is different. As long as it is not worse than that.

You hardly seen a 40yr old woman with a 30yr old man, or 30yrold woman with a 20yr old man, you like never hear of it.

woman 20 and guy 45, somthing is up there, either she wants money or he just wants young. Whatever makes em happy but will be seen as weird
LAME

Rome, NY

#7 Feb 6, 2012
It doesn't really matter unless you're the parent.

Turning to Topix for this question is lame FYI.
Morally speaking

Watertown, NY

#8 Feb 6, 2012
lol wrote:
Morally speaking, who cares!! Maybe if you had a 20 something in your life, happy relationship or life at all..you wouldn't be on topix bitching about what you think is morally right. If your in your 20's and 40's your all adults to make your own decisions.
Im in agreement. Im w an older man, and most ppl look down upon it. Thats why I wanted opinions on it
ewwwwwww

New Port Richey, FL

#9 Apr 29, 2012
Morally speaking wrote:
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Im in agreement. Im w an older man, and most ppl look down upon it. Thats why I wanted opinions on it
There are way too many 50 yr old. Men prowling around tryin to pic up young girls that are old enough to be their daughters,get the hell. over yourselves ..grow up perverts like Glenn S.
Paul Grande

Rome, NY

#10 Apr 29, 2012
I love getting with the younger girls. Even if they are related to me or are my friends' daughters or wives.
hahahah

Rome, NY

#11 Apr 29, 2012
Paul Grande wrote:
I love getting with the younger girls. Even if they are related to me or are my friends' daughters or wives.
only a retarted girl would screw grande after all look who he married.hahahaha
Turn it around

Rome, NY

#12 Apr 29, 2012
I am a 50 something hot sexy woman! Look better then younger woman, who r so fat and don't take any pride in the way they look.! I look fabulous all the time. In great shape, have awesome cilothes and lots of beautiful shoes,heels no flip-flops on my feet!! Not so Rome! Oh my point, i am with a thirty something very hot man,who treats me like a queen!!

Since: Apr 12

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#13 May 2, 2012
I'll jump in on this one. If she is 30 and he is 35, so what. If he is 45 and she is 25, so what. But...what could you possibly have in common? In that scenario she wants a daddy and he likes the eye candy. But it isn't going work in the long run. I've known a few men that dated much younger girls. They didn't last, and the men were very immature for their ages, which is why they were attracted to the younger girl in the first place. Now if he's over 18 and she is under 18 that's playing with fire. Although I wouldn't discourage high school dating.
BallsMahoney

Flushing, NY

#14 May 4, 2012
Half the girls at RFA are dating pedophiles.

Since: Apr 12

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#15 May 4, 2012
BallsMahoney wrote:
Half the girls at RFA are dating pedophiles.
If by pedophiles you mean guys that are much older than they are, that wouldn't surprise me for Rome. Older men would have money and cars, two things that impress girls of high school age. When the base was open it was a big deal for a girl in 12th grade to date a GI. He has a stable job and good benefits. Two things not easily found in Rome. If by pedophile you mean someone who has been convicted of a sex crime then that's their stupidity.
Bums

Rome, NY

#16 May 4, 2012
Turn it around wrote:
I am a 50 something hot sexy woman! Look better then younger woman, who r so fat and don't take any pride in the way they look.! I look fabulous all the time. In great shape, have awesome cilothes and lots of beautiful shoes,heels no flip-flops on my feet!! Not so Rome! Oh my point, i am with a thirty something very hot man,who treats me like a queen!!
The probably is that most people in All of Central NY take no pride in their looks. First off, the majority of people are overweight; and not just a little overweight, but the overweight that can be fixed with a small amount of effort. Secondly, you don't need to have a super model face or body, to look attractive. All the girls are running around in jeans and tank tops and hoodies {at best}. with sneakers or flip flops. What ever happened to heels and sexy dress pants, or a nice dress? No one has any class anymore, and it doesn't take a lot of money to dress nice.

Since: Apr 12

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#17 May 4, 2012
Bums wrote:
<quoted text>The probably is that most people in All of Central NY take no pride in their looks. First off, the majority of people are overweight; and not just a little overweight, but the overweight that can be fixed with a small amount of effort. Secondly, you don't need to have a super model face or body, to look attractive. All the girls are running around in jeans and tank tops and hoodies {at best}. with sneakers or flip flops. What ever happened to heels and sexy dress pants, or a nice dress? No one has any class anymore, and it doesn't take a lot of money to dress nice.
I agree with what you're saying. But, you will see that everywhere. We, too, have a Wal-Mart and if you go in it at any time you will see the same thing. My wife and do pretty well financially and she has to dress professionally for her job. She gets her clothes from Macy's (which isn't the expensive store people make it out to be), Target, and sometimes from Goodwill. As far as weight goes, most of that is from too much time sedentary and too much food. However, some of is due to money. Poorer people tend to buy more junk food than healthy food because it's cheaper. But that'll bite you in the arse later in life. Years of eating crap will make you less healthy over 40 and cause you to pay more in medical bills. It boils down to...pay less now...pay more later. Obesity also causes more medical issues. One thing that kills me is, women who take care of themselves up until they get married. Once they are married they figure, "What the hell am I staying fit for? I have a man." Then he cheats on her and she'll wonder why. Women seem to think that their husbands are supposed to love them no matter what. Wrong! It's works both ways, though. I've seen so many men who are overweight expect their women to keep thin and look good but they themselves are 60lbs overweight. I don't pregnancy as an excuse either. My wife has had 4 children and is 40 now. She looks as good now as she did at 19 when I met her. It's called excercise. She doesn't sit still longer than 10 minutes.
Wackin-Z-Weasel

Watertown, NY

#18 May 5, 2012
PaulS1985 wrote:
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I agree with what you're saying. But, you will see that everywhere. We, too, have a Wal-Mart and if you go in it at any time you will see the same thing. My wife and do pretty well financially and she has to dress professionally for her job. She gets her clothes from Macy's (which isn't the expensive store people make it out to be), Target, and sometimes from Goodwill. As far as weight goes, most of that is from too much time sedentary and too much food. However, some of is due to money. Poorer people tend to buy more junk food than healthy food because it's cheaper. But that'll bite you in the arse later in life. Years of eating crap will make you less healthy over 40 and cause you to pay more in medical bills. It boils down to...pay less now...pay more later. Obesity also causes more medical issues. One thing that kills me is, women who take care of themselves up until they get married. Once they are married they figure, "What the hell am I staying fit for? I have a man." Then he cheats on her and she'll wonder why. Women seem to think that their husbands are supposed to love them no matter what. Wrong! It's works both ways, though. I've seen so many men who are overweight expect their women to keep thin and look good but they themselves are 60lbs overweight. I don't pregnancy as an excuse either. My wife has had 4 children and is 40 now. She looks as good now as she did at 19 when I met her. It's called excercise. She doesn't sit still longer than 10 minutes.
Just B E A utifull,WOW.You got to get yourself a hobby.

Since: Apr 12

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#19 May 5, 2012
I have many.
Bums

United States

#20 May 6, 2012
Paul is right on. One thing I have noticed is that today's less than fortunate youth, spend most of their time playing video games or watching TV. Back in the 80/90s only those more priveledged had video games. The less than fortunate were always at the park playing football or basketball. You don't see kids outside playing sports, tag, etc anymore, and the obesity and laziness problem starts young.

Back on the original topic, it is very rare to find a 40+ year old who actually works at staying attractive and classy. Around here most let themselves go. At the same time its hard to find younger guy with class and can treat a women right. Hence you have the older guy / younger woman mix.

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