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Brandy

Kingsport, TN

#1 Jul 16, 2013
I am of age now and I still do NOT know who my Dad is? My Mom said he was this guy, but then decided that he wasn't. Any help on how to find out ?
johhny wadd

United States

#2 Jul 16, 2013
what does "of age" mean? a legal adult?
lonestar

Jefferson City, TN

#3 Jul 16, 2013
Your mother should really be the one to tell you... unless of course she had too many partners to remember, which would be a shame.. then you have to track them all down and have paternity tests done. Good luck!
lost child

United States

#4 Jul 16, 2013
no worries Julie, kevin is your daddy

Since: Aug 11

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#5 Jul 16, 2013
Lol and here I thought since the other thread was pulled that it would be at least 3 more months til u guys *jessie trent and Holly alicia trent fields* would start crap up again. Clearly someone was asking a legit question.

To the person trying to find out who your dad is ....find out if it states it on your birth certificate. If not then ask your mom and other family. Best of luck. Hopefully your father is a better dad than mine!
Arnold

Kingsport, TN

#6 Jul 16, 2013
Who is your daddy, and what does he do?
70sMan

Johnson City, TN

#7 Jul 16, 2013
Brandy wrote:
I am of age now and I still do NOT know who my Dad is? My Mom said he was this guy, but then decided that he wasn't. Any help on how to find out ?
Talk with some of your mothers friends that she was close to during the time when she may have been with your real Daddy. It's VERY import that know and have that choice to have your Dad in your life.
blood

Kingsport, TN

#8 Jul 17, 2013
your mother should be the first to step up with a list of names. why did you have to wait 18 or more years to start looking? some dads are not worth looking for . some mothers are not worth staying with . some teenage kids treated their parents like crap and now the parents could care less .your own situation will open or close doors for you .
Brandy

Kingsport, TN

#9 Jul 17, 2013
Thanks to all responses. Of age is 18 for me. My birth certificate says father unknown....I found it in files and peeked. I will know ask some of my moms old friends that were around her then. I will have to ask who they were. Does it cost to do a DNA ?

Since: Aug 11

Location hidden

#10 Jul 17, 2013
Yes dna cost, but I'm sure it is worth it in the end to know the truth.
aunts and uncles

Cape Coral, FL

#11 Jul 17, 2013
Aunts uncles and neighbors of your mothers at the time she got pregnant know most everything. Especially family member will know whether they admit to it or not. Hopefully not one of them are. If you have some extra money genetic coding can (tthru dna testing) can tell u a lot about. Your parent(s). Happy hunting. But most ppl in this area regret finding their paternals, unfortunately.
Brandy

Kingsport, TN

#12 Jul 17, 2013
I am hoping for a better life than this hell I live in now. It's my mission to find my other side family. Thanks again for the help !
parent

Kingsport, TN

#13 Jul 17, 2013
now that brandy is 18 , you have chioces to make even though they may be limited , YOU DO HAVE CHIOCES . even though they may be the blame for you past , YOU control your future . if you are 18 and you are looking for a better life , why would you look to your father to give it to you ? maybe he dont know , maybe he dont care , but he would be proud if you made your own life instead of looking for someone else to take care of you . pull up your big girl panties and get to work or school . if your mother gave a crap , she would help or youre not telling the whole story .
julie stinks

Dillsboro, NC

#14 Jul 17, 2013
julie betcke-marshall wrote:
Lol and here I thought since the other thread was pulled that it would be at least 3 more months til u guys *jessie trent and Holly alicia trent fields* would start crap up again. Clearly someone was asking a legit question.
To the person trying to find out who your dad is ....find out if it states it on your birth certificate. If not then ask your mom and other family. Best of luck. Hopefully your father is a better dad than mine!
Once again, sticking your fat nose in where it doesn't belong.

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Dependability

Kingsport, TN

#15 Jul 17, 2013
Brandy wrote:
I am hoping for a better life than this hell I live in now. It's my mission to find my other side family. Thanks again for the help !
The most important lesson I have learned is that the ONLY person I can ALWAYS depend on is me. It seems that many people felt that parent's post was too harsh, but I agree with what they are trying to say. Regardless of your relationship with your parents, you are going to be better off when you decide to achieve the life you desire by your own accord. You may (finally) find your father only to be disappointed. For your sake, I hope you can find him and build a relationship. Try not to let your expectations of what he may be able to offer you be your motivation for locating him. Who knows? Your father's life may suck more than yours.
Wondering

Bristol, TN

#16 Jul 17, 2013
julie betcke-marshall wrote:
Lol and here I thought since the other thread was pulled that it would be at least 3 more months til u guys *jessie trent and Holly alicia trent fields* would start crap up again. Clearly someone was asking a legit question.
To the person trying to find out who your dad is ....find out if it states it on your birth certificate. If not then ask your mom and other family. Best of luck. Hopefully your father is a better dad than mine!
. If your dad is such a bad man, why did you take his side over your mothers? You didn't have a thing to do with her for a long time

Since: Aug 11

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#17 Jul 17, 2013
Lmao! Where are u getting your info? I yelled at my mom one time! And we continued to talk as usual. You need to get your facts straight JESSIE TRENT & HOLLY ALICIA TRENT FIELDS

Sorry to the person that started this post. This double trouble team just can't let things go.

Since: Aug 08

Kingsport, TN

#18 Jul 17, 2013
Call Maury.
julie stinks

Campobello, SC

#19 Jul 17, 2013
julie betcke-marshall wrote:
Lmao! Where are u getting your info? I yelled at my mom one time! And we continued to talk as usual. You need to get your facts straight JESSIE TRENT & HOLLY ALICIA TRENT FIELDS
Sorry to the person that started this post. This double trouble team just can't let things go.
You're getting off on this attention. Aren't ya?
Darth Vader

Martin, TN

#20 Jul 17, 2013
Brandy, Luke is your father and I am your grandfather.

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