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why do married men/women leave their families?

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lala

United States

#1 Oct 12, 2010
i just cannot understand why married men and women leave their families for some "strange"...my best friend's husband left his wife and children for a young piece of "strange." now his girlfriend is cheating on him. i just don't understand it. i love my family and would never betray them, and if i did want out, i would get a divorce before deceiving my family. what goes around will come back around...and that is the truth. nothing makes me happier than to see him and his girlfriend hurt, just like the way he hurt and betrayed his ex-wife and children. does anyone think that he will ever be truly happy with his new girlfriend...even if they stick it out for a few years?
lala2

Lenoir City, TN

#2 Oct 12, 2010
I left my husband because he was cheating on me and he was a liar. Women or men dont need to put up with this crap if he cheats or lies once he will do it again. Same with physical abuse. Leave these aituations or death can be a result.
oh boy

Rogersville, TN

#3 Oct 12, 2010
It would be so easy to have a pat answer for all of it. I was floored when I found out that a very Christian man cheated with a another married person. What he didn't know was that is what she does, finds men to give her money and believe her sob story. He smartened up, saved his marriage. She is on the troll, I saw her add on a singles web site. She is in love. Thats what her fb page says, poor sucker. What I told him was you can not make a relationship based on cheating and lies, how can you trust each other. I'm glad I never feel for it. Those that leave their families get what they deserve.
I Think

Nashville, TN

#4 Oct 12, 2010
I think married mean and women cheat on their husbands or wives because they never really cared about them in the first place. I mean, how can you be married an sleep with another person, how can a person share that special closeness with somebody else? Marriages these days are not like they use to be, just about everybody you know gets a divorce. Make sure when you get married that the person cares about you unconditionally.
I Think

Nashville, TN

#5 Oct 12, 2010
Oops, I meant to say MEN instead of mean
Reader

Mount Juliet, TN

#6 Oct 12, 2010
I would rather them leave their family than cheat on them behind closed doors. It would devastate me if my hubby left me for someone else, but I would be grateful not to be cheated on and lied to. I lost my best friend after she cheated on her husband. I just couldn't trust her anymore. If she was going to do that to him, what would she do to me? We tried to mend the friendship, but the damage was done. We are friendly, but I'll never feel the same about her. Her husband doesn't know, and that was another issue. I felt I was betraying him by keeping this secret. It still breaks my heart for him.
Law student

Cookeville, TN

#7 Oct 13, 2010
Because their will always be women like Bea Burns who would screw a snake if they could keep it still.and a few others here in good old Rogersville
just looking around

Nashville, TN

#8 Oct 14, 2010
The grass looks greener on the other side of the fence. When that grass starts to die, what are you left with? A pile of brown dirt.

“ I Love you guy's”

Since: Jun 08

Rogersville,Tennessee

#9 Oct 14, 2010
The bottom line is, they cheat, leave their spouse because they do not take their vows seriously.
The Judge

Maryville, TN

#10 Oct 21, 2010
Some times one of them die. and they must leave .

“ I Love you guy's”

Since: Jun 08

Rogersville,Tennessee

#11 Oct 21, 2010
The Judge wrote:
Some times one of them die. and they must leave .
I was taking it they were talking about cheating spouses.

You're right, in the case of death, this is a reason that a spouse would leave their soulmate.
The Judge

Maryville, TN

#12 Oct 21, 2010
I guess i always try to think the best of everyone. It is hard for me to believe anyone would cheat on someone they love.If they cheat they will pay.

Since: May 10

Rooted in Reality

#13 Oct 21, 2010
Grass may be greener on the other side of the fence but the 1 time I strayed I got my testicles caught up in the barbed wire. It ain't worth it.
Living it

Lenoir City, TN

#14 Oct 21, 2010
They cannot back down from temptation. They do not see what they have at home until its all gone.
The Judge

Maryville, TN

#15 Oct 22, 2010
They should say get behind me satan. cheaters can mess up so many lives. the kids .the grand partens the couples friends u r right it sure not worth it.
Just me

Morristown, TN

#16 Oct 22, 2010
I think its the world.Its gone to hell.The devil is destroying peoples lives and they are allowing it to happen.
Just Saying

Knoxville, TN

#17 Oct 22, 2010
Just me wrote:
I think its the world.Its gone to hell.The devil is destroying peoples lives and they are allowing it to happen.
You hit the nail right on the head. If you have Jesus in your heart, he will be in your marriage and you and he will raise your children. He is the best counsler you will ever have and he works for you 24/7. Daily walks and daily talks he offers us all.
Bohemian

Kingsport, TN

#18 Nov 11, 2010
Some say they do it because they are not happy but are so use to the person that they are married to that they do not want to leave and do not want to leave their children and hve to go through divorce court or child support court.. I personally think that they want to have their cake and eat it too.. They want the stability of a family but want to be able to have freedom to do what they want when they want. Sad fact is they cant have both. They dont understand they they end up hurting their spouse, kids and the other partner that they have. They lose respect of people and end up losing everything. End up with no cake at all. And the bad thing is that these days where there is so much adultry going on is that punishment for the crime os not really enforced anymore. I think that the punishment for it should be enforced to the max. Maybe then the divorce rate would go down.
Its not that hard to keep it in your pants long enough to get a divorce.
Jimmie

United States

#19 Nov 11, 2010
Buffy One wrote:
The bottom line is, they cheat, leave their spouse because they do not take their vows seriously.
They are not happy, if they were they would have never cheated. Dosn't matter if you have 13 kids and a wife if the man is not happy with the wife, he can find someone that will make him and his children happy. Dont stay married for the kids sake. because they know it!They would be better off if mommy and daddy did not live together anymore. They can still have their family but with a step-mother. or Step-Father.
deep thought

Oak Ridge, TN

#20 Nov 12, 2010
just looking around wrote:
The grass looks greener on the other side of the fence. When that grass starts to die, what are you left with? A pile of brown dirt.
If the grass is greener on the other side, water your grass.

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