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Confused

Kingsport, TN

#1 Jun 21, 2013
Why do men always seem to choose B's when they can choose between that & good girl that is going to be there for them?
heresathought

United States

#3 Jun 21, 2013
maybe the same reason that said man cheats on his wife with an ex,cause he can..lol
i believe

United States

#4 Jun 21, 2013
Confused wrote:
Why do men always seem to choose B's when they can choose between that & good girl that is going to be there for them?
it's 1 of 2 things....1) love scares them 2) they have no backbone because the B is in control and he can't handle the mental stress and don't want to deal with it... so, he gives up and goes back to the B. Especially if children is involved just makes things easier even if she's everything has ever wanted in a person1294
heresathought

United States

#5 Jun 21, 2013
I sit in wonder some times,I see people cheating on their partner,most often with an ex, and their partner doesnt want to see it or believe that they can change the cheater,once a cheater always a cheater.and if they are cheating I feel its better to end it and move on,hurts I know but easier in the long run
blah

United States

#6 Jun 21, 2013
who wants a cheater? If they cheat on their partner they will cheat on you too. Just give them time. Believe that!
Roger

United States

#7 Jun 21, 2013
Some of you women are so stupid! Don't believe everything a man tells you. There is two sides to every story. If someone really wants to leave they will get some balls and leave. They are not telling you the whole story darlin.
Confused

Kingsport, TN

#8 Jun 21, 2013
I'm not talking about a cheater. He was broke up with her when we met & all his family said how awful she always was, yelling & going nuts all the time. Then we started really getting close & I know he had feelings too then he suddenly ran back to her & won't even talk to me. I've seen it with friends before too though, guys always seem to choose the B? I don't get it?
blah

United States

#9 Jun 21, 2013
must have not not been that into you. just a thought. he must still love her.
comment

United States

#10 Jun 21, 2013
heresathought wrote:
I sit in wonder some times,I see people cheating on their partner,most often with an ex, and their partner doesnt want to see it or believe that they can change the cheater,once a cheater always a cheater.and if they are cheating I feel its better to end it and move on,hurts I know but easier in the long run
oh go ahead and say who it is your talkin about. I can tell its just eating you up inside.
the ex

Maggie Valley, NC

#11 Jun 21, 2013
Maybe the guy is so use to disapointment from this other girl from the past, that he expects it & looks for the bad to happen at anytime wirh you. When you look for sh....t, you will find it. If you are that great, he would have gave up looking by now and been happy with not finding any sh...t on you. Whipe your a$$ and don't be a B yourself and he will stay with you.
comment

United States

#12 Jun 21, 2013
I can't trust my partner as far as I could throw them. Always lying about stupid sh...t. Finding stuff all the time. Bad situation all around.
true

Seymour, TN

#13 Jun 22, 2013
i believe wrote:
<quoted text>it's 1 of 2 things....1) love scares them 2) they have no backbone because the B is in control and he can't handle the mental stress and don't want to deal with it... so, he gives up and goes back to the B. Especially if children is involved just makes things easier even if she's everything has ever wanted in a person1294
hello? hello? is this B?
everett

Bennettsville, SC

#14 Jun 22, 2013
Maybe She was looking for answers
curious

United States

#15 Jun 22, 2013
Why always try to find sumthing that isnt there?
Always lookin for sumin to accuse them of, when there's nothin there. Makes them start wondering what your doing, and that maybe they shud be askin you the questions your askin!
lonley

Charlotte, NC

#16 Jun 22, 2013
Where a man find a good woman IM looking lol
dr gonzo

Portage, MI

#17 Jun 22, 2013
curious wrote:
Why always try to find sumthing that isnt there?
Always lookin for sumin to accuse them of, when there's nothin there. Makes them start wondering what your doing, and that maybe they shud be askin you the questions your askin!
id say it has something to do with personality types. Someone who is a bitch is strongly appenionated assertive and sure of themselves. Were you are asking this question on a gossip page were you hope to find pity and someone tell you rhat you're a good person everythings gonna be alright you radiate vulnerability thus asking for abuse, or maybe you're hoping they will read this and know how you feel because you lack the tenacity to do so in person
Hmmmmmm

Kingsport, TN

#18 Jun 23, 2013
Maybe you're not as good as you think you are. No one sees fault in themselves, maybe you're actually a bigger B than the one he chose, and you just don't know it...
Confused

Kingsport, TN

#19 Jun 23, 2013
I probably am. I need to stop being encouraging & optimistic because that's obviously much more bitchy than screaming at a guy when I don't like something he does & kicking him out when he's having a rough time. Listening to them pore their heart out is cruel. Its nicer to be uninterested, un forgiving, and withdrawn??? OK, I'll act like that so that next time the guy will want to prove to ME that he's better than what he is told. Thanks for opening my eyes. I was just looking for insight to why guys always seem to ignore the girls that are really good for them & go for the ones that put them down even when chemistry is there? Maybe I just need to quit acting like the good girl.
flower

Powell, TN

#20 Jun 23, 2013
Confused wrote:
I probably am. I need to stop being encouraging & optimistic because that's obviously much more bitchy than screaming at a guy when I don't like something he does & kicking him out when he's having a rough time. Listening to them pore their heart out is cruel. Its nicer to be uninterested, un forgiving, and withdrawn??? OK, I'll act like that so that next time the guy will want to prove to ME that he's better than what he is told. Thanks for opening my eyes. I was just looking for insight to why guys always seem to ignore the girls that are really good for them & go for the ones that put them down even when chemistry is there? Maybe I just need to quit acting like the good girl.
you'll find the right guy. stay a good girl. don't go for someone who has baggage. that's the worse one to get involved with. do your homework on them before hand. good luck.
dr gonzo

Portage, MI

#21 Jun 23, 2013
Confused wrote:
I probably am. I need to stop being encouraging & optimistic because that's obviously much more bitchy than screaming at a guy when I don't like something he does & kicking him out when he's having a rough time. Listening to them pore their heart out is cruel. Its nicer to be uninterested, un forgiving, and withdrawn??? OK, I'll act like that so that next time the guy will want to prove to ME that he's better than what he is told. Thanks for opening my eyes. I was just looking for insight to why guys always seem to ignore the girls that are really good for them & go for the ones that put them down even when chemistry is there? Maybe I just need to quit acting like the good girl.
your sarcasm shows your lack of knowledge direction and ability to accept objective criticism. People with personality disorders and have a higher dominant personality tend to do bad things to people who care and then feed them a sob story even cry an swear they will change its called the cycle of abuse. And sorry to tell you the only chemistry there is yours his is merely lust grow up and move on you've been in this situation before and you always will study a lul psychology and learn the signs and traits or continue with your know it all attitude and continue being a victim

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