wives how do you feel about husbands watching porn

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crazy white

Kingsport, TN

#1 Jan 9, 2010
Ladies do you allow your hubby to watch porn?
Tarzan

United States

#2 Jan 9, 2010
Guttersnipe Alert!
If someone watches porn, they should be ashamed. If their wife (or husband) talks about it on Topix, it somehow makes it more acceptable than it already seems to be.Lately I see one filthy conversation after another.
Seriously, all the gossip and bashing have become the norm here on Topix. Many honest, gentle folk have been run off by the low morals of a few. I am sick of it! I refuse to get down in the gutter with the degenerates here.
Maybe I will find another forum to associate with.
Reader

Nashville, TN

#3 Jan 9, 2010
Personally, I think that is a valid question, not gutter talk. In my opinion, porn is wrong and sleazy, but I recognize there are many otherwise moral and Christian people that engage in this activity. I've heard the argument that as long as the husband and wife watch it together it can enhance their intimacy. I don't agree that bringing anyone from the outside, whether real or on a tv/computer screen, can make the relationship stronger. I have caught my husband viewing it and it has created serious issues for us. He says its normal, and I disagree. I'm also curious what others' opinions are.
curious

Johnson City, TN

#4 Jan 9, 2010
crazy white wrote:
Ladies do you allow your hubby to watch porn?
where can you rent porn in Rogersville? Charter is to expensive.

“Just here for laughs”

Since: Sep 09

Eidson, TN

#5 Jan 9, 2010
Well, I will be honest...My husband and I both like it. It adds some excitement. It would be different if we knew the people in the movies but we don't and if we only watch it from time to time, it's ok. Neither of us have an addiction to it although,I once had a friend that really had a problem. I guess it just depends on the person. It just adds a quick bit of spice to ours. For some, if it's between your husband watching porn and him actually going into the real world looking for that excitement, I would choose the porn. lol. I am not saying that it fixes anything but I do believe that if he is faithful to you, then there shouldn't be an issue of him watching porn...especially if he's making you happy in that area of you relationship. However, if he isn't, he shouldn't be watching ANYTHING other than the Golden Girls unless that gets his rocks off.Haha
well

United States

#6 Jan 9, 2010
why yeah especially if you watch it with them
master chowder

United States

#7 Jan 9, 2010
What a person does in their private life is their own business and nobody else's. However, anyone that looks at porn is engaging in the lasciviousness and covetousness that the bible strictly admonishes us against. Not to mention that a lot of the people that participate in these movies are being exploited and subjected to disease. Watching porn is disgusting, immoral, and condoning of sexual perversion, and you are no better than the gays and the child molesters.
Good uns

Kingsport, TN

#8 Jan 9, 2010
curious wrote:
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where can you rent porn in Rogersville? Charter is to expensive.
You have the Internet and you want to rent porn? That's like having a full tank and looking for a gas station.

“Tell the Truth!!”

Since: Sep 09

Location hidden

#9 Jan 9, 2010
I personally do not have a problem with my man watching it as long as he lets me know about it or watches it with me... I am a very open person, and the way I see it is it keeps things fresh with us and keeps him happy.. At least he is not going and getting lovin from somewhere else... I don't tell him what he can or cant do nor do I tell him what he can or cant watch.. And he is the same with me. It keep or relationship fun and exciting..
opened eyed

Schaumburg, IL

#10 Jan 9, 2010
SO ....what ....PORN... shhhhhhh. porn is awesome. watch it......i am a female and i love porn.....if my man suggest porn im all for itttt.:):):):)girls please dont be so insucure....TRY IT!!!!!!! U MIGHT LIKE IT.
degraded

Morristown, TN

#11 Jan 13, 2010
when i found out my husband was watching porn it realy hurt. we had no problem with our sex life .now i feel if he has 2 watch porn 2 have sex with me just forget it. he said it has nothing 2 do with that he started looking at playboy when he was young then got 2 watching porn but the damage was allready done.so if u men have a good thing going dont screw it up by making your wife feel bad and unwonted it is degrading.
Huh

Franklin, TN

#12 Jan 17, 2010
I think it is very disrespectful to the woman. If a man is happy with a woman, and she is the "love of his life", why would he need to look at other women naked? Even if you don't know the people in the videos, as someone said above, what if your daughter was in a video like that one day and other men were watching it?
meandhubby

Kingsport, TN

#13 Jan 29, 2010
Ok I caught my hubby watching porn the other day and it really broke my heart. First of all because I felt like I was the problem and the reason he resorted to it and secondly he didnt come out and tell me he wanted to watch it. I think if he asked me to watch it with him it wouldnt be a big deal but the fact that he didnt really hurts me. He hid it from me. Also he is fantasizing over something that I could never look like in a million years. Then that leaves room for the wife thinking if he likes this type why is he with me or if hes watching this then he might go out and cheat just as easy.

“Working for a living”

Since: Oct 08

Lexington, KY

#14 Jan 30, 2010
I watch it with my hubby. I don't find it degrading or "evil". It spices things up and makes things fun. Porn stars are paid. They know what they are doing is going to be seen be millions of people.

“Working for a living”

Since: Oct 08

Lexington, KY

#15 Jan 30, 2010
master chowder wrote:
What a person does in their private life is their own business and nobody else's. However, anyone that looks at porn is engaging in the lasciviousness and covetousness that the bible strictly admonishes us against. Not to mention that a lot of the people that participate in these movies are being exploited and subjected to disease. Watching porn is disgusting, immoral, and condoning of sexual perversion, and you are no better than the gays and the child molesters.
No one but you brought up gays. I have seen you bring this up quite a bit. Makes one think that perhaps you have some issues with it that you should reevaluate your own sexuality. Porn is not disgusting nor does it make you gay. Unless of course you are the one renting gay porn in which case I would suggest you admit that you may be gay and should question your own sexuality. Watching porn does not make a person a child molester!

“old fart has wise cracks!”

Since: Dec 09

Hickory NC

#16 Jan 30, 2010
fuzzynuts21 wrote:
Well, I will be honest...My husband and I both like it. It adds some excitement. It would be different if we knew the people in the movies but we don't and if we only watch it from time to time, it's ok. Neither of us have an addiction to it although,I once had a friend that really had a problem. I guess it just depends on the person. It just adds a quick bit of spice to ours. For some, if it's between your husband watching porn and him actually going into the real world looking for that excitement, I would choose the porn. lol. I am not saying that it fixes anything but I do believe that if he is faithful to you, then there shouldn't be an issue of him watching porn...especially if he's making you happy in that area of you relationship. However, if he isn't, he shouldn't be watching ANYTHING other than the Golden Girls unless that gets his rocks off.Haha
do you have a sister ?

“old fart has wise cracks!”

Since: Dec 09

Hickory NC

#17 Jan 30, 2010
opened eyed wrote:
SO ....what ....PORN... shhhhhhh. porn is awesome. watch it......i am a female and i love porn.....if my man suggest porn im all for itttt.:):):):)girls please dont be so insecure....TRY IT!!!!!!! U MIGHT LIKE IT.
where were you went i was traveling to loudon tn every 2 weeks ? i got a great selection !
why not

Kingsport, TN

#18 Jan 30, 2010
master chowder wrote:
What a person does in their private life is their own business and nobody else's. However, anyone that looks at porn is engaging in the lasciviousness and covetousness that the bible strictly admonishes us against. Not to mention that a lot of the people that participate in these movies are being exploited and subjected to disease. Watching porn is disgusting, immoral, and condoning of sexual perversion, and you are no better than the gays and the child molesters.
let me tell you something I watch it never have had the first thought of molesting a child you are a sicko to even talk about doing something like that im sure a lot of women would much rather that there husbands r watch that instead of going out on them and no I dont watch child porn nor do I watch gay porn me and my wife have watched it togETHER does that make her a child molester no dont think so I believe you have aproblem not us cause you was the one brought up kiddy porn and gay porn maybe you need some help
daydreamer

United States

#19 Jan 30, 2010
Ladies! Be confident! Have confidence in yourself,your body and making love with your man!! If your hubby wants to watch it, freaking out about it will not help any situation. He knows you won't look like that,he doesn't want you to. Men are visual,as we are emotional. Porn to them is like flowers,candles and a massage to us. Seriously,lighten up. Porn can do wonders for your sex life,you can get ideas for positions and role play,its endless. Its women who are shut in and not confident and close minded are the ones that usually get cheated on! My husband and I have an understanding,if he wants to watch it fine,we can watch it together. We have an AMAZING sex life after over 5 years and 3 kids. I actually plan on writing a book soon on how to spice up a relationship.

“Working for a living”

Since: Oct 08

Lexington, KY

#20 Jan 30, 2010
daydreamer wrote:
Ladies! Be confident! Have confidence in yourself,your body and making love with your man!! If your hubby wants to watch it, freaking out about it will not help any situation. He knows you won't look like that,he doesn't want you to. Men are visual,as we are emotional. Porn to them is like flowers,candles and a massage to us. Seriously,lighten up. Porn can do wonders for your sex life,you can get ideas for positions and role play,its endless. Its women who are shut in and not confident and close minded are the ones that usually get cheated on! My husband and I have an understanding,if he wants to watch it fine,we can watch it together. We have an AMAZING sex life after over 5 years and 3 kids. I actually plan on writing a book soon on how to spice up a relationship.
Good for you! And well said.

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