Newtown Shooting: Advice to parents to help kids cope

Dec 14, 2012 Full story: Rochester Democrat and Chronicle 34

As news continues to come out about the horrific school shooting Friday in Connecticut, experts say it's important for parents to ensure their children can express their feelings and concerns about what happened.

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The Crunch Funky

Rochester, NY

#22 Dec 19, 2012
lar da bull wrote:
We all need to look at ourselves. We are a very sick society. Just look at all the hatred That we have for each other. I would say probably 60 percent of this Site is filled with hate. We say things about each other that is ugly. We hate black people we hate white people we hate anyone That is different than us. We are all scared of things It's love not hate they will bring change to this world. Remember the people that die in this country everyday to violence is somebody's love one and very easily could be your love one. your daughter your son your mother your father. now if you want to concentrate on my grammar rather than my words and their meanings that's up to you. we're all in this world together and need to learn to get along.
very well said. We are also an Nation filled with hypocrisy. We call it a choice when we murder those in the womb who never even took the first breathe. We applaude when innocent people are executed on death row. Murder, killings, abortions are all taking of lives. Yet, we ignore murders in minority communities but shine the light bright when murders happen in wealthy towns. We watch movies on TV and the theatre littered with violence. We send mix messages everyday--we are hypocrites for sure.

“The QUEEN BEE has spoken”

Since: Aug 09

Don't get STUNG!

#23 Dec 19, 2012
The Crunch Funky wrote:
<quoted text>
very well said. We are also an Nation filled with hypocrisy. We call it a choice when we murder those in the womb who never even took the first breathe. We applaude when innocent people are executed on death row. Murder, killings, abortions are all taking of lives. Yet, we ignore murders in minority communities but shine the light bright when murders happen in wealthy towns. We watch movies on TV and the theatre littered with violence. We send mix messages everyday--we are hypocrites for sure.
You've said a mouthful.
Bigsingle

Rochester, NY

#24 Dec 20, 2012
SINCE 26 PEOPLE LOST THEIR LIVES TO A WHITE MASS MURDERER ALL AT ONCE, WILL YOU BELIEVE ME NOW THAT MURDER HAS NO SKIN COLOR ATTACHED? I NOTICED THE BLACK KILLING THREADS HAVE SLOWED DOWN. BLACKS KILL HOW MANY A YEAR IN ROCHESTER? 34 OR SO? WELL HOW IS 26 IN ONE SHOOTING? PLUS THE MALL SHOOTING THE FRIDAY BEFORE THAT, WHITE MALE KILLS TWO. HOW ABOUT THE MURDER SUICIDE OF 4 WHITES KILLED TUESDAY OF THIS WEEK. NOW WILL YOU STOP TALKING ABOUT MURDER VICTIMS AND THE KILLERS BEING BLACK ALL THE TIME? YOU'D BETTER, ONE SHOOTING 26 KILLED, 34 SHOOTINGS, 30 KILLED? I CAN'T HEAR YOU WHITE RACISTS. BARNFART THE REAL ONE: YOU MEAN, THEY HAVE CUT YOU AND THE CITY OF ROCHESTER SLACK THROUGH SHAME? YEP, I TOLD YOU, MURDER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH COLOR. OR SHALL WE TALK ABOUT IT?

“Reality is settling in...”

Since: Nov 08

Stop sweating the small stuff.

#25 Dec 20, 2012
Bigsingle wrote:
SINCE 26 PEOPLE LOST THEIR LIVES TO A WHITE MASS MURDERER ALL AT ONCE, WILL YOU BELIEVE ME NOW THAT MURDER HAS NO SKIN COLOR ATTACHED? I NOTICED THE BLACK KILLING THREADS HAVE SLOWED DOWN. BLACKS KILL HOW MANY A YEAR IN ROCHESTER? 34 OR SO? WELL HOW IS 26 IN ONE SHOOTING? PLUS THE MALL SHOOTING THE FRIDAY BEFORE THAT, WHITE MALE KILLS TWO. HOW ABOUT THE MURDER SUICIDE OF 4 WHITES KILLED TUESDAY OF THIS WEEK. NOW WILL YOU STOP TALKING ABOUT MURDER VICTIMS AND THE KILLERS BEING BLACK ALL THE TIME? YOU'D BETTER, ONE SHOOTING 26 KILLED, 34 SHOOTINGS, 30 KILLED? I CAN'T HEAR YOU WHITE RACISTS. BARNFART THE REAL ONE: YOU MEAN, THEY HAVE CUT YOU AND THE CITY OF ROCHESTER SLACK THROUGH SHAME? YEP, I TOLD YOU, MURDER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH COLOR. OR SHALL WE TALK ABOUT IT?
AAAAAMMMMMMEN....That incident shut them down and Shut them up.
No sympathy for City Thug

Rochester, NY

#26 Dec 20, 2012
Bigsingle wrote:
SINCE 26 PEOPLE LOST THEIR LIVES TO A WHITE MASS MURDERER ALL AT ONCE, WILL YOU BELIEVE ME NOW THAT MURDER HAS NO SKIN COLOR ATTACHED? I NOTICED THE BLACK KILLING THREADS HAVE SLOWED DOWN. BLACKS KILL HOW MANY A YEAR IN ROCHESTER? 34 OR SO? WELL HOW IS 26 IN ONE SHOOTING? PLUS THE MALL SHOOTING THE FRIDAY BEFORE THAT, WHITE MALE KILLS TWO. HOW ABOUT THE MURDER SUICIDE OF 4 WHITES KILLED TUESDAY OF THIS WEEK. NOW WILL YOU STOP TALKING ABOUT MURDER VICTIMS AND THE KILLERS BEING BLACK ALL THE TIME? YOU'D BETTER, ONE SHOOTING 26 KILLED, 34 SHOOTINGS, 30 KILLED? I CAN'T HEAR YOU WHITE RACISTS. BARNFART THE REAL ONE: YOU MEAN, THEY HAVE CUT YOU AND THE CITY OF ROCHESTER SLACK THROUGH SHAME? YEP, I TOLD YOU, MURDER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH COLOR. OR SHALL WE TALK ABOUT IT?
380 killed in Detroit
and 500 in Chicago this year alone so far, still got 11 days to go. 75% were Cullerds. You still have a disproportionate amount of killings for only being 13% of the total population.

Since: Jun 12

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#27 Dec 20, 2012
Bigsingle wrote:
SINCE 26 PEOPLE LOST THEIR LIVES TO A WHITE MASS MURDERER ALL AT ONCE, WILL YOU BELIEVE ME NOW THAT MURDER HAS NO SKIN COLOR ATTACHED? I NOTICED THE BLACK KILLING THREADS HAVE SLOWED DOWN. BLACKS KILL HOW MANY A YEAR IN ROCHESTER? 34 OR SO? WELL HOW IS 26 IN ONE SHOOTING? PLUS THE MALL SHOOTING THE FRIDAY BEFORE THAT, WHITE MALE KILLS TWO. HOW ABOUT THE MURDER SUICIDE OF 4 WHITES KILLED TUESDAY OF THIS WEEK. NOW WILL YOU STOP TALKING ABOUT MURDER VICTIMS AND THE KILLERS BEING BLACK ALL THE TIME? YOU'D BETTER, ONE SHOOTING 26 KILLED, 34 SHOOTINGS, 30 KILLED? I CAN'T HEAR YOU WHITE RACISTS. BARNFART THE REAL ONE: YOU MEAN, THEY HAVE CUT YOU AND THE CITY OF ROCHESTER SLACK THROUGH SHAME? YEP, I TOLD YOU, MURDER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH COLOR. OR SHALL WE TALK ABOUT IT?
My issue is NOT with the color of the murderers in Rochester. My issue is about the NUMBER of killings. That makes 30+ murderers walking the streets of Rochester. Not to mention the 100+ actual shootings in The Roc where the victim was lucky enough to live. So get off your high horse and stop your denial. We KNOW this guy was a freakin lunatic. Can't stop one lunatic. But can we work on lowering the number of INDIVIDUAL murders here that amount to over 30+! And cut down on the actual shootings that occur all over Rochester on a weekly basis.

So...No. I am NOT giving the City of Rochester slack...not for one iota. The Greater Rochester area is falling apart...going to hell in a handbasket...not a race thing...

Since: Dec 12

United States

#28 Dec 20, 2012
No sympathy for City Thug wrote:
<quoted text>
380 killed in Detroit
and 500 in Chicago this year alone so far, still got 11 days to go. 75% were Cullerds. You still have a disproportionate amount of killings for only being 13% of the total population.
Really. We all come from the same God . But you probably don't believe in God Because if you did you know he'll be waiting for you when the time comes. I hope you like it nice and warm
Trigger Happy Crackers

Rochester, NY

#29 Dec 20, 2012
Steel City Steelers wrote:
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My issue is NOT with the color of the murderers in Rochester. My issue is about the NUMBER of killings. That makes 30+ murderers walking the streets of Rochester. Not to mention the 100+ actual shootings in The Roc where the victim was lucky enough to live. So get off your high horse and stop your denial. We KNOW this guy was a freakin lunatic. Can't stop one lunatic. But can we work on lowering the number of INDIVIDUAL murders here that amount to over 30+! And cut down on the actual shootings that occur all over Rochester on a weekly basis.
So...No. I am NOT giving the City of Rochester slack...not for one iota. The Greater Rochester area is falling apart...going to hell in a handbasket...not a race thing...
Really ? Well did ya find the link and listen to those scanner calls too? If listening and making fun of their trauma helps...have at it. Hypocrite!
RacistFireCrotch BarnFart

Rochester, NY

#30 Dec 20, 2012
Steel City Steelers wrote:
<quoted text>
My issue is NOT with the color of the murderers in Rochester. My issue is about the NUMBER of killings. That makes 30+ murderers walking the streets of Rochester. Not to mention the 100+ actual shootings in The Roc where the victim was lucky enough to live. So get off your high horse and stop your denial. We KNOW this guy was a freakin lunatic. Can't stop one lunatic. But can we work on lowering the number of INDIVIDUAL murders here that amount to over 30+! And cut down on the actual shootings that occur all over Rochester on a weekly basis.
So...No. I am NOT giving the City of Rochester slack...not for one iota. The Greater Rochester area is falling apart...going to hell in a handbasket...not a race thing...
Wrong wrong wrong

Since: Jun 12

Location hidden

#31 Dec 20, 2012
Trigger Happy Crackers wrote:
<quoted text>
Really ? Well did ya find the link and listen to those scanner calls too? If listening and making fun of their trauma helps...have at it. Hypocrite!
You are downright obsessed. smh. Get a grip on yourself. Look at your username....need I say more...
Hmmm

Rochester, NY

#33 Dec 21, 2012
lar da bull wrote:
<quoted text> I'm glad to hear that.. hate is like a drug. We do it to make ourself feel better maybe we should all work on our inner self. feeling good about who we are might allow us to feel good about others
You really need to pay attention to this board to know that was sarcasm.
Hmmm

Rochester, NY

#34 Dec 21, 2012
Just listened to the bells toll. Dont' get why they included one for the killer (28).
Dizzy Dingy Dzinzi

Rochester, NY

#35 Dec 21, 2012
Hmmm wrote:
Just listened to the bells toll. Dont' get why they included one for the killer (28).
cause he's WHITE and dead too.....duh!!! White got empathy for one another regardless to how evil they are. Evil loves evil.
Carol Ling

Rochester, NY

#36 Dec 30, 2012
lar da bull wrote:
<quoted text> Really. We all come from the same God . But you probably don't believe in God Because if you did you know he'll be waiting for you when the time comes. I hope you like it nice and warm
There is no "God", if he was so all powerful and omnipotent, then why hasn't he destroyed Satan? He allegedly created him, so he can easily get rid of him.

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