Reform $ex Offender Laws

Reform $ex Offender Laws

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pigpen911

Since: Mar 11

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#3 Nov 5, 2012
You were a 23 year old ADULT and were having sex with a 16 year old CHILD so now you want people feel sorry for you? YUP,I feel sorry,I am sorry that you didn't get 25 years. Than you have the nerve to collect SSID because you are "talked about" and it upsets you,too freaken bad.They should throw losers like you out of the system for life creep.Go spew your B/S someplace else like NABLA. If that was my daughter the only thing you would collect a very short painful life.
Yeah

Rochester, NY

#4 Nov 5, 2012
Yeah, what pigpen said. If that was my kid then I would have slaughtered you. 16 is just a child and you took advantage of her naivety. You knew the stakes and you accepted the risk. Anyone with a daughter doesn't care about your problem and are glad you are having a hard time with it. Most people without a daughter don't give a s**t either. Posting this crap here only shows how immature and stupid you are.
Not so sure

Rochester, NY

#5 Nov 5, 2012
Yeah wrote:
Yeah, what pigpen said. If that was my kid then I would have slaughtered you. 16 is just a child and you took advantage of her naivety. You knew the stakes and you accepted the risk. Anyone with a daughter doesn't care about your problem and are glad you are having a hard time with it. Most people without a daughter don't give a s**t either. Posting this crap here only shows how immature and stupid you are.
Same response posted in the Utica forum:
http://www.topix.com/forum/city/utica-ny/TLR6...

Tell us about the parents of this girl. Did they know that you were seeing her? Were they in the picture? Were you hiding this relationship from anyone to avoid getting in trouble? How come you took the plea deal?
Truth

Pittsford, NY

#6 Nov 5, 2012
Sex offenders are stigmatized more than any other group of criminals. That comes down to it just being thought of as a disgusting crime. They don't even have the highest recidivism rates. Thieves have the highest rates, yet don't have their addresses published when they are released.

Released prisoners with the highest rearrest rates were robbers (70.2%), burglars (74.0%), larcenists (74.6%), motor vehicle thieves (78.8%), those in prison for possessing or selling stolen property (77.4%), and those in prison for possessing, using, or selling illegal weapons (70.2%).

Within 3 years, 2.5% of released rapists were arrested for another rape, and 1.2% of those who had served time for homicide were arrested for homicide.


http://bjs.ojp.usdoj.gov/index.cfm...
Kewl

Blossvale, NY

#7 Nov 5, 2012
Wow, such hate! Elvis was banging Priscilla when she was 14, Rob Lowe Video Taped himself and a 16 year old, Kelsey grammer was Banging his babysitter when she was 16, R. kelly video taped himself having sex and peeing on a 16 year old girl and not to mention 16 is legal in over 30 states. Good thing your in the minority as when I was a teenage girl i always dated older men! It's normal. Not a crime shoot I probably searched them out. Laws must change I dont see anyone calling these famous actors perverts. So Sad the times in which we life.
pigpen911 wrote:
You were a 23 year old ADULT and were having sex with a 16 year old CHILD so now you want people feel sorry for you? YUP,I feel sorry,I am sorry that you didn't get 25 years. Than you have the nerve to collect SSID because you are "talked about" and it upsets you,too freaken bad.They should throw losers like you out of the system for life creep.Go spew your B/S someplace else like NABLA. If that was my daughter the only thing you would collect a very short painful life.
So Sad

Blossvale, NY

#8 Nov 5, 2012
Actually, yes the Father used to buy Marijuana from me and the mother would bring her over from time to time. When we broke up is when she filed charges.
Not so sure wrote:
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Same response posted in the Utica forum:
http://www.topix.com/forum/city/utica-ny/TLR6...
Tell us about the parents of this girl. Did they know that you were seeing her? Were they in the picture? Were you hiding this relationship from anyone to avoid getting in trouble? How come you took the plea deal?
Not so sure

Rochester, NY

#9 Nov 5, 2012
So Sad wrote:
Actually, yes the Father used to buy Marijuana from me and the mother would bring her over from time to time. When we broke up is when she filed charges.
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Jeez, seems like the parents could have been brought up on charges as well if they knew what was going on. Have you talked to a lawyer about getting off the registry?

pigpen911

Since: Mar 11

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#10 Nov 5, 2012
Kewl wrote:
Wow, such hate! Elvis was banging Priscilla when she was 14, Rob Lowe Video Taped himself and a 16 year old, Kelsey grammer was Banging his babysitter when she was 16, R. kelly video taped himself having sex and peeing on a 16 year old girl and not to mention 16 is legal in over 30 states. Good thing your in the minority as when I was a teenage girl i always dated older men! It's normal. Not a crime shoot I probably searched them out. Laws must change I dont see anyone calling these famous actors perverts. So Sad the times in which we life.
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So you are saying it is O.K. in your world for an adult to have sex with child? At what age does it become a crime in your mind? Because Hollywood slezeballs do it you are O.K. with it? You need to get some help if you believe what you posted. As far as I am concerned all of the trash you mentioned should have been locked up for being child rapists along with your boyfiend.
Injustice

Blossvale, NY

#11 Nov 5, 2012
As I wrote in the First Post Level 2 is a Lifetime Registration now, when I plead Guilty they told me 10 years. The only way to get off the Registry as a Level 2 is to Petition the court to lower my Level to a Level 1, then if granted after 20 years i can be asked to be removed. Just isn't right!! If I killed your 16 year odl daughter and did time and was released I wouldn't have to let my neighbors know even if they had 10 daughters. Lol, So one sided.
Not so sure wrote:
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Jeez, seems like the parents could have been brought up on charges as well if they knew what was going on. Have you talked to a lawyer about getting off the registry?
Injustice

Blossvale, NY

#12 Nov 5, 2012
pigpen911 wrote:
<quoted text>So you are saying it is O.K. in your world for an adult to have sex with child? At what age does it become a crime in your mind? Because Hollywood slezeballs do it you are O.K. with it? You need to get some help if you believe what you posted. As far as I am concerned all of the trash you mentioned should have been locked up for being child rapists along with your boyfiend.
Never said it was ok and If given the chance knowing what I know it would not have happened. As I said over 30 states 16 is legal , not in this one. I admit I broke the Law and Agreed to a Plea deal. That was 10 years on the list , it was changed to life. I did my time I just want to move on. I raised my own daughter I wasnt that much of a danger to have custody of her. I couldnt attend her school plays or pick her up from school. Or attend her graduation from high school. I was allowed FULL custody though.
As I said i admit I broke NYS Law and I accepted that I would be punished. I would like the chance to move on with my life and be a protective member of society. I have not been arrested since. My girlfriend now is 8 years older than myself, i am not seeking out younger girls. i made a mistake 20 years ago and just want to move on. In 32 states it's not a crime in NY I am a Monster for life? Yet I am granted Custody of my daughter? I don't condone what I did or advocate it, just want a chance to redeem myself. By not being arrested in the past 20 years and raising a wonderful daughter who is now in college, amazingly with the harrassment she received from my behavior prior to her birth. She endured alot of slack from this. I wish I knew the repecussions of my actions prior to my actions I can guarentee It would not have happened. Just dont think I sholuld be punished for life for it!
yeah

Rochester, NY

#13 Nov 5, 2012
Out of curiosity, I just visited the registry and was appalled. There are a lot of crimes against 16 year olds as is your case. But there are also a lot of forced sex crimes against 5-12 year olds. This is inexcusable. What's even more disturbing is that some of these guys (ladies too) didn't even see any prison time. I am guessing that they were offered a deal to spare the kids?

So, yeah, somebody drew the line and it was drawn at 16, like it or not. Now, you keep throwing out the term 'consensual' as if that makes everything OK but the fact is that, in legal terms, you were having sex with a child and that child does not legally have the ability to consent to sex, ergo rape. 16 year olds are pretty immature. Hell, 18 year olds are pretty immature, I know, I've got one living at home and he is far from having the decision making skills required to live on his own. Of course a 16 year old is going to want to date an older guy, she has the benefits of a ride, access to alcohol and, in your case, weed. She basically had the benefits of hanging with an adult and a peer at the same time. For a 16 year old, this is nirvana and is hard for a 16 year old to resist. You took advantage of that.

Now we also have the pot-head dad and enabling Mom. Honestly, I don't know how you didn't see this coming. What was your exit strategy here? Like I said, the line is drawn at 16 and you what you did was really stupid. I don't know if you can get off the registry but you have to realize that even though it doesn't seem like having 'consensual' sex with a 16 year old is a big deal, these laws are in place to protect kids 5 through 16 and that's just how the line is drawn. With all the stuff going on in the world today you aren't going to garner much support from the general population because they just don't care. There are bigger fish to fry.
True

Blossvale, NY

#14 Nov 5, 2012
But in more than 1/2 the country 1 is legal and not even the slightest crime. While here you are a monster for life. Look through out the world and see the ages of consent. Italy 14, The Vatican the Head of the Catholic Church as the age of consent at 12!!!!! Of corse I think this is horrible but this is an incredibly harsh punihment. I plead to 10 years on the list and they nicrease it without a hearing or anything. No where in the World but America and Britain do we ostrisize such people for life. How can it be completely legal in 32 states but a Felony Monster in another? I was 23 young stupid using drugs and not thinking I took responsibility for my actions and plead guilty. Did not agree to a lifetime of persicution!
genocidethemoron s

Rochester, NY

#15 Nov 5, 2012
genocide!
What If

Blossvale, NY

#17 Nov 6, 2012
What if forgiveness was a law not just an idea?

Since: Jan 11

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#18 Nov 6, 2012
How is it going Shelley Albritton? Nice picture in the register. Maybe you should not have sex with a child, it is wrong, it is also illegal.
RacistFireCrotch BarnFart

Fairport, NY

#19 Nov 6, 2012
I bet your white.

Whites always wanna make things they do legal, like smoke weed, have sex with kids, and drink and drive.
Yes

Blossvale, NY

#20 Nov 6, 2012
So do Blacks. Remember Slavery used to be legal. It was whites that voted and changed that. Maybe we shouldn't question any laws. I believe they have a system similiaar to that it China it's called a communist Goverment. or a DictatorShip.
RacistFireCrotch BarnFart

Fairport, NY

#21 Nov 6, 2012
Well now that blacks can vote, maybe we should vote to make it legal to own whites as slaves.
I do not understand

Blossvale, NY

#22 Nov 6, 2012
Ok so he had consetual sex with a 16 year old. I get it, its wrong but why a lifetime registration? A DA's Brother did this exact same thing in Oneida County he was charged with Rape 3rd same croime, but they allowed him to plead down to a misd that did not include him to register. He commited the same act as this man and the same act I commited over 20 years ago, why is he not a danger. He did the same thing. I wonder if him being the Da's brother had anything to do with it? OF COURSE IT DID!!! Why because your brothers a Da can you sleep with a 16 year old and it gets dropped to a misd and you dont have to register but others do? The act is the same and he should be just as big a danger as anyone else who does it? Lawrence Taylor also was charged with Rape 3rd but is only a Level 1. Seems if you have money or your related to a DA or Judge your not as big a danger. I call BULLSHlT!
Naughtyrobot wrote:
How is it going Shelley Albritton? Nice picture in the register. Maybe you should not have sex with a child, it is wrong, it is also illegal.
RacistFireCrotch BarnFart

Fairport, NY

#23 Nov 6, 2012
I think its weird the rapist have to register after getting out of jail, but murderers do not.

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