Murder suspect called stalker

Nov 6, 2007 | Posted by: roboblogger | Full story: Detroit Free Press

“She was afraid he was going to kill her”

Xavier Chase had been stalking his former girlfriend ever since she ended their on-again, off-again relationship a year ago, police said Monday. via Detroit Free Press

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manny

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Jun 20, 2008
 
I woked with xavier for very many years and saw how many girlfriends he had, i knew a handfull of them, i never was scared of him and i new he was in jail before,he told me he would never go back to jail over a girl is wasnt worth it, now look where he is. it is a shame, i also worked with rema that is were the two meet, i told her he had lots of girl friends, she would show me the poems he would write to her them seemed scary i thought she liked them. RIP rema you didnt desearve this
Calvin

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#22
Sep 9, 2008
 
In 1995, Calvin and I graduated from the Criminal Justice Academy and worked together until my departure several years later. I always thought highly of Calvin. Later, I was informed that he was released from duty and had moved away. Just this morning, I contacted a colleague from our past and was told of Calvin's death. My prayers are with Calvin's family and children as I met them many years ago. My prayers also go out to the woman's family. The shame of it all is that Calvin and I worked a homicide just like this one...
Sheryl

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#23
Nov 26, 2008
 
I just found out about this story and was wondering if it was the same Rema Reed I used to know - looks like it is. Our friendship was long over but I certainly didn't want to hear this about her.
Rebecca

Trenton, MI

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#24
Nov 30, 2008
 
Sheryl wrote:
I just found out about this story and was wondering if it was the same Rema Reed I used to know - looks like it is. Our friendship was long over but I certainly didn't want to hear this about her.
I dated Xavier about 2 years ago and had contact with himuntil November 2007 when his phone was disconnected, I now know why. I am shocked. I thought he was nice, sensitive, I had no idea he had killed before or that he was capable of doing all of these horrific things. I am sorry for the two people he murdered and their family. But i thank god that he is behind bars - where he obviously belongs.
Renea

Trenton, MI

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Nov 30, 2008
 
manny wrote:
I woked with xavier for very many years and saw how many girlfriends he had, i knew a handfull of them, i never was scared of him and i new he was in jail before,he told me he would never go back to jail over a girl is wasnt worth it, now look where he is. it is a shame, i also worked with rema that is were the two meet, i told her he had lots of girl friends, she would show me the poems he would write to her them seemed scary i thought she liked them. RIP rema you didnt desearve this
Yes one of them was probably me, I dated him about 1.5 years ago and left him alone romantically when I found out about 4 other women he was dating. I would frequently come to his job in eastern market to day hi. He would stay at my apartment quite often and turn his phone off, and I would check his messages and it would be woman after woman- I realized that he was not the type of man I wanted to be with romantically and I ended out relationship-we remained friends and I slowly pulled away- he never knew why. Glad I never told him what I was doing- he might have flipped on me. This is a real shocker.
Becky

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Dec 1, 2008
 
anytime a man turns his phone off, Ladies there is someone else..
If he's over protective of his phone, there is someone else...

Its a sad thing what happened to Rema and her boyfriend.., but what would push a person to do such a thing?

Who r we to judge this man, without knowing the facts? thats the problem, ppl always have something to say without knowing ALL the facts..
only 3 ppl know what reaaly happened and GOD. the person who did do this will have to answer for their crime.

we all at some point in our lives did something reaaly bad, so wether u got cought or not u didnt want ppl to judge u without know All the facts..

who knows what she might have been doin, espically seeing how the ppl is making him the killer only cause he was a old boyfriend..

No they didnt derserve to die, but we dnt know all the facts, due to the way things look he might do time for this crime..

I feel sorry for the victims family, as well for the family of Xavier..
im quite sure this is a ware on them as well!
Tracy Pendergrass

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Dec 8, 2008
 
Becky wrote:
anytime a man turns his phone off, Ladies there is someone else..
If he's over protective of his phone, there is someone else...
Its a sad thing what happened to Rema and her boyfriend.., but what would push a person to do such a thing?
Who r we to judge this man, without knowing the facts? thats the problem, ppl always have something to say without knowing ALL the facts..
only 3 ppl know what reaaly happened and GOD. the person who did do this will have to answer for their crime.
we all at some point in our lives did something reaaly bad, so wether u got cought or not u didnt want ppl to judge u without know All the facts..
who knows what she might have been doin, espically seeing how the ppl is making him the killer only cause he was a old boyfriend..
No they didnt derserve to die, but we dnt know all the facts, due to the way things look he might do time for this crime..
I feel sorry for the victims family, as well for the family of Xavier..
im quite sure this is a ware on them as well!
You know what is really sad. Rema would have said something just like this... and God rest her soul now. Be careful Becky! With thinking like that it could happen to you next! I say I know enough about "X" to say that he was a controlling asshole that didn't deserve to be in Rema's presence let alone be her "MAN" He would get jealous and angry when she would take my 1 year old son and spend time with him. He's and asshole and he deserves to rot in HELL. Rema was my Angel on earth and she will surely be missed. RIP.
Renae

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Dec 8, 2008
 
Wow you have a great point. From the few post - I can tell that the young lady was a great person. I'm sure not perfect but who is. I am sorry for her and her children especially. At least now she can rest in peace knowing that someone she trusted and loved - who betrayed her will never get a chance to do that to anyone else - maybe now he can be jealous and obsessive over his new BOYFRIEND in jail.
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You know what is really sad. Rema would have said something just like this... and God rest her soul now. Be careful Becky! With thinking like that it could happen to you next! I say I know enough about "X" to say that he was a controlling asshole that didn't deserve to be in Rema's presence let alone be her "MAN" He would get jealous and angry when she would take my 1 year old son and spend time with him. He's and asshole and he deserves to rot in HELL. Rema was my Angel on earth and she will surely be missed. RIP.
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#29
Feb 9, 2010
 
Xavier was always weird I Dated him for some years he use to stalk me all the time
Hope

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Nov 4, 2010
 
My name is Hope Buchanan and well Im The daughter of Terry [[Calvin]] when i heard of him getting ambushed i was 13 years of age and in the 7th grade. Now im 16 and in the 10th.its not fun. My mom had to tell me several times, for me to understnad it. then she showed me a video of the scene. it was terrifing. i didnt want to go to sleep, because everytime my eyes did close. 3-5 minutes later i woke up screaming and sweating i have nightmares for weeks and yet everyday on this day im afraid to go anywhere or even go to sleep because for the last couple of years ive been getting the same nightmare over and over again its just ugh.. horrifing. i was much to young to notice things when i was little but its sad to see him go at such a young age. and that night when my mother told me about this. my day was spending time with my best friend at the time. dress up, pretendign to be a famous singer. and et cetera. i didnt want to go to school. i always blamed myself for it, i went to church thinking it would change things. i felt a heavy tons of weight on my shoulders.until god finally lifted them up ... i hope my father is being tooken care of Our Dear father above. And i Pray that Rema as well as her family and friends,co-workers as well as my fathers are in good hands and are taking care of eachother in loving memory Terry Calvin Buchanan && Rema Reed R.I.P since November 4th, 2007
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Nov 9, 2012
 
Hope wrote:
My name is Hope Buchanan and well Im The daughter of Terry [[Calvin]] when i heard of him getting ambushed i was 13 years of age and in the 7th grade. Now im 16 and in the 10th.its not fun. My mom had to tell me several times, for me to understnad it. then she showed me a video of the scene. it was terrifing. i didnt want to go to sleep, because everytime my eyes did close. 3-5 minutes later i woke up screaming and sweating i have nightmares for weeks and yet everyday on this day im afraid to go anywhere or even go to sleep because for the last couple of years ive been getting the same nightmare over and over again its just ugh.. horrifing. i was much to young to notice things when i was little but its sad to see him go at such a young age. and that night when my mother told me about this. my day was spending time with my best friend at the time. dress up, pretendign to be a famous singer. and et cetera. i didnt want to go to school. i always blamed myself for it, i went to church thinking it would change things. i felt a heavy tons of weight on my shoulders.until god finally lifted them up ... i hope my father is being tooken care of Our Dear father above. And i Pray that Rema as well as her family and friends,co-workers as well as my fathers are in good hands and are taking care of eachother in loving memory Terry Calvin Buchanan && Rema Reed R.I.P since November 4th, 2007
Ms. Hope,
My name is Vernessa Myers and I am the sister of the first young lady that Xavier shot and killed in 1990. I admire you for posting your comments. By now, you are 18 and on your way to entering to adulthood. Although it's been 22 years since Xavier took my sister's life as well as the life of their unborn child, she was 6 months pregnant. You have my deepest sympathy in the loss of your father. Your grandmother and I met at Xavier's sentencing in 2008 and we have been in contact ever since. Wonderful lady! There are no answers why any of this happened. What I can tell you is that God will heal you and comfort you every where that you hurt! Forgiveness is important for you not Xavier. Many blessings as you enter into adulthood.
Vernessa

Jackson, MS

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#32
Nov 9, 2012
 
I am the sister of the first young lady that Xavier shot and killed in 1990. My heart goes out to the family members of Rema and Terry. I must say to the ladies that when you date someone, please tell a family member or friend all about him in the event he is not a good person. My family did not like Xavier because he was controlling and did not want my sister around her family. He conviened my sister to move out and distance herself from us. The few times he did come around the family he was mean and nobody wanted to talk to him. My sister was so excited about being pregnant. She was going to have a little girl. After my sister's death, I learned from one of her girlfriend's at church that one week prior to her death, he put a gun to her head and threatened to kill her. My sister swore her friend to secrecy. Why am I telling you this? Because if a man does something like this once, he will surely do it. So, run as far away from that man as you can. I remember contacting Xavier while he was in jail and asked if I could meet him. He agreed and me and my sister went to visit him in prison in 1994. He was so cold and had such an attitude. I wanted him to look me in my face and tell me why he shot my sister twice in the head and left her to die as well as their unborn daughter. He lured her to a secluded spot as she drove the car, shot her in the head while in the driver's seat, got out of the car and went to the driver's side door and shot her again in the head and walked to his parent's house. He went and removed all traces of his clothing from her duplex so that the family would not find him. Thank God for the girlfriend at church who knew where he lived because my sister had confided in her several times about their relationship. Women, if a man makes you nervous, please tell someone. My sister was terrified of Xavier but we did not know. Xavier showed not compassion for what he had done but when I left him in that prison that day, I asked God to help me to forgive and not concern myself with understanding why. Slowly, God began to deal with me and help me to forgive him. God can still use Xavier even in the midst of his sins. When he got released, nobody notified the victim's family that he was even going before the parole board. When we finally heard about it, Xavier had been transferred to the halfway house pending release in 90 days. They told us there was nothing they could do and that they apologized. Everybody thought somebody else would contact the victim's family. I'm so sorry that two other lives had to be taken and families torn due the system not doing their part. Stay prayed up people because God is the only one who will keep us. May God continue to keep each and everyone during their times of need. Blessings to all...
TeeEll

Warren, MI

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#33
Oct 4, 2013
 
I was dating Xavier when this happened. And I was shocked. He has never been anything but good to me. And my children. I've known him for over22years. I loved him. But this was a tragedy and I wish I had saw signs

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