Colloquy's Colloquial

“"you're not the boss of me"”

Since: Aug 09

2,179

I'm feelin' good. thanks for the support, this has been a long, lonely fight...w/o seein' the little man and all.

Will let you all know.
Deb

“I don't do sarcasm...but... ”

Since: Jan 08

5,342

sometimes I get provoked!

Deb, please stop by and tell us how it went.

“"you're not the boss of me"”

Since: Aug 09

2,179

not good. I have sort of figured out my attorney has spent all this time plumping up his bill - I did not even see the judge yesterday (now mind you, I have a signed order from the Court, setting yesterday as a review...he specifically WANTED to hear my case...) my attorney told me that no one was ready, the guardian ad litem's report was not complete, etc. AND that actually asking for custody was a "long way down the road", we were only going for visits.

I am furious, but really sad, too. I just wanna see my grandson and hug his chubbiness and all. I am going to first get a new attorney (will need to take out a loan at this point, this joker got all my savings), fire this guy and demand half of what he got from me back. I am going to report him to the State Bar Association, too.

Sorry to rant, I really thought he would be here for Thanksgiving dinner with the rest of the family, but now..........

“"you're not the boss of me"”

Since: Aug 09

2,179

Hey -

Check this out,

http://www.youtube.com/watch...

I'll let you know when I get this all straightened out.
Deb

kc kid

“Bullrushes”

Since: Sep 08

448

Chicago

that27th one wrote:

not good. I have sort of figured out my attorney has spent all this time plumping up his bill - I did not even see the judge yesterday (now mind you, I have a signed order from the Court, setting yesterday as a review...he specifically WANTED to hear my case...) my attorney told me that no one was ready, the guardian ad litem's report was not complete, etc. AND that actually asking for custody was a "long way down the road", we were only going for visits.
I am furious, but really sad, too. I just wanna see my grandson and hug his chubbiness and all. I am going to first get a new attorney (will need to take out a loan at this point, this joker got all my savings), fire this guy and demand half of what he got from me back. I am going to report him to the State Bar Association, too.
Sorry to rant, I really thought he would be here for Thanksgiving dinner with the rest of the family, but now..........

Sorry to "hear" about your temporary set back. I hope that things will work out for you!

“"you're not the boss of me"”

Since: Aug 09

2,179

hey, I fired the 'douche'(as my son would call this loser) and I will see a new one on thursday.

It is good, I'm more annoyed that I got suckered a second time.........geez, I work in a prison around a bunch of 'cons'-
you'd think I could spot one a bit sooner...

Deb

kc kid

“Bullrushes”

Since: Sep 08

448

Chicago

that27th one wrote:

hey, I fired the 'douche'(as my son would call this loser) and I will see a new one on thursday.
It is good, I'm more annoyed that I got suckered a second time.........geez, I work in a prison around a bunch of 'cons'-
you'd think I could spot one a bit sooner...
Deb

Who would of thought that a "free man" would try to take you down. I guess he didn't know who he was dealing with. Good luck with the new one!

“I don't do sarcasm...but... ”

Since: Jan 08

5,342

sometimes I get provoked!

that27th one wrote:

hey, I fired the 'douche'(as my son would call this loser) and I will see a new one on thursday.
It is good, I'm more annoyed that I got suckered a second time.........geez, I work in a prison around a bunch of 'cons'-
you'd think I could spot one a bit sooner...
Deb

It's not like asking a friend where the best butcher shop is, or where they find the best produce. Finding a good lawyer is hard.

Good luck with the new one Deb. I hope he's passionate about these types of cases!

“"you're not the boss of me"”

Since: Aug 09

2,179

Colloquy wrote:

<quoted text>It's not like asking a friend where the best butcher shop is, or where they find the best produce. Finding a good lawyer is hard.
Good luck with the new one Deb. I hope he's passionate about these types of cases!

Hey, it's a gal and a MOM! She'll get 'er done

“I don't do sarcasm...but... ”

Since: Jan 08

5,342

sometimes I get provoked!

that27th one wrote:

<quoted text>
Hey, it's a gal and a MOM! She'll get 'er done

Well that's good news!

I hope you can get the court to make the 1st one give you some of your money back too!

So when do you go back to court?

“"you're not the boss of me"”

Since: Aug 09

2,179

Colloquy wrote:

<quoted text>Well that's good news!
I hope you can get the court to make the 1st one give you some of your money back too!
So when do you go back to court?

Court again on Monday, I will most likely be given guaranteed visiting rights while the custody is waiting to be ruled on. We're optimistic and I am really hoping this is the last weekend w/o my grandson.

Have a good weekend!
Deb

“I don't do sarcasm...but... ”

Since: Jan 08

5,342

sometimes I get provoked!

that27th one wrote:

<quoted text>
Court again on Monday, I will most likely be given guaranteed visiting rights while the custody is waiting to be ruled on. We're optimistic and I am really hoping this is the last weekend w/o my grandson.
Have a good weekend!
Deb

Deb, I've kept my fingers crossed this whole time! I still believe all of this will work out in your favor.

Let me know how it goes tomorrow. I'll be thinking about you and the little guy!

“"you're not the boss of me"”

Since: Aug 09

2,179

Will do. I'm going to ask for him on Thanksgiving, too,(as well as the weekend guaranteed visits until the final trial) since they have with held him for no real reason other than spite..

“"you're not the boss of me"”

Since: Aug 09

2,179

I have an order, signed by the Judge, saying I get visiting with my grandson EVERY weekend. And the DNA has been taken, will have a court date for custody before the end of the year.

I see my grandson in three days!!

“I don't do sarcasm...but... ”

Since: Jan 08

5,342

sometimes I get provoked!

that27th one wrote:

I have an order, signed by the Judge, saying I get visiting with my grandson EVERY weekend. And the DNA has been taken, will have a court date for custody before the end of the year.
I see my grandson in three days!!

OH DEB THAT IS AWESOME!!!!!!

I am so happy for you!!! You have got to be on cloud nine! I had a good feeling about this. Maybe you've opened the door for other grandparents in your state.

So what are you going to do with him this weekend? How old is he now?

Again, I'm so happy for you. Enjoy him!

:)

“"you're not the boss of me"”

Since: Aug 09

2,179

Colloquy wrote:

<quoted text>OH DEB THAT IS AWESOME!!!!!!
I am so happy for you!!! You have got to be on cloud nine! I had a good feeling about this. Maybe you've opened the door for other grandparents in your state.
So what are you going to do with him this weekend? How old is he now?
Again, I'm so happy for you. Enjoy him!
:)

He's 17 months, and I'm sure he's a totally different little boy. When I saw him last, he only spoke one word clearly. I'm really excited!!

We are invited to a friend's one year birthday, these kids were friends of my daughter's and spent a lot of time with the baby because they were also expecting their first, so they're excited to see him again. That's all I have 'planned'. I'm just gonna have to see how it goes. He has never seen his room and it is adorable, so that will be fun and I have a play area set up for him, too.

Thanks for all your encouragement!!

Dutch Oven Chef

Since: Aug 09

Dallas, TX

Congrats Deb, good luck going forward! Enjoy!!

kc kid

“Bullrushes”

Since: Sep 08

448

Chicago