would u date a girl with mixed child ???

would u date a girl with mixed child ???

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Since: Aug 11

United States

#1 Aug 30, 2012
?????!
whiter than mayo

Brandon, MS

#2 Aug 30, 2012
Better question is Would you go down on her?
star

United States

#3 Aug 30, 2012
That child is no diff than any other child, if you care for her you needa know the baby come with the package and whenever you date anyone with a baby don't rush it cause that baby will get attached just like you will so I think the question is are you ready for that?
BriteWhite

Ripley, MS

#4 Aug 30, 2012
whiter than mayo wrote:
Better question is Would you go down on her?
Someone that thinks like me!
Love Life

United States

#5 Aug 30, 2012
Does it truly matter?? No need n nastiness on here!! Color shouldn't matter as long as the couple is happy and he helps take care of the child!! Someone's past shouldn't matter in the present! Ppl live and be happy for gods sake and tell the public the get a life!!

Since: Aug 11

United States

#6 Aug 30, 2012
I'm sorry but it maters a lot who wants to walk in to thanksgiving diner with a mixed kid I'm sorry but it matters !!!
Anonymous

United States

#7 Aug 30, 2012
Its not the childs fault so don't sit there and blame the kid! That's so disrespectful
Doug

United States

#8 Aug 30, 2012
I asked myself,'what would God think?' And you know what came to me? If the child was loved and taken care of, and if the parents love and respect one another, then I think God would have a big smile on his face. And to those whom it would matter, thats a fault in you, not the child. Love is colorblind. God is love. Nuff said.
Guru Mammaw

Ridgeland, MS

#9 Aug 31, 2012
Son, some folks is do silly. I didn't see one place where you was dissin the baby. Yo question is legit an ain't nothin wrong with yo askin it.

These days it's hard to know what to do depending on your age and generation. By the time most the kids today and on up to around 27 get grown, a "mixed" kid won't mean a thing! He'll, you'll be like a rare special kind of man or woman in the next 100 years if you are a white man or albino! Unless scientist "preorder" us somehow through this selective DNA or something.

What I'm sayin to ya right now is that our "mindset" ain't ALL alike. "some" of us just can't find ours selves remotely attracted to another race. But.... If you like a person that at obviously did like another race and now has a mixed baby---you gonna have to battle your ego man.

Then, you gonna have to talk with the family. Things change with time. We either keep up or get left behind. Like it or not. That's just the way it iz.

Since: Aug 11

United States

#11 Sep 1, 2012
Guru Mammaw wrote:
Son, some folks is do silly. I didn't see one place where you was dissin the baby. Yo question is legit an ain't nothin wrong with yo askin it.

These days it's hard to know what to do depending on your age and generation. By the time most the kids today and on up to around 27 get grown, a "mixed" kid won't mean a thing! He'll, you'll be like a rare special kind of man or woman in the next 100 years if you are a white man or albino! Unless scientist "preorder" us somehow through this selective DNA or something.

What I'm sayin to ya right now is that our "mindset" ain't ALL alike. "some" of us just can't find ours selves remotely attracted to another race. But.... If you like a person that at obviously did like another race and now has a mixed baby---you gonna have to battle your ego man.

Then, you gonna have to talk with the family. Things change with time. We either keep up or get left behind. Like it or not. That's just the way it iz.
very tru thanks
Anonymous

Ripley, MS

#12 Sep 1, 2012
Personally, I have two cousins with mixed children. I love them just as much as I love the others. I don't care what color you are. It's what's on the inside that counts. I love red, yellow, black, and white because we are all precious in his sight. Nowadays Racist means Ridiculous Person. Think about it.
color blind

United States

#13 Sep 1, 2012
This isn't 1950 this is 2012. People need to stop being so judgmental. Do a little history home work white men. The first mixed couple to be married here in the US was a WHITE MAN to a BLACK WOMAN in 1967. Why does it matter who someone else is with. If you don't agree with it that's your right. But if you do see a woman that your attracted to why should it matter if she has a mixed child or not. You should NOT let the color of a persons skin determine who you fall in love with. God looks at you heart not your skin we should ALL do the same.
HelpfulGranny

United States

#14 Sep 2, 2012
Before you date someone you need to ask yourself could I someday marry this person , if the answer is no then don't even date. Cause you never know who you will fall in love with. Kids involved whatever their race is something to ask yourself too, would I want to raise someone elses child if no then walk on too. Be a grown up or accountable for your actions and honest with yourself. But also be aware of your families views are you ready to be dissed by your own family by the choices you make. That's always a risk or will they be hateful to your choice and the child. Good to think out all this. Older southern families have their set ways , even the younger ones are worse. Life/marriage and children is hard enough, don't make it harder or be prepared to live with the choices you make.
Thinking

Bowling Green, KY

#15 Sep 2, 2012
My problem isn't a mixed race child. It's the fact she made a poor decision and had a child out of wedlock in the first place. Lots of birth control out there, if you make a stupid choice now you have a long road to convince me you have stopped making them. We have too many unwanted kids in the US today, don't add to them.
Boston Rob

Belden, MS

#16 Sep 2, 2012
Sorry but you are dead wrong. Look at the situation here. People have been saying that for hundreds of years. One day we will all do this and well all do that pertaining to blacks and whites. It ain't happened yet and it never will. Don't kid yourself. It's like Arabs and Jews, same people but they hate each other. People never fully change and you can't make them. This country has always tried to MAKE whites and blacks mix and mingle and they do some but not now or never will it be a 100% People look at your kids and talk about you like a dog when you turn your back.

The kid can 't help it, right. The mother and daddy could have though. When you are on one side of the fence, black, and the other side, white, you have a place to go. If you are both black and white now many blacks don't want you and many whites don't either. It causes great confusion and trouble for the mixed kid. But you have no consideration for anybody but your lustful self. Don't go telling me you get all these comments about how great it is you are with a black man. You are no longer the person in the shadows who talks bad about it, you are the one they are putting down the road. It happens. I've heard it, I've done it. I hate it. I don't need to hear what God would say I don't give a crap what he says it is a shame on both races.

Best way to remedy that situation is to not have mixed kids. You are black or you are white. For everybodies sake and less hate and confusion stick to your own kind!!!
Two Cents

Ripley, MS

#17 Sep 2, 2012
No matter how you might think it is, fact is this:

Each race IS different. Each has it's own culture and way about them that is inborn by nature and the two just do NOT mix.

This makes it hard for the child born to the two races.

However, just because the child is there, doesn't mean that you should turn your head to it. Love that child and accept that child.

That child will grow up and eventually date and marry too. Question is, which race? My guess is that said child should date another bi-racial of the same mix.
Clampet

Canton, MS

#18 Sep 2, 2012
Heres my question. Would you date a woman that insist on her dog sleeping in the bed to?

Sure, she's had him since he was born. He's three now. We have been together 4months now.

???

Is dog supposed to be forever? What if we ever got married?!
BamBamDeeBamBam

Jackson, MS

#19 Sep 2, 2012
Clampet wrote:
Heres my question. Would you date a woman that insist on her dog sleeping in the bed to?
Sure, she's had him since he was born. He's three now. We have been together 4months now.
???
Is dog supposed to be forever? What if we ever got married?!
If you really like this girl, and the dog bothers "you" then you best be bringing it up now. Don't be surprised at what or how her answer may come off. She's had this pet from birth. They are attached. Wayyy before you came along.

Do the math. Pick your battles. Is she THE one? Is it worth it?

Just sayin'.

And to the poster above you? Can't remember your name but, I think you're right, wrong, a genius and down right crazy!
MawParker

United States

#20 Sep 2, 2012
Even Married women won't put their dogs out of the bed *not me mine don't sleep with me* How I see it don't get mad if your spouse chooses to sleep in another room and leave you there with the dogs cats etc. No law you have to sleep together , keep them both just sleep in another bed :) Also silly spouses if you choose to sleep with animals don't fuss with your spouses moves to another room. Or Smoking thats even another matter , the lists goes on and on.
Fussing Joe

Ripley, MS

#21 Sep 3, 2012
She snores. I fart. We kiss, say goodnite and sleep apart.

Stop being jealous of the dog.

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