How do you let go?
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Upset

Detroit, MI

#1 Apr 29, 2013
It's been almost a year since she chose not to have me in her life, and she still doesn't want me in her life. She was my greatest love, never knew I could love a woman the way I love her. How do you accept it and walk away? We have 2 beautiful children together so I can't just disappear...I don't know what to do
suck it up

Elizabethtown, KY

#2 Apr 29, 2013
It happens to the best of us. It gets real fun when they start sleeping with your best friend. You havent started living until you have been kicked in the balls by your first TRUE love so Im gonna give you some harsh friendly advice so you will quit whining. SHE AINT THINKING ABOUT YOU. SHE DONT CARE! AND IF YOU AINT BANGIN HER SOMEONE ELSE IS. NOW QUIT WHINING AND START LIVING. BECAUSE SHE DONT CARE. As long as she knows you care she will keep doing what she is. SO START LIVING BRO! YOU NEED TO FIND A REAL GOOD FUN SLUT TO GET YOU OVER THIS! NO MAN WILL DISAGREE WITH ANYTHING I HAVE SAID. WE HAVE ALL BEEN THERE BRO. YOU'LL GET THROUGH THIS!
pearl

Salt Lake City, UT

#3 Apr 29, 2013
suck it up wrote:
It happens to the best of us. It gets real fun when they start sleeping with your best friend. You havent started living until you have been kicked in the balls by your first TRUE love so Im gonna give you some harsh friendly advice so you will quit whining. SHE AINT THINKING ABOUT YOU. SHE DONT CARE! AND IF YOU AINT BANGIN HER SOMEONE ELSE IS. NOW QUIT WHINING AND START LIVING. BECAUSE SHE DONT CARE. As long as she knows you care she will keep doing what she is. SO START LIVING BRO! YOU NEED TO FIND A REAL GOOD FUN SLUT TO GET YOU OVER THIS! NO MAN WILL DISAGREE WITH ANYTHING I HAVE SAID. WE HAVE ALL BEEN THERE BRO. YOU'LL GET THROUGH THIS!
Agreed.

“life is what you make of it.”

Since: Aug 12

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#4 Apr 29, 2013
suck it up wrote:
It happens to the best of us. It gets real fun when they start sleeping with your best friend. You havent started living until you have been kicked in the balls by your first TRUE love so Im gonna give you some harsh friendly advice so you will quit whining. SHE AINT THINKING ABOUT YOU. SHE DONT CARE! AND IF YOU AINT BANGIN HER SOMEONE ELSE IS. NOW QUIT WHINING AND START LIVING. BECAUSE SHE DONT CARE. As long as she knows you care she will keep doing what she is. SO START LIVING BRO! YOU NEED TO FIND A REAL GOOD FUN SLUT TO GET YOU OVER THIS! NO MAN WILL DISAGREE WITH ANYTHING I HAVE SAID. WE HAVE ALL BEEN THERE BRO. YOU'LL GET THROUGH THIS!
Hell even I agree with this comment. I say start living and have yourself some fun. I don't know about the 'finding yourself a good slut to get over it' part, but at least don't let her think that you're miserable and can't get over her sorry ass. Ain't NOBODY in life worth grieving yourself to death over because odds are, they aren't grieving their self to death over you. You said it's been almost a year? I bet in that time, she's done quite a hell of a lot of living for herself. Get your ass off of the couch and out of the house and START LIVING!! Life is boring when you live it miserably because of someone else.

I hope you take our advice and find something out there that's more worth your while and learn to give your big heart to someone else. Because I can promise you there are plenty of beautiful women that would love to have a loving and caring guy in their life.:)

And sorry if that was too blunt and to the point, that's just how I am. Plus, I've been there myself.
Mr Big

Vine Grove, KY

#5 Apr 29, 2013
Upset wrote:
It's been almost a year since she chose not to have me in her life, and she still doesn't want me in her life. She was my greatest love, never knew I could love a woman the way I love her. How do you accept it and walk away? We have 2 beautiful children together so I can't just disappear...I don't know what to do
We all grieve differently and for different lengths of time.

A year though is a little much. You might consider getting professional help, if not for you, to give your two kids a more stable environment. Stay away from the booze though, a DWI only adds to the misery.

Time to move on as ohters have written, a professional can help with that.
TRUTH

Elizabethtown, KY

#6 Apr 29, 2013
Professional help is for wussies. Get drunk... A LOT. Always make sure you have a DD though. Make sure you sleep with as many women as you can... And even if her sister is ugly, do your best to nail her. She ain't thinking about you. Tonight while you are crying, she is sleeping like a baby... Again, she ain't thinking about you. It's time to start living bro... We'll GET YOU THROUGH THIS!!!
Lolo

Sonora, KY

#7 Apr 29, 2013
Agree with everything already said....but prepare yourself for one thing. As soon as it starts looking up she more than likely is gonna creep her nasty ass back into your life and try and turn it upside down. Stay strong, too many great women out there. We've all been there!
breathe

Duluth, GA

#8 Apr 30, 2013
You should focus more on your kids, and just let go of her. It's hard but when you start thinking about her, or what ifs then force yourself to think of something else, or go for a run, call a friend or family. Take up a new interest on an old hobby. It's not all about sex or women. That'll just leave you wondering what rue hell you've done months from now. Nd you might miss her more afterwards just because it was the last woman you had something more than hit and run with. Think about yourself, and your kids. Take care of that first and foremost and everything else will fall into place in time. A year is too ling to grieve for something you can't have. But there's a woman out there somewhere who is dying to have a man care that much for her.
hmm

Lockport, KY

#9 Apr 30, 2013
Focus on your two kids be the best dad in the world. When time goes by your kids will be your satisfaction. And nothing gets to a mother more than to know she is the number 2 parent.
Really

Leitchfield, KY

#10 Apr 30, 2013
Upset wrote:
It's been almost a year since she chose not to have me in her life, anI know whod she still doesn't want me in her life. She was my greatest love, never knew I could love a woman the way I love her. How do you accept it and walk away? We have 2 beautiful children together so I can't just disappear...I don't know what to do
I know who this is and that's not the way it goes. Jack
Upset

Elizabethtown, KY

#11 Apr 30, 2013
Thanks for all of the comments, it's been a huge problem and you all are right, just need to suck it up and focus on my kids.
Upset

United States

#12 Apr 30, 2013
Really wrote:
<quoted text> I know who this is and that's not the way it goes. Jack
What do you mean that's not the way it goes?? I doubt you know who I am...
jaha

United States

#13 Apr 30, 2013
Its Kieran Barnes..
BWAHAHA

Elizabethtown, KY

#14 Apr 30, 2013
Really wrote:
<quoted text> I know who this is and that's not the way it goes. Jack
Contrary to your own belief the world DOES NOT revolve around you. I have read his stuff and I see NOTHING in it that could identify who this person is. Yet, I guess you screwed someone over and have an ego SO BIG you ONLY think this person could be talking about you. Get over yourself sweetheart. There are plenty of women who screwed guys over other than yourself. Wow talk about an ego!!
Upset

United States

#15 Apr 30, 2013
jaha wrote:
Its Kieran Barnes..
Nope, sorry.
Upset

United States

#16 Apr 30, 2013
breathe wrote:
You should focus more on your kids, and just let go of her. It's hard but when you start thinking about her, or what ifs then force yourself to think of something else, or go for a run, call a friend or family. Take up a new interest on an old hobby. It's not all about sex or women. That'll just leave you wondering what rue hell you've done months from now. Nd you might miss her more afterwards just because it was the last woman you had something more than hit and run with. Think about yourself, and your kids. Take care of that first and foremost and everything else will fall into place in time. A year is too ling to grieve for something you can't have. But there's a woman out there somewhere who is dying to have a man care that much for her.
I've read this post quite a few times, very good advice! Thanks a lot!!
HAHA

Elizabethtown, KY

#17 May 1, 2013
yo
Bradley horn

United States

#18 May 1, 2013
F her mom.. That's what I would do
breathe

Duluth, GA

#19 May 2, 2013
Upset wrote:
<quoted text>
I've read this post quite a few times, very good advice! Thanks a lot!!
You're welcome. We all lose someone sometime, someway or another. It never gets easier, but it becomes less distracting. You're always capable of more than what you think you are.
Lucky Lew

Vine Grove, KY

#20 May 2, 2013
Upset wrote:
Thanks for all of the comments, it's been a huge problem and you all are right, just need to suck it up and focus on my kids.
lol, you said "suck"

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