I accuse them so that they can take a look at their own life and do a little self-reflection. So my calling someone "gay" has nothing to do with insults.<quoted text>
Why do you accuse people you don't like of being gay? Do you think gay is bad?
If you take it as an insult, that just shows your own, personal insecurities. You allegedly, straight men HATE to be called gay or mistaken for being gay. It's probably one of your greatest weaknesses.
How can you be so insecure if you are comfortable in your own heterosexuality?