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Richmond, KY

#1 Nov 3, 2012
ive been in a relationship/marriage for 10 yrs now. the guy i married is an alcoholic. every friday when he gets paid he doesnt come home until early saturday morning, no money. i dont ask for much, never have. pay the bills, get household stuff, buy me some cigarettes. i dont drink or do drugs. ive been 100% faithful, he on the other, let's just say has tried. i dont go out to clubs, i dont party. im a 28 year old mother to a 9 yrs old. ive always been responsible. always taking care of those around me. have tried everything possible to make my marriage, and took my vows seriously. but how can you be with someone til death do you part, when the person you are with makes you so miserable? sleepless nights of worrying about how a bill is going to get paid, or who im going to have to go and beg to make sure my daughter has a roof over her head? tried my best to better this man and all my attempts have failed, so im giving up on my marriage! and please, for those of you who like to go around commenting insults please dont. im not posting this for someone to start drama, im posting because i need to get things off my chest and i have no friends to talk to :(
hey

Louisville, KY

#3 Nov 3, 2012
giving up wrote:
ive been in a relationship/marriage for 10 yrs now. the guy i married is an alcoholic. every friday when he gets paid he doesnt come home until early saturday morning, no money. i dont ask for much, never have. pay the bills, get household stuff, buy me some cigarettes. i dont drink or do drugs. ive been 100% faithful, he on the other, let's just say has tried. i dont go out to clubs, i dont party. im a 28 year old mother to a 9 yrs old. ive always been responsible. always taking care of those around me. have tried everything possible to make my marriage, and took my vows seriously. but how can you be with someone til death do you part, when the person you are with makes you so miserable? sleepless nights of worrying about how a bill is going to get paid, or who im going to have to go and beg to make sure my daughter has a roof over her head? tried my best to better this man and all my attempts have failed, so im giving up on my marriage! and please, for those of you who like to go around commenting insults please dont. im not posting this for someone to start drama, im posting because i need to get things off my chest and i have no friends to talk to :(
Why did u marry him then?
hmm

Louisville, KY

#4 Nov 3, 2012
giving up wrote:
ive been in a relationship/marriage for 10 yrs now. the guy i married is an alcoholic. every friday when he gets paid he doesnt come home until early saturday morning, no money. i dont ask for much, never have. pay the bills, get household stuff, buy me some cigarettes. i dont drink or do drugs. ive been 100% faithful, he on the other, let's just say has tried. i dont go out to clubs, i dont party. im a 28 year old mother to a 9 yrs old. ive always been responsible. always taking care of those around me. have tried everything possible to make my marriage, and took my vows seriously. but how can you be with someone til death do you part, when the person you are with makes you so miserable? sleepless nights of worrying about how a bill is going to get paid, or who im going to have to go and beg to make sure my daughter has a roof over her head? tried my best to better this man and all my attempts have failed, so im giving up on my marriage! and please, for those of you who like to go around commenting insults please dont. im not posting this for someone to start drama, im posting because i need to get things off my chest and i have no friends to talk to :(
I'll help give u what u are missing :) wanna get together?
class a

United States

#5 Nov 3, 2012
im a single dad of 3 yr old beautiful boy i have a job i have my own place jst got out of a 5yr relationship with some of the same similarities u need anything a friends a place to stay ill be here for u i kno i dnt kno i but id like to i hate to c anyone going .through the same struggles ive been through im here for u
Hurt again

Richmond, KY

#6 Nov 3, 2012
hey wrote:
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Why did u marry him then?

The large diameter and long length of his man wand. Plus his ability to rotate the head from about 2 inches down from the end a full 360 degrees. It's amazing....
givng up

Richmond, KY

#7 Nov 3, 2012
hey wrote:
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Why did u marry him then?
i married him cause i love him, and believed him when he said he was ready to straighten up.
givng up

Richmond, KY

#8 Nov 3, 2012
class a wrote:
im a single dad of 3 yr old beautiful boy i have a job i have my own place jst got out of a 5yr relationship with some of the same similarities u need anything a friends a place to stay ill be here for u i kno i dnt kno i but id like to i hate to c anyone going .through the same struggles ive been through im here for u
thank you for the offer, and dont take this the wrong way but i dont know you so i wouldnt be stupid enough to meet someone of topix. im not looking for a place to live, i can make it on my own. im just tied down to someone who prevents me from doing the thing i want to.
givng up

Richmond, KY

#9 Nov 3, 2012
hmm wrote:
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I'll help give u what u are missing :) wanna get together?
no thank you, not looking for a hook up!
givng up

Richmond, KY

#10 Nov 3, 2012
Hurt again wrote:
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The large diameter and long length of his man wand. Plus his ability to rotate the head from about 2 inches down from the end a full 360 degrees. It's amazing....
i didnt marry him cause he is good in bed, im a better person then that, and im not a hoe!
New Guy in town

United States

#11 Nov 3, 2012
Giving up
If this is real
Make a plan, and begin a new life for you and child
hmm

United States

#12 Nov 4, 2012
givng up wrote:
<quoted text>no thank you, not looking for a hook up!
That's dumb. It's not something that u do or do not look for. It's just something fun that anyone should wanna enjoy when someone attractive comes along :) u dont have to be looking to still just stop and enjoy it when u have the chance
hmm

United States

#13 Nov 4, 2012
givng up wrote:
<quoted text>thank you for the offer, and dont take this the wrong way but i dont know you so i wouldnt be stupid enough to meet someone of topix. im not looking for a place to live, i can make it on my own. im just tied down to someone who prevents me from doing the thing i want to.
If u cant do what u want then u should leave. And also...it's not stupid to meet someone off topix. I've done it. Millions of people meet online everyday
hmm

United States

#14 Nov 4, 2012
givng up wrote:
<quoted text>i didnt marry him cause he is good in bed, im a better person then that, and im not a hoe!
Geez ur views are messed up lol. It doesn't mean that a woman is a ho or anything else just bc she likes sex just like guys do.
wandering

Richmond, KY

#15 Nov 4, 2012
I would like to hook up with you teach you a few tricks? Get your mind off your (ex) husband !
quote

Richmond, KY

#16 Nov 4, 2012
When you pack up your things, put them on a truck, and move. You didn't give up. You are just starting over. Trust me , been there made that choice. It's worth it. I didn't want my daughter to think that's how a man treats his wife/ girlfriend. Then grow up to choose the same kind of man. So, I left. I have remarried to a wonderful man, and he ended up adopting my daughter. Yeah, my ex gave her up. guess he loved us both . LOl I was lucky to find my now husband. But then again, I opened the door to that luck by taking off the cement boots.
wandering

Richmond, KY

#17 Nov 5, 2012
Do you have some tight snatch on ya?
Jar Head

Richmond, KY

#18 Nov 5, 2012
hmm and wandering, you are both idiots!

Givng up, It sounds like you have your head on straight. I dont think you will ever regret moving on with your life. It takes balls to do it, congrats!
Shirly

Richmond, KY

#19 Nov 6, 2012
I understand totaly what your going thru. I wished we had other places to vent besides here because as you can see this place draws all the freaks in. Anyway im going thru similar situation. Only the dad or want tot be dad out of spite decided that the best way to get even with me for living him was to try and take my 9 year old son. So now im going thru this crazy battle i dont have the money for lawyer and im lost? My kids have been my whole life since they have been in this world we have a 18 year old also i just havent known anything else. I would die if i lost my son and because i dont have money to pay lawyer and he does that just might happen. Im sorry to get off topic, I really do wish you all the best ill pray for you and your child and please do same for us, I would love to give you my number so we could talk but im not sure how to do that here. I think it would be nice to have somone to listen. anyway very best of luck and sincerly god bless everyone on here for being so nice.
New Guy in town

Tucker, GA

#20 Nov 7, 2012
Shirley your a sweet heart
Your right, all topics are not like this one, drawing freats, and negative comments
Good luck to you
shirly

Richmond, KY

#21 Nov 7, 2012
New Guy in town wrote:
Shirley your a sweet heart
Your right, all topics are not like this one, drawing freats, and negative comments
Good luck to you
Thank you so much! You have no idea how nice it was to read a sweet comment and not the other, someones always ready to say somthing negative. Anyway I wish you all the best as well its not easy being the "new person".

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