Why do men Suck! (For Ladies Only)

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Suki Suki

Richmond, KY

#1 Jul 4, 2010
Why do men think that just because they have a pen!s that it relegates them to the land of "know it all" and they treat us like we can't survive without them?

We are so much more than you jerks give us credit for and not all women are worthless whores!
ShortKayke

Richmond, KY

#2 Jul 4, 2010
Agreed. See, God messed up when he made men... He gave them two heads and only enough blood to work one at a time. Not one man gives a flying fook about a woman's feelings, emotions, or opinions. As long as they're tappin that, they're happy. It kills me! The good girls get trampled all friggin over and the whores treat their men like shit, but yet are treasured like fookin diamonds. Something here just isn't right. Men suck, freakin hypocrites!
Lisa

Columbus, OH

#3 Jul 4, 2010
do what i do, i turned mine into a toilet and i make him suck literally, i think all men should have to do this for us. it should become a FEMDOM world
Suki Suki

Richmond, KY

#4 Jul 5, 2010
we lady's need to start carrying socks and bars of soap for those men that can't act right!

Seriously? You can, "ANYTHING", and I can't?

If I don't answer my phone ur quick to act like a complete moron but if you don't answer yours it's ok cuz you didn't charge it enough and it died so what the hell is my prob?

When you did have a job you chewed my ass all the time for sleeping late in the day even tho I didn't have a job and now you wanna crack jokes about how its ok to sleep until 2pm cuz you aint got a job atm? Seriously?

Seriously? Your idea of compromise is to just stand further away when yelling demands and making everyone around you wish you had a job.

*shakes head* Oh.. I am so not done b!tching.. I just need to take a break and get some things done so I will be back.

“Sic friatur crustum dulce ”

Since: Apr 09

the real world.....

#5 Jul 5, 2010
I know someone who's man might be your's twin, except believe it or not, he's worse.
Argggg1
Suki Suki wrote:
we lady's need to start carrying socks and bars of soap for those men that can't act right!
Seriously? You can, "ANYTHING", and I can't?
If I don't answer my phone ur quick to act like a complete moron but if you don't answer yours it's ok cuz you didn't charge it enough and it died so what the hell is my prob?
When you did have a job you chewed my ass all the time for sleeping late in the day even tho I didn't have a job and now you wanna crack jokes about how its ok to sleep until 2pm cuz you aint got a job atm? Seriously?
Seriously? Your idea of compromise is to just stand further away when yelling demands and making everyone around you wish you had a job.
*shakes head* Oh.. I am so not done b!tching.. I just need to take a break and get some things done so I will be back.

“Sic friatur crustum dulce ”

Since: Apr 09

the real world.....

#6 Jul 5, 2010
^5!
ShortKayke wrote:
Agreed. See, God messed up when he made men... He gave them two heads and only enough blood to work one at a time. Not one man gives a flying fook about a woman's feelings, emotions, or opinions. As long as they're tappin that, they're happy. It kills me! The good girls get trampled all friggin over and the whores treat their men like shit, but yet are treasured like fookin diamonds. Something here just isn't right. Men suck, freakin hypocrites!
Seriously

Brea, CA

#7 Jul 5, 2010
We're not all bad, though nearly all of us, suck or not, have or will have moments when we screw up big time. Some of those will be unforgivable, but there are many decent guys to be found that - other than leaving the seat up or being a little too interested in sports during the playoffs - aren't out to crush all women beneath uncaring bootheels. Shame y'all have to sift through the not-so-decent ones to find one... I just hope I can keep from annoying my wife to the point she starts bashing me in a public forum!(Gulp)!
Teller

Richmond, KY

#8 Jul 5, 2010
TheRealBigT wrote:
I know someone who's man might be your's twin, except believe it or not, he's worse.
Argggg1
<quoted text>

Arturo is not that bad.
ShortKayke

Richmond, KY

#9 Jul 5, 2010
Why do guys say that? "We're not all that bad" hmm, bullcrap! There's no such thing as a good guy, there's only @$$holes pretending to be perfect. Everything is completely double standard with men! You ignore us, that's cool. We ignore you, 20 missed calls and 15 text messages later we suffer for you not answering our one call/text? Seriously. He blows you off for his friends...who gives a crap. You blow him off because of something that's actually more important, it's a big deal. And they wonder why we b!tch.
heres why

Broken Arrow, OK

#10 Jul 5, 2010
Men suk to try and be more like women.

Since: May 09

Richmond, KY

#11 Jul 5, 2010
ShortKayke wrote:
Why do guys say that? "We're not all that bad" hmm, bullcrap! There's no such thing as a good guy, there's only @$$holes pretending to be perfect. Everything is completely double standard with men! You ignore us, that's cool. We ignore you, 20 missed calls and 15 text messages later we suffer for you not answering our one call/text? Seriously. He blows you off for his friends...who gives a crap. You blow him off because of something that's actually more important, it's a big deal. And they wonder why we b!tch.
Sounds like you've had a bad guy or two... But your opening lines: "Why do guys say that? "We're not all that bad" hmm, bullcrap! There's no such thing as a good guy, there's only @$$holes pretending to be perfect."

You ever stop to think that maybe there are good guys out there, but they're not stopping to stand in line for a woman who already hates them?

In my book, that's a bad woman, and definitely not worth being with.
ShortKayke

Richmond, KY

#12 Jul 5, 2010
My Name is Ug wrote:
<quoted text>
Sounds like you've had a bad guy or two... But your opening lines: "Why do guys say that? "We're not all that bad" hmm, bullcrap! There's no such thing as a good guy, there's only @$$holes pretending to be perfect."
You ever stop to think that maybe there are good guys out there, but they're not stopping to stand in line for a woman who already hates them?
In my book, that's a bad woman, and definitely not worth being with.
Point taken. But how exactly am I honestly supposed to believe that, when in all actuality never have I ever ran into a truly amazing guy who treats me worth a crap? I don't think all guys are bad, just think some of them could be a little more considerate.
puck

Lexington, KY

#13 Jul 5, 2010
ITT: blatant anti-male sexism
Seriously

Bowling Green, KY

#14 Jul 5, 2010
ShortKayke wrote:
<quoted text>
Point taken. But how exactly am I honestly supposed to believe that, when in all actuality never have I ever ran into a truly amazing guy who treats me worth a crap? I don't think all guys are bad, just think some of them could be a little more considerate.
I think a lot depends on the woman, too: A gal with a high tolerance for bullcrap might think her man is great, while a less patient woman would think he was a complete ass.

A balance must be struck. Just as any man should expect to deal with (and even appreciate) the differences of opinion and other complicated aspects of a woman, so should she be willing to tolerate his quirks and imperfections, as well... But neither giving so much ground as to become a pushover, or wind up losing who they are in favor of what their partner would have them be.

Unfortunately, many men in this area have had a very poor upbringing. Traditional roles that unfairly subjugated women were observed in their household throughout childhood, or perhaps the women I their lives were abusive. Perhaps there wasn't a positive, caring male in some of ther lives to show them how to treat and respect a mate. Whatever their history, until they recognize AND take real, measurable steps to overcome it, it will plague their every effort to make a woman happy, and find true happiness for themselves.

The same goes for women, of course. It is not the fault of all men that some, even many, have done you wrong. Nor should all be punished for unaddressed issues further into one's past that may have bearing. A woman wanting a healthy, happy relationship with a well-adjusted man should bring an equal offering to the table, having cleaned up her issues and checked any baggage at the door well in advance. Otherwise, drama is likely to ensue.

Another necessity lost on many are realistic expectations. Prince Charming and Princess Perfect do not exist beyond the covers of fairy tales; no one, man or woman, will ever be all that we were promised by such pleasant fiction. Only experience and maturity, resulting in a seasoned, not jaded, adult heart and mindset, will enable a guy or a gal to leave fantasy behind, and to be open enough to recognize a good catch when it comes their way.

I hope some part of this is at least of some aid or encouragement.

Since: May 09

Richmond, KY

#15 Jul 5, 2010
ShortKayke wrote:
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Point taken. But how exactly am I honestly supposed to believe that, when in all actuality never have I ever ran into a truly amazing guy who treats me worth a crap? I don't think all guys are bad, just think some of them could be a little more considerate.
"Seriously" put it best, but also look at thwta you've just said; "never have I ever ran into a truly amazing guy who treats me worth a crap".

I think the first question you should ask yourself is "where am I looking"? If you're looking in truly crappy places, then you're sure to find truly crappy guys, because no man worth his salt is going to associate himself with what he's not.

Ever heard the expression "you are the company you keep"? That holds just a true today, as it did back then (whenever that was).

I do disagree with Seriously on the idea that we will never find that one person who is perfect (as implied by Prince Charming or Princess Perfect), as 'perfect' is a relative term.

Who is perfect for me, may not be perfect for you.

Keep that concept with you - I suggest. So, if you're meeting people through your friends, just remember that what they may think is great, you may not think so at all.

Or at a bar... A party...

Just consider your atmosphere when looking for someone; if it feels more like lust than love, then it probably is.
still like them

Richmond, KY

#16 Jul 5, 2010
Men will do exactly what we allow them to do.If we allow them to treat us with disrespect they will.If we allow them to cheat on us with no reprocussions they will cheat.If we allow them to hit us and not leave they will hit us.No on is perfect man or woman.It is a give and take always.
llort

Lexington, KY

#17 Jul 5, 2010
still like them wrote:
Men will do exactly what we allow them to do.If we allow them to treat us with disrespect they will.If we allow them to cheat on us with no reprocussions they will cheat.If we allow them to hit us and not leave they will hit us.No on is perfect man or woman.It is a give and take always.
you sound like you are talking about a dog
llort

Lexington, KY

#18 Jul 5, 2010
men suck b/c women who suck make them that way.
sam p

Lexington, KY

#19 Jul 5, 2010
ShortKayke wrote:
Why do guys say that? "We're not all that bad" hmm, bullcrap! There's no such thing as a good guy, there's only @$$holes pretending to be perfect. Everything is completely double standard with men! You ignore us, that's cool. We ignore you, 20 missed calls and 15 text messages later we suffer for you not answering our one call/text? Seriously. He blows you off for his friends...who gives a crap. You blow him off because of something that's actually more important, it's a big deal. And they wonder why we b!tch.
you should try being a lesbian.
Suki Suki

Richmond, KY

#20 Jul 5, 2010
point in fact.. this forum was created not to debate the diff between men and women.. its so those of us women who CANT talk to anybody else,(its called venting), can anonymously get off our chest those things that hurt and anger us... If your not a woman.. then go start ur own thread.. Leave us ours.

My man is NOT a bad man.. he never lays a hand on me, he makes sure all the bills are paid on time and he is good to my kids.. however... Sometimes trying to talk to him is like a brick wall.. mostly when all I want to do is bitch.. thats ALL I WANT sometimes! Leave me too it so I dont go postal and kill someone.. deal?

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