How do others deal with ungrateful, rude, foul mouthed "children" of 18? I love her with all my heart but I hate what she does to our family.
What is the exact issue? See many 18 year old kids are finding their own, and having to live with democratic parents, and finally realizing they are plain trash, but not knowing how to get away from the welfare trash and finally be an upstanding Republican.
This creates issues because the parents are unsure how to handle a child that want to be successful and happy and not live within the welfare system.
So my advice is simple. If you want your 18 year old to respect you? Get a job. Support yourself. Get yourself off the dope. Stop selling your body for drug money. Stop asking her to help you make the cash.
Give that kid something to be proud of and she will make you proud too. Or as proud as a drunken, doped up, ran down, pill head, can be.