Frustrated gf

United States

#1 Apr 1, 2013
I have a pretty kinky bf, which is why I like him, but I'm afraid my kinkiness isn't enough. This is a guy who would love to bring a second girl in for a threesome but isn't even remotely interested in doing a threesome with another guy. Where is my joy, as it's only fair to each person that both situations should be ok. Am I wrong here? This may not be the ideal situation for most people so please if you have a problem with this just move along.
guy

Lexington, KY

#3 Apr 1, 2013
Frustrated gf wrote:
I have a pretty kinky bf, which is why I like him, but I'm afraid my kinkiness isn't enough. This is a guy who would love to bring a second girl in for a threesome but isn't even remotely interested in doing a threesome with another guy. Where is my joy, as it's only fair to each person that both situations should be ok. Am I wrong here? This may not be the ideal situation for most people so please if you have a problem with this just move along.
Well I'm up for it. I think u should just go have some fun on ur own and enjoy urself. If he doesn't wanna compromise then that's not right. So just left him think he's having his way but don't settle for that. Lets get together and I'll definitely help u enjoy urself :)
another guy

Richmond, KY

#4 Apr 2, 2013
Frustrated GF, have you talked to him about this or is this just a fantasy that you want to live out and would like to keep it secret. All guys have the fantasy of watching and or joining their woman in with another girl, it is all guys that are like this. Now on to the 3 way with another guy, most guys do not want to do this with the woman that they want to spend the rest of their lives with cause honestly it makes you seem a lil trashy and whorey, and you can not turn a hoe into a housewife it is not possible. So if this is your thing and you honestly have to have a 3 way with another guy and your now guy does not want to then it is simple, you decide is this guy the right guy for you, do you want to be a settled down woman or a freaky lil gangbang hoe. Now if this is the guy you want to be with then you have to ask the questions, are you fine with him or do you want more, have I gave him everything and if you have already gave him a 3 way with another girl, and they say sex has nothing to do with love but honestly if you are already looking for the other guy in the 3 way then you honestly do not love him and should go other ways. Hope this was help to you cause I feel me and my wife are going through the same things.
honest

United States

#5 Apr 2, 2013
another guy wrote:
Frustrated GF, have you talked to him about this or is this just a fantasy that you want to live out and would like to keep it secret. All guys have the fantasy of watching and or joining their woman in with another girl, it is all guys that are like this. Now on to the 3 way with another guy, most guys do not want to do this with the woman that they want to spend the rest of their lives with cause honestly it makes you seem a lil trashy and whorey, and you can not turn a hoe into a housewife it is not possible. So if this is your thing and you honestly have to have a 3 way with another guy and your now guy does not want to then it is simple, you decide is this guy the right guy for you, do you want to be a settled down woman or a freaky lil gangbang hoe. Now if this is the guy you want to be with then you have to ask the questions, are you fine with him or do you want more, have I gave him everything and if you have already gave him a 3 way with another girl, and they say sex has nothing to do with love but honestly if you are already looking for the other guy in the 3 way then you honestly do not love him and should go other ways. Hope this was help to you cause I feel me and my wife are going through the same things.
Yep, good reply!
Frustrated gf

Lexington, KY

#6 Apr 2, 2013
Yes, this has been a discussion that we have had in the past. My bf has actually had a threesome in the past but I have not. I have picked up on hints about having another girl in our mix so I just flat out asked him can there be another guy in our mix at some point too? Well, that became a big issue. But it’s the principle of the matter, you want a girl well I want a guy. I mean, as far as I see it, tit for tat. How is it fair that he can have his fantasy with two girls but it’s considered trashy for a girl to have a fantasy with two guys? BUT this isn’t a deal breaker in our relationship. We may be kinky in the bedroom but we are normal, everyday people, with decent jobs that pay pretty well. As far as going out and doing this on my own with two total strangers, isn’t going to happen. And I’m positive he feels the same way. We were just discussing adding an extra person and well, I guess I became the bad person in stating how I feel above.

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