women going to gentlemen clubs

women going to gentlemen clubs

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is it just me

Winchester, KY

#1 Nov 13, 2009
i have had this issue brought up my relationship. my bf asking me to go to a strip club with him and some friends. personally, i have no desire to go at all. he is cool with, he wouldn't leave over it.we have been together for three years. but my question is this, how many women go to strip clubs with their man. the ones that go, just go for fun. i think my hangup more my inner feminist and i find i completly degrading. i know each is his own, so what do think?
dreamchaser

Richmond, KY

#2 Nov 13, 2009
actually it is entertaining. you can kinda privately make fun of it in your head, admire or be amused. i always have had fun, and it can add a little spice to the relationship as well. good luck
Ummmm

Richmond, KY

#3 Nov 14, 2009
It's different for different people. Some couples can go and have a good time. They just look at it as entertainment and as dreamchaser said it can spice up your relationship. A lot of the time the strippers will give you more attention than your man lol. But for some (myself included) it can just cause issues in your relationship. Personally I'm just too damn jealous to go with my man, I just can't handle another woman grinding her ass on my man's privates. It's probably just my insecurity but if you are anything like me then going could just lead to a fight.
Toto

Clay City, KY

#4 Nov 14, 2009
Well, Umm, let him go for some assgrinding and you come over and give Ol' Toto a little grind with your booty
is it just me

Winchester, KY

#5 Nov 14, 2009
Ummmm wrote:
It's different for different people. Some couples can go and have a good time. They just look at it as entertainment and as dreamchaser said it can spice up your relationship. A lot of the time the strippers will give you more attention than your man lol. But for some (myself included) it can just cause issues in your relationship. Personally I'm just too damn jealous to go with my man, I just can't handle another woman grinding her ass on my man's privates. It's probably just my insecurity but if you are anything like me then going could just lead to a fight.
i agree with ya, i couldn't stand to watch my man getting a lap dance from another woman. the funny thing is this, i told i would go ONLY if he would go to a male strip club and get a dance. boy did his story change quick! lol.
Louie Louie

United States

#6 Nov 14, 2009
My wife, loves it. I worked in strip clubs as a bouncer off and on for years. She knows that there is no danger of me messing with a dancer. She likes getting lap dances and watching me get them but most of the time we sit away from the stage with our friends, drink, and have a good time. Going to a "normal bar" just doesnt appeal to us, all the crowding and usually some fighting just isnt fun. But at a strip club its laid back, we all know why we are there, to get drunk and see some TITTIES. My wife always said to me " I dont care where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home. Boobies are fun!
Nah

Berea, KY

#7 Nov 14, 2009
I personally have no interest in going to see other naked women, but that's just me. If I were you, I would tell him he would have to go to see male strippers first and see what he says.
Louie Louie

Clarksville, TN

#8 Nov 14, 2009
I wouldnt care, I wouldnt take a lap dance or nothing like that. Its not me that makes my wife go or forces her into a lap dance, she digs it and it makes her laugh.
loveit

Richmond, KY

#9 Nov 15, 2009
I love to go to the strip clubs with my husband. I agree with the above post though, most of the time, I get more attention than he does. He is a man, therefore he is turned on even more when he sees a woman touch me. I enjoy the lap dances. I've even been considering being with a woman just once. It looks like a fun and as a woman, we know what each other is wanting. It has spiced our relationship to the max. You have to remember, it is just for fun. I don't care who gets him hard, as long as I'm the one to finish the job. That might change eventally too. As long as he comes home with me, and continues to pay the bills, a little fun never hurt anyone. It is the lying, backstabbing and cheating. So if you are both in agreement, I don't see any harm done. Just my opinion.
STIPPER 67

Danville, KY

#10 Dec 3, 2009
is it just me wrote:
i have had this issue brought up my relationship. my bf asking me to go to a strip club with him and some friends. personally, i have no desire to go at all. he is cool with, he wouldn't leave over it.we have been together for three years. but my question is this, how many women go to strip clubs with their man. the ones that go, just go for fun. i think my hangup more my inner feminist and i find i completly degrading. i know each is his own, so what do think?
I love going to the strip clubs with my hubby we go all the time i tip the dancers more than he does,try it u might like it.
STIPPER 67

Danville, KY

#11 Dec 3, 2009
loveit wrote:
I love to go to the strip clubs with my husband. I agree with the above post though, most of the time, I get more attention than he does. He is a man, therefore he is turned on even more when he sees a woman touch me. I enjoy the lap dances. I've even been considering being with a woman just once. It looks like a fun and as a woman, we know what each other is wanting. It has spiced our relationship to the max. You have to remember, it is just for fun. I don't care who gets him hard, as long as I'm the one to finish the job. That might change eventally too. As long as he comes home with me, and continues to pay the ubills, a little fun never hurt anyone. It is the lying, backstabbing and cheating. So if you are both in agreement, I don't see any harm done. Just my opinion.
u go girl keep on having fun we do.
Just a Girl

Manchester, KY

#12 Dec 3, 2009
My husband and I go. Usually I am the one who asks to go. It's all in fun. You can't beat the scenery...LOL
It has been my experience that if a man is sitting at a table with a woman the dancer most usually asks the woman if it is ok for her to talk or dance with the man. Most of the women that work in these clubs DO NOT want your man. They are there for a job and to make money to support their family. Yes, there are some shady women, but most are not. There is nothing wrong with using what you were born with to make a living. It takes alot of guts and nerve for these women to get on the stage for the first time.
Concerned

Richmond, KY

#13 Dec 7, 2009
Louie Louie wrote:
My wife, loves it. I worked in strip clubs as a bouncer off and on for years. She knows that there is no danger of me messing with a dancer. She likes getting lap dances and watching me get them but most of the time we sit away from the stage with our friends, drink, and have a good time. Going to a "normal bar" just doesnt appeal to us, all the crowding and usually some fighting just isnt fun. But at a strip club its laid back, we all know why we are there, to get drunk and see some TITTIES. My wife always said to me " I dont care where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home. Boobies are fun!
I have to agree with this. I have been married for 17 years but me and my husband are only 34 and 36. We have an absolute blast. If we were to go to a regular bar that is when the fighting would start with all the drunks hitting on me or him. At a tittie bar everyone is there to see the titties and they leave you alone so you can kick back and relax. I definatley get more attn than my husband which only turns him on and makes for a fun night when we get home from the exciment of the night.
Honey

Mullins, SC

#14 Dec 8, 2009
I am a goddess to be worshiped and I will not share a man's affection with another woman. If a woman has sex with a man and she knows the whole time that he has to think about someone else to get off then she is pathetic. I know that just the thought of me is enough to turn any guy on. I've been approached by many brave cuties who just felt the need to adore me. When a guy is with me he walks on eggshells because he knows he will never find anyone better. They never even look at other girls when I'm around and they don't go to strip clubs when we're together. Why would they need to when I can do everything a pole rat can do only better and I'm 100x hotter. Most strippers are STD packing skanks who can't even touch their toes let alone do the splits. I, on the other hand, am a dancer and I'm extremely limber. Their men wish they could see me naked, not the other way around. It's just sad that some women delude themselves into getting played like that. You know their bfs are high-fiving each other, saying "look at my girlfriend just sitting there smiling like an idiot while another girl is grinding all over my d*ck. I bet I could get her to eat sh*t while I video tape it if I tell her it turns me on". Honestly, some girls would do anything for a guys attention while others have guys begging and they don't have to do a thing. It's about class, if you don't have it then your just a piece of *ss.
Honey

Mullins, SC

#15 Dec 8, 2009
loveit wrote:
I love to go to the strip clubs with my husband. I agree with the above post though, most of the time, I get more attention than he does. He is a man, therefore he is turned on even more when he sees a woman touch me. I enjoy the lap dances. I've even been considering being with a woman just once. It looks like a fun and as a woman, we know what each other is wanting. It has spiced our relationship to the max. You have to remember, it is just for fun. I don't care who gets him hard, as long as I'm the one to finish the job. That might change eventally too. As long as he comes home with me, and continues to pay the bills, a little fun never hurt anyone. It is the lying, backstabbing and cheating. So if you are both in agreement, I don't see any harm done. Just my opinion.
That is just sad that you can't get your man hard. It must have crushed your self esteem to see him turning to skanks. He has to pay them for something you should be able to do for free. You might as well be a lesbian, because you sure as h#ll aren't any kind of woman. You also make it sound as if you have to make sure your husband is entertained before he pays the bills. What kind of life is that. I'll have everyone I know pray for you.
Gentleman

United States

#16 Dec 8, 2009
"gentlemen clubs"??? LMFAO! You mean strip joints?

Where are the gentlemen you speak of? The drunken ones in tank tops and their CAT hats turned around backwards yelling Wooo-wooo-wooo. Show me those knockers?
The real facts

Richmond, KY

#17 Dec 8, 2009
Women only go because deep down inside they are gay and like looking at other women naked.
Honey

Mullins, SC

#18 Dec 8, 2009
Ummmm wrote:
It's different for different people. Some couples can go and have a good time. They just look at it as entertainment and as dreamchaser said it can spice up your relationship. A lot of the time the strippers will give you more attention than your man lol. But for some (myself included) it can just cause issues in your relationship. Personally I'm just too damn jealous to go with my man, I just can't handle another woman grinding her ass on my man's privates. It's probably just my insecurity but if you are anything like me then going could just lead to a fight.
The only reason other girls go is so their boyfriends will think they are sexy & wild & fun. In reality, their boyfriends aren't even thinking about them, they are thinking about all the half naked women seemingly willing to do anything for a little money. Have you noticed the girls that go all think that it somehow makes them look sexy just because they got a lap dance (reread their posts, so pathetic). If you don't got the stuff to make your man happy before you walked in then you wont have the stuff to make him happy when you leave, which is why he will be imagining that he is f*cking that other girl when your going at it for the next few months. I have brothers & some of my best friends are old boyfriends that can't seem to get over me, I know how guys think. Those girls know that their men prefer skanks over them but they are just to stubborn to admit it and move on. If you expect to be treated better guys will pamper you & shower you with rose petals for a chance to take you to the movies. Just holding your hand will get them excited because they'll know that you are way to good for them. If you don't think your worth it then neither will your boyfriend. Like I said before, a girl without class is just a piece of ass.
lalala

Harlan, KY

#19 Dec 8, 2009
You should be happy that he cares enough for you and wants you to go with him. Most men don't want their woman there, or they sneak and go.

Honey
Irvine, KY
You really really really need to get over yourself.
Hell

Richmond, KY

#20 Dec 8, 2009
Jen Marshall will go, think she works there part time

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