big deal

Lexington, KY

#21 Aug 15, 2013
first off, it's not illegal, so toss that out the window. is it unethical? well, yeah, but if you weren't such a dipshit, and could actually pass the class, then you wouldn't have to worry about it. Either give up the panties for a free grade, study and pass it on your own, or go wait tables at hooters for a living. but whatever you do, just STFU!
Gentleman

Richmond, KY

#22 Aug 15, 2013
Wow! The above poster is an asshole. This is good discussion for women to be having. Way to try to suppress feelings and free speech with a StFU. You also have the right to say your fair shaur as well. Do keep in mind you came across as crass and an a$$. At least to any intelligent level headed person. Thank you very much for useless input.
Dr. John Doe

United States

#23 Aug 15, 2013
I doubt any tenured professors would do that. However, i know many male professors who have been approached by students in very sexual manners. I know professors who have been stalked by students.
dr professor

Lexington, KY

#24 Aug 16, 2013
look, you either give up the panties and pass the class or take yourself back to the kitchen and start cooking and popping out kids!!!
Maybe Baby

Harrodsburg, KY

#25 Sep 21, 2013
Head there's a male teacher at the Richmond Campus that hits on every female he can.
One of Them

Clay City, KY

#26 Oct 22, 2013
[QUOTE who="Dr. John Doe"]I doubt any tenured professors would do that. However, i know many male professors who have been approached by students in very sexual manners. I know professors who have been stalked by students.[/QUOTE]

Tenured or not some people will be jerks and it is true that advances or offers from some students do happen. Red flag is when a student asks to see you privately after hours AND is not doing well. Each term there are instances of student misconduct reported. Professors have successfully pressed charges of harassment.
Reality

Richmond, KY

#27 Oct 22, 2013
No, it's not illegal. Yes, it's unethical and grounds for dismissal at every University in the country. Get proof and get them fired.
wow

Corbin, KY

#28 Oct 22, 2013
Reality wrote:
No, it's not illegal. Yes, it's unethical and grounds for dismissal at every University in the country. Get proof and get them fired.
His word against yours. Bring A LOT of proof or shut your pie hole bc if you start a complaint of that nature without proof, lol, let's just say you'll need to transfer real quick!
Retired Prof

Kuttawa, KY

#29 Oct 24, 2013
One of Them wrote:
<quoted text>
Red flag is when a student asks to see you privately after hours AND is not doing well.
It was my observation that the relationship that most often developed between a male professor and a female student was not this type. It was usually between a professor and the smartest girl in the class.
Local

Philadelphia, PA

#30 Oct 28, 2013
The worst sexual predator at EKU was finally fired by this new president. He has been unstoppable for decades.
tabatha

Somerset, KY

#31 Oct 29, 2013
Yea, had the same problem at Madison with Chris ! I will leave the last name out but he thinks he is well liked and important enough to run for Office in Richmond !
Lucky

Philadelphia, PA

#32 Oct 29, 2013
tabatha wrote:
Yea, had the same problem at Madison with Chris ! I will leave the last name out but he thinks he is well liked and important enough to run for Office in Richmond !
. Tabatha oh Tabatha slander will get you no where! What kills me is in the age of smart phones none of this BS is ever recorded get smart record video then spread the facts!!!
Yes_twice

Oxnard, CA

#33 Nov 9, 2014
tabatha wrote:
i am curious if anyone else has had college professors' come onto them. in my first year of college i had 2 make sexual advances towards me. one made a comment in his office about he could help me get my grade up in computer class to pass and took a sip of water making his mouth look sexy. he then asked me if i wanted a sip, i said no then he acted mad and said well i can't help you.
the other one was a psychology professor. he was extremely intelligent. he always made sure we made eye contact with long stares. he asked me to stay after class and asked me all kinds of sex questions. he complimented me often and tried to use mind techniques on me. he was very clever and almost had me fooled. he kissed me, thats how slick he was.
don't ask what college i will not say, it is NOT eku. in my own personal experiences...college teachers seem stranger than most, and more perverted, maybe thats why they like a job around young girls. does anyone else have a story to tell.....
I have been in your shoes, twice as well. One time it happened often with this older professor at a college I no longer attend. I was around 20 to 21 years old. He constantly flirted with me at events hosted outside of campus. It got to the point where a couple of fellow students started to notice. However, I didn't mind it, he was sweet, smart, and quite frankly I was attracted to him despite him being 20+ years my senior, an attractive older man. Nothing exceeded beyond that.
The second time happened exactly two days ago, as to why I found this forum, he is my statistics teacher, foreign, I think Russian. I take his class on the weekend. One day, he had expressed in class that if anyone missed a single day he wouldn't dismiss our lowest test grade.(I didn't do to well on the last test). I freaked out because I did miss one day (I had work). I went ahead and walked out with him after class. I told him my situation and he said (in his thick accent) "a beautiful girl like you is not going to fail." and then he hugged me, quite intimately. I was taken aback, but gave him the benefit of the doubt. A week later,(two days ago) I just so happen to park in the same staff lot as he did.(I tutor two general subjects on campus). As I approach my car he is standing by his car with the door open standing beside it as he finished up a cigarette. I took that as an opportunity to test him. I went up to him, and wanted to confirm that if I do well on the next test that he would for sure dismiss my last test grade. he said, "Yes, you do not have to worry." I said, "Ok, good, I feel awful because I turn in all assignments, and participate in class, but my efforts did not show on the last test. I just wanted to be sure." then he said, "Well what do you want? An A, B, C or D?" at that point I knew where he was heading, I smiled and said "An A" I was about to turn and leave, but he reached out his hand out to me. I grabbed it thinking he wanted to shake my hand, but he instead embraced me in another hug and whispered in my ear"Let me touch you." and cupped my left breast. I immediately froze. his breathing intensified in my ear, and his mouth started going towards my neck. I broke it off at that point. I was so fucking shocked, I simply walked away and went into my car and drove off. I was ashamed to say that my body actually got excited. I don't know what the fuck to do, I think I should drop his class at this point.
Ed Hieronymus

Mckee, KY

#34 Nov 10, 2014
tabatha wrote:
<quoted text>
i think i can see when someone is making sexy faces with their tongue and such. PLEASE. you were not there, so how can you say YOU THINK i am nieve and looking for someone to complain or feel shocked about. it's ovious YOU are looking for someone to be complaining and shocking. you sound like a teacher yourself,I THINK you are acting defensive and are the one to come on to you're students. can't you find someone you're own age....
Well, actually you raise a good point about finding people you're own age. The truth of the matter is that women tend to gain a great deal of weight as they get older and if you're a reasonably attractive individual do you really want to date a woman that has just totally let herself go to pot?

And, I would say the same is true with women they call cougars that want to date younger men. Do they want to date bald men with missing teeth if they're still attractive? I doubt it

So, that's why some people don't want to nor should they really be expected to to just settle down with someone their old age.

These two look extremely happy together https://www.facebook.com/CrystalHarrisHefner/... .
Ed Hieronymus

Mckee, KY

#35 Nov 10, 2014
^ Your instead of you're of course
Ed Hieronymus

Mckee, KY

#36 Nov 10, 2014
Yes_twice wrote:
<quoted text>
I have been in your shoes, twice as well. One time it happened often with this older professor at a college I no longer attend. I was around 20 to 21 years old. He constantly flirted with me at events hosted outside of campus. It got to the point where a couple of fellow students started to notice. However, I didn't mind it, he was sweet, smart, and quite frankly I was attracted to him despite him being 20+ years my senior, an attractive older man. Nothing exceeded beyond that.
The second time happened exactly two days ago, as to why I found this forum, he is my statistics teacher, foreign, I think Russian. I take his class on the weekend. One day, he had expressed in class that if anyone missed a single day he wouldn't dismiss our lowest test grade.(I didn't do to well on the last test). I freaked out because I did miss one day (I had work). I went ahead and walked out with him after class. I told him my situation and he said (in his thick accent) "a beautiful girl like you is not going to fail." and then he hugged me, quite intimately. I was taken aback, but gave him the benefit of the doubt. A week later,(two days ago) I just so happen to park in the same staff lot as he did.(I tutor two general subjects on campus). As I approach my car he is standing by his car with the door open standing beside it as he finished up a cigarette. I took that as an opportunity to test him. I went up to him, and wanted to confirm that if I do well on the next test that he would for sure dismiss my last test grade. he said, "Yes, you do not have to worry." I said, "Ok, good, I feel awful because I turn in all assignments, and participate in class, but my efforts did not show on the last test. I just wanted to be sure." then he said, "Well what do you want? An A, B, C or D?" at that point I knew where he was heading, I smiled and said "An A" I was about to turn and leave, but he reached out his hand out to me. I grabbed it thinking he wanted to shake my hand, but he instead embraced me in another hug and whispered in my ear"Let me touch you." and cupped my left breast. I immediately froze. his breathing intensified in my ear, and his mouth started going towards my neck. I broke it off at that point. I was so fucking shocked, I simply walked away and went into my car and drove off. I was ashamed to say that my body actually got excited. I don't know what the fuck to do, I think I should drop his class at this point.
Nice story. You have the makings of a formidable author.

In my estimation, and if your body got excited, then you should probably go ahead and go with it.
You would get your A, he could probably teach you things outside of the classroom as well as in it, and he might be well off and that would mean that he would have plenty of money to spend on you so that you could get some really nice things. If you're a single mom that might be especially beneficial to you.

One cautionary caveat to all that though is that European men can be Super Pervy and he's quite possibly into whips and chains and, there's also a certain probability that he's into the same type of things that the villains in "Hostel" (( http://youtu.be/DEmnNA1SNkc ) or "I Spit On Your Grave 2 "( http://youtu.be/b39OxbSI2CQ ) were into since he is from Eastern Europe ( some Eastern European bigwig living in the area would definitely be the type that might have had an additional hand in the Brooke Farthing Missing Persons Case and possibly the Resources to cover it up ), but hopefully he isn't. However it is something to keep in mind in a case like yours.
Ed Hieronymus

Mckee, KY

#37 Nov 10, 2014
A much better video ( http://youtu.be/OIuHbJIOyrI ) for the incredible movie "I Spit On Your Grave 2" that I mentioned above. And an illustration for "Whips and Chains" ( http://youtu.be/x85uU7qbkgY ) from yet another fantastic film -- Stuart Gordon's cinematic adaptation of the lesser H. P. Lovecraft story ( that still contains Lovecraft's usual profound ideas and speculations on Other Realities ) "From Beyond."
translation

Lexington, KY

#38 Nov 10, 2014
Before you take any advice from Ed, you should know he was expelled from EKU for harassing a female professor who didn't want to date him.

He's also incredibly creepy, as you no doubt have figured out from reading his posts.
Sharon

United States

#39 Nov 10, 2014
College is the same as High School. Wanna pass, put out some ass. Or study like a crazy person. Me, when I was in school, I had an easy pass, since I was more than willing to do the job.

The only problem is with the parents that think their kids do not have sex. Face it, if your kid is 14 and has never had sex, then she is retarded, or fat and ugly, whichever you prefer.
Sharon

United States

#40 Nov 10, 2014
Let me build on my post a minute. Lots of kids can just study and make it. But some, actually most, want to have great jobs making lots of cash. Doctors, Lawyers, etc. But the stupid stuff you have to learn to pass and will never ever need again is dumb.

Study what you need and let the Professor have a bit, get the grades and live your life as you want.

I am in practice everyday and I never took a single test at UK the entire time I was there.

Colleges are basically houses of ill repute. But it was damn sure fun.........

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