sexual advances from college professors

sexual advances from college professors

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tabatha

Richmond, KY

#1 Jun 14, 2010
i am curious if anyone else has had college professors' come onto them. in my first year of college i had 2 make sexual advances towards me. one made a comment in his office about he could help me get my grade up in computer class to pass and took a sip of water making his mouth look sexy. he then asked me if i wanted a sip, i said no then he acted mad and said well i can't help you.

the other one was a psychology professor. he was extremely intelligent. he always made sure we made eye contact with long stares. he asked me to stay after class and asked me all kinds of sex questions. he complimented me often and tried to use mind techniques on me. he was very clever and almost had me fooled. he kissed me, thats how slick he was.

don't ask what college i will not say, it is NOT eku. in my own personal experiences...college teachers seem stranger than most, and more perverted, maybe thats why they like a job around young girls. does anyone else have a story to tell.....
Yes

United States

#2 Jun 15, 2010
While it has been discussed in depth that college professors can and do sleep with the students. Google it and read for yourself.

Some people cannot understand that it is not unethical or a crime. Students at that level are not children, but adults.

This activity, females spreading for grades has been happening for years and I would say will not change any time soon.

Your comment that someone made their mouth look sexy...... How the heck do you do that???? I think you are just nieve and looking for something to complain or feel shocked about.

But the bottom line is and always has been. If you need help to pass, be prepared to put out some ass.

Your other choice is to study and actually learn the material.
well

Berea, KY

#3 Jun 15, 2010
hey want a good grade come over here....we can stay up all night "studying" for a good grade at your college...both of you are welcomed to join in.
tabatha

Richmond, KY

#4 Jun 15, 2010
Yes wrote:
While it has been discussed in depth that college professors can and do sleep with the students. Google it and read for yourself.
Some people cannot understand that it is not unethical or a crime. Students at that level are not children, but adults.
This activity, females spreading for grades has been happening for years and I would say will not change any ti
Your comment that someone made their mouth look sexy...... How the heck do you do that???? I think you are just nieve and looking for something to complain or feel shocked about.
But the bottom line is and always has been. If you need help to pass, be prepared to put out some ass.
Your other choice is to study and actually learn the material.
i think i can see when someone is making sexy faces with their tongue and such. PLEASE. you were not there, so how can you say YOU THINK i am nieve and looking for someone to complain or feel shocked about. it's ovious YOU are looking for someone to be complaining and shocking. you sound like a teacher yourself,I THINK you are acting defensive and are the one to come on to you're students. can't you find someone you're own age....
Take Back the Night

Lexington, KY

#5 Jun 15, 2010
There are many other students on a campus, next time please find one to go with you to talk to a professor! Especially if you are picking up on signals like you have mentioned. Predators DO seek employment in positions where they can leverage some power. It IS unethical behavior to date a student and all colleged that I know of do not allow such fraternizing. IF a professor is that perverted that he would solicit you for sex in the presence of a witness, you need to report him/her to the dean of students immediately...because that shows more than experimental interest. That is a sign of something more serious.
Agree

Richmond, KY

#6 Jun 16, 2010
Take Back the Night wrote:
There are many other students on a campus, next time please find one to go with you to talk to a professor! Especially if you are picking up on signals like you have mentioned. Predators DO seek employment in positions where they can leverage some power. It IS unethical behavior to date a student and all colleged that I know of do not allow such fraternizing. IF a professor is that perverted that he would solicit you for sex in the presence of a witness, you need to report him/her to the dean of students immediately...because that shows more than experimental interest. That is a sign of something more serious.
Most campuses have an equal opportunity office that you can go to. Even if its just your word against theirs, they usually investigate pretty deeply to find out what's going on. By going to them, you take control of the situation, and let the professor know that you aren't going to take that sort of treatment! Look on the site index to find them, and good luck!
tabatha

Richmond, KY

#7 Jun 16, 2010
i don't want to get anyone in trouble. i was just curious if any other person out there had been in this situation. but im sure if these professors keep it up someone will turn them in eventually.
i have left out all the details but one of the men is down right devil in disguise monster. he's married, teaches sunday school, and acts like he is a big believer in christ,,,even with a web site with scriptures. and extra credit was writing something about god. he has a secret life of pure evil and con. he acted like he was looking out for my well being when in reality he was trying to bring me rock bottom. it'sa looong story. he's just a monster he realized i wasn't going to follow his game and then he didn't want nothing to do with me and didn't want to have conversations about good things like god...he wanted to destroy me and he knew he wasn't getting through so he's moved on to a new helpless victim.

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the real world.....

#8 Jun 16, 2010
You should do as 'Take Back the Night' said, and report it to the dean of students, now.
Those not wanting to get anyone in trouble is exactly why that type of person feels comfortable to behave that way; they know they will get away with it.

You can stop him from making a victim of another vulnerable, naive young woman.

There's also a good chance that once a complaint is filed, others will follow suit.

Good luck, and do the right thing!
Take Back the Night

Lexington, KY

#9 Jun 17, 2010
tabatha wrote:
i don't want to get anyone in trouble. i was just curious if any other person out there had been in this situation. but im sure if these professors keep it up someone will turn them in eventually.
i have left out all the details but one of the men is down right devil in disguise monster. he's married, teaches sunday school, and acts like he is a big believer in christ,,,even with a web site with scriptures. and extra credit was writing something about god. he has a secret life of pure evil and con. he acted like he was looking out for my well being when in reality he was trying to bring me rock bottom. it'sa looong story. he's just a monster he realized i wasn't going to follow his game and then he didn't want nothing to do with me and didn't want to have conversations about good things like god...he wanted to destroy me and he knew he wasn't getting through so he's moved on to a new helpless victim.
Someday when you are a "helpless victim" such as perhaps a victim of a date rape drug, someone will not want to "get anyone in trouble" Perhaps, since this monster is teaching Sunday school, he will move on to children. Please reconsider, you can anonymously report. You can also make anonymous calls to his church and other places that should be "concerned" about this odd behavior. Churches require criminal background checks of their employers...HOWEVER...1. not all Sunday School teachers are hired, many are volunteers and not subject to the check and 2. Until he is caught AND convicted, it won't show up on a background check. Remember any decision in life you make affects at least 2 other people, you will have to live with yourself. I guarantee you if you ever have a child who is abused, a decision to stand idle on issues like this will haunt your sleep.
tabatha

Richmond, KY

#10 Jun 17, 2010
he quit talking to me after he seen he wasn't going to get anything out of me and i wasn't following his game. i just so happened to find out he is associated with a group of people that enjoys pills, cocaine, and fueling whores with drugs for dances and sex and engaging in oral sex and such with friend's wife.
he hooked me up with someone, but he was a very very nice good man. but i think what he does he looks to find vulernable girls to take advantage of and tries to sell them off. i now found out he hooked up another girl with him that is a prostitute whore that goes out with men for money and drugs. it is disgusting. he would tell me i have someone for you to meet...but i never acted on it. one time i said the only thing i will do is smoke a little marijuana thats it. he said shhh, i've done cocaine before, i figured marijuana would kill me. i am not that stupid. i think he said that so maybe i would want to try cocaine or something. he is looking for these wounded girls with backgrounds of abuse or addictions because they are easy prey. i cannot be the one to turn him in though. i am sorry. he is also a psychic, medium, and reads minds. he is very intelligent and manipulating but he is powerful in a way. he would know it was me. i simply will not do it. he has told me things i am thinking and described things exactly. i don't need any bad blood with him. all i can do is hope the best for his prey and let someone else speak up about him. heck as far as i know he is reading this and knows who i am.
Honest

Richmond, KY

#11 Jun 17, 2010
Agree wrote:
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Most campuses have an equal opportunity office that you can go to. Even if its just your word against theirs, they usually investigate pretty deeply to find out what's going on. By going to them, you take control of the situation, and let the professor know that you aren't going to take that sort of treatment! Look on the site index to find them, and good luck!

First: It is not against the law for a Professor to have sex with a student at this level.

Second: Reporting him is the fastest way to fail many courses. Professors have Professor friends you know.

Once that happens, you can change schools and have daddy spend more money to get you started again. Or find yourself a the star in a new film doing a dog and pony show some weekend.

As a matter of fact, I know a woman that was told she could do it on film with 3 dogs or fail. She did it, and I'll bet she has never reported another Professor in her life.
Take Back the Night

Lexington, KY

#12 Jun 18, 2010
Honest wrote:
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First: It is not against the law for a Professor to have sex with a student at this level.
Second: Reporting him is the fastest way to fail many courses. Professors have Professor friends you know.
Once that happens, you can change schools and have daddy spend more money to get you started again. Or find yourself a the star in a new film doing a dog and pony show some weekend.
As a matter of fact, I know a woman that was told she could do it on film with 3 dogs or fail. She did it, and I'll bet she has never reported another Professor in her life.
This is pretty much how it has been, but it needs to change. I have no problem with a prof and student having consensual sex as long as the class is over and the grades were not blackamailed, but these issues are different. Many women are coerced into sexual acts by different people in authority by threats of power or influence. The options are to just take it or to report it and fight back. The first option means no room for progress, the 2nd brings about change albeit slow. Another option is to band together and demand action. I prefer to be the part of the latter two, this is my honest opinion in reply to "honest" comment. As for Tabitha, I will do you a favor. Tell your professor to read my mind, he will be brought to his knees in pain. Let me read your future now. You will continue to pick out the same type of men throughout your life, you will encounter more people like this and you will continue to allow yourself to be victimized by them, until you take a stand. If you choose to live in this, why would you bother to bring it up? You have basically said this person has done a terrible wrong and is a terrible person, but it is ok, not a big deal. It appears you don't believe you are worth any more than that, and you have my pity.
well

Berea, KY

#13 Jun 18, 2010
she dont have my pity...if she wants to let him get away with stupid crap then she can come to my house so i can tie her up use and abuse her and send her on the streets to make me some money...if you wanna be treated like sh!t and let folks get away with it then lets treat you like sh!t and see what you think about laying on your back or riding it 24/7...he11 its the same thing i am just coming out and telling you what your already letting him do to you
tabatha

Richmond, KY

#14 Jun 18, 2010
we are ALL on a computer typing. You do not know me and you do not knowthe situation only what i have said. You have assumed i let this guy and NOW others treat me like dirt. I do not let no one treat me like dirt, DO NOT ASSUME. I can assume about you as well and i do not know you. For you're information that i have left out I am not a freshman in college anymore. I have fabulous family, beautiful house, and in my spare time i am working out my killer body. So you have assumed wrong my friend.
This is only ONE situation i have been in and out of curiousity i wanted to know if others have been in the same position. Yes it is wrong on his part, but i say figure it out like i did. it didn't take long. i had my doubts about him the first 5 minutes when he asked me sex questions. its easy to tell someone to TELL but when the shoe is on the other foot im sure you would not want to make enemies when you live in the same town as this person and just a couple miles apart. that is all i have to say
tabatha

Richmond, KY

#15 Jun 18, 2010
you're comments are so way off i am not going to respond anymore to this nonsense. i would be the idiot then arguing about something you are only assuming. i can assume you are 300 pounds, enjoy sitting on the computer all day, typing back to peoples comments on topix and figuring the whole situation out in you're mind and then type what you THINK is accurate. This would go on all day and i have better things to do like getting a facial or taking my dogs to the park. good luck with you're assuming
LOL

Richmond, KY

#16 Jun 18, 2010
Perhaps you will get pulled over by the RPD.
well

Berea, KY

#17 Jun 18, 2010
LOL wrote:
Perhaps you will get pulled over by the RPD.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA then she wont tell anyone that either
well

Berea, KY

#18 Jun 18, 2010
tabatha wrote:
you're comments are so way off i am not going to respond anymore to this nonsense. i would be the idiot then arguing about something you are only assuming. i can assume you are 300 pounds, enjoy sitting on the computer all day, typing back to peoples comments on topix and figuring the whole situation out in you're mind and then type what you THINK is accurate. This would go on all day and i have better things to do like getting a facial or taking my dogs to the park. good luck with you're assuming
I am glad you got a smokin body...that way i can make more money off your fine bubble @$$...bend over girl...take it for the team...we all know your good at it....roflmao...scream my name....say it hurts....it's not like your gonna tell anyone about it....lol
Jessica

Georgetown, TX

#19 Feb 27, 2013
Agree wrote:
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Most campuses have an equal opportunity office that you can go to. Even if its just your word against theirs, they usually investigate pretty deeply to find out what's going on. By going to them, you take control of the situation, and let the professor know that you aren't going to take that sort of treatment! Look on the site index to find them, and good luck!
Wouldn't it be nice if they actually took things like this seriously...this happened to me when I was 19 and very naive. I went to the individuals who supposedly were supposed to help me and they took his side. I was ridiculed and belittled by the other profs and ended up leaving my degree plan all together. I often wonder what might have happened if I had not reported.
Julie Baker

Melrose Park, IL

#20 Aug 14, 2013
I know for a fact that Frank Marcello of Northwestern Business has sex with his students. He talked about it in class. He was proud of it.

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