Married Closeted gay men on the DL

Married Closeted gay men on the DL

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United States

#1 Jun 13, 2011
I think some people would be VERY surprised to find out some men are actually gay in the area. I know of at least one well known married man in town who's been having a gay affair for years. Let's compare stories.
stateoftheunion

Richmond, KY

#2 Sep 15, 2011
Do tell
hmmmm

Richmond, KY

#3 Sep 16, 2011
Is his last name Calitri?
Closet

Mount Sterling, KY

#4 Sep 16, 2011
I know for a fact that the music director at one of the largest churches in the area plays more than his instrument!
Heisafreak

United States

#5 Sep 16, 2011
Ask Billy Gabbard he has slept with most of them
I am

Nicholasville, KY

#6 Sep 16, 2011
married here and I like to please another mans needs on the DL too
I am

Nicholasville, KY

#7 Sep 16, 2011
Closet wrote:
I know for a fact that the music director at one of the largest churches in the area plays more than his instrument!
me too love to play the male organ
Why

Lexington, KY

#8 Sep 16, 2011
Just curious, if you are living on the DL and really gay why not live as a gay man. If you are worried about what your Momma, your family, you friends, or whoever will think of you then move out of the area. I have know gay men that have taken jobs in other states. Some of those men have moved many states away and live their lifestyle without those back home knowing about it.

Now before people say just live as you are this is why they live on the DL anyway. They are afraid of being rejected from their families, friends,& communities. Don;t hurt some poor woman that can;t understand why you dont find her hot in the bed room. It's not fair to the woman you are pretending to be in love with when you want a man. You are robbing her of true happeness with a 100% heterosexual man who wants a woman.

Go live your life as you want but don't ruin some poor womans life while you hide in the closet.
Closet

Mount Sterling, KY

#9 Sep 18, 2011
I am wrote:
married here and I like to please another mans needs on the DL too
Right there with you man. Me, too!
Kasper Koslowski

Greenup, KY

#10 Sep 18, 2011
Closet wrote:
<quoted text>
Right there with you man. Me, too!
count me in too
Nut

Richmond, KY

#11 Sep 20, 2011
I like to rub my finger around my bung when I jack! Does anyone else like to do this??
I Am Too So What

Richmond, KY

#12 Sep 20, 2011
Nut wrote:
I like to rub my finger around my bung when I jack! Does anyone else like to do this??
Maybe I should give you a Helping Hand sometime soon
Nut

Richmond, KY

#13 Sep 23, 2011
I Am Too So What wrote:
<quoted text> Maybe I should give you a Helping Hand sometime soon
Any time dude!
Closet

Mount Sterling, KY

#14 Sep 24, 2011
Count me in! I'd like some fun!
get tested

Lexington, KY

#15 Nov 14, 2011
there are over 1000 cases of HIV in this area, mostly gay men. have fun dying and killing your wife too.
get tested

Lexington, KY

#16 Nov 14, 2011
and those are only known cases
huh

Ironton, OH

#17 Nov 15, 2011
get tested wrote:
there are over 1000 cases of HIV in this area, mostly gay men. have fun dying and killing your wife too.
Interesting statistic. Please post link to your sources of information or studies, to include the information on specific sexualities within those stats.

In the meantime, consider that the HIV/AIDS problem, while once believed /promoted to be a pronounced "gay" epidemic, has long since been discovered to be equally if not more prevalent in hetero persons, as well. In fact, since homosexuals are still a minority, it stands to reason that reported and unreported cases of the infection would tip whatever scales you're using well into the hetero-side. That's not even counting the many other STDs out there.

Unprotected sex is the culprit, not homosexuality. And such ignorance is not strictly limited to homosexuals... in fact, in rural states with low education numbers across the board, I daresay that if it's not a universal problem, then heterosexuals are probably well in the lead.

I look forward to your supporting information.
gay or not get tested

Lexington, KY

#18 Nov 15, 2011
HIV/AIDS Semi-Annual Report, December 2009
kentucky cabinet for health and family services

everyone should get tested and be honest with partners regardless of sexual preference
huh

Ironton, OH

#19 Nov 15, 2011
gay or not get tested wrote:
HIV/AIDS Semi-Annual Report, December 2009
kentucky cabinet for health and family services
everyone should get tested and be honest with partners regardless of sexual preference
Thanks for the reference.

I Googled and skimmed the report in question, in PDF format. A search of the entire report did not enumerate any references to the heterosexuality or homosexuality of those included in the statistics.

In short, there seems to be no substantiating evidence of the prior post's claim that gays are responsible for the current proliferation of HIV/AIDS. Again, such claims have in many cases turned out to be myths propagated by various interested opposed to homosexuals in general.

As a straight but tolerant person, I find such misinformation attempts to be antiquated, a little sad, and irrelevant.

However, I agree that it would be wise for anyone who as ever been sexually active, hetero or otherwise - even monogamously - to be tested at least once.
huh

Ironton, OH

#20 Nov 15, 2011
correction: "propagated by various *interests*"

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