R there men in the Richmond area that like being with Big Beautiful Women (BBW)

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Since: Aug 10

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#1 Aug 21, 2010
Just curious
Ugh

Louisville, KY

#2 Aug 21, 2010
There's no such thing. Mexicans like knocking up fat ass women, go find them...

Since: Aug 10

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#3 Aug 21, 2010
K thanks for your 2cents worth
Ummm

Bowling Green, KY

#4 Aug 21, 2010
I'd say, of course there are. The question is why?

Assuming you mean for more than a shag: A good open-minded man shouldn't be solely attracted to any bodytype or design, at least not after the initial meet.

I mean we're all products of our genetics, to a degree: Men and women are attracted to certain traits and figures, even attitudes, that promote successful breeding and best care for potential offspring... part of being a mammal. Technically, a bigger, full-figured woman meets part of that programming well - she ia likely to bear more children and nurse better than a skinny one - but the BBW falls short in the "healthy, active offspring DNA" assessment. Most of this occurs well below any conscious level, in the very instant we see a person. The rest is down to a person's history, experience, and personal preferences.

But on to emotional and mental connections: It's difficult to judge how someone will be and how you'll like one another based on looks alone. There are vibrant, fun, intelligent people, and bitter, damaged, hurtful psychos in every size, shape and color I've dated. Never knew til I tried, really.

Now if you meant strictly for a shag, then yes, many men actually prefer so-called BBW, because on the whole, more often than not, they're easer targets, sad to say. Society, the media, and resulting self-esteem issues makes many larger women a little more desperate, a little less picky, and a lot more eager to please.

But then, if a BBW wants more than to be an easy score, she must see through her own issues (if applicable) and determine a suitor's true motives, bearing in mind that many if not most are of the "easy score-hunting" variety. So be careful, ladies! And fellas, do try to be gentle...

Me, I'm married. And in case you're wondering, she's just right!

Good luck!

Since: Aug 10

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#5 Aug 21, 2010
No I wasnot talking about for just a shag, Was just curious,my aunt is a bigger lady and a really great person inside and out just she cant see past these men and their motives for giving her attention, was just wanting to hear so mens opinions on the subject if they could be honest and answer.She doesnt have any children but I am positive she would be a great mother who would not want her children to go through what she has that I have witnessed since I have been old enough to know what was going on
Ummm

Bowling Green, KY

#6 Aug 22, 2010
prettyblueyes wrote:
No I wasnot talking about for just a shag, Was just curious,my aunt is a bigger lady and a really great person inside and out just she cant see past these men and their motives for giving her attention, was just wanting to hear so mens opinions on the subject if they could be honest and answer.She doesnt have any children but I am positive she would be a great mother who would not want her children to go through what she has that I have witnessed since I have been old enough to know what was going on
I highly recommend the use of a more structured dating site. eHarmony.com , Match.com , etc. Topix in rural areas is not known for being a magnet to good people. I visit because it's like Springer in a open forum-format, but try to be helpful when possible... and still, visiting primarily to see the drama and laugh at it is not exactly admirable. Many others are Worse still, and just the types she'd probably do well to avoid. Just being honest.
ThickChick

Sevierville, TN

#7 Aug 22, 2010
I am from Richmond and I would just say that I agree with Ummm. Men in Richmond are really only looking for one thing. And a relationship doesn't seem to be one of them. There are plenty of men in Richmond who are attraced to BBW's. I've dated a few. But your best bet is to try a dating site and not a gossip site where people like the previous jackass above come to be rude!
Thick Stick

United States

#8 Aug 22, 2010
ThickChick wrote:
I am from Richmond and I would just say that I agree with Ummm. Men in Richmond are really only looking for one thing. And a relationship doesn't seem to be one of them. There are plenty of men in Richmond who are attraced to BBW's. I've dated a few. But your best bet is to try a dating site and not a gossip site where people like the previous jackass above come to be rude!
You post in every thread related to sex. In one, you even admitted to sleeping with white men, black men, white women, and black women. And you are trying to give others advice? Your nasty! People, veer FAR away from this fat woman's "words of wisdom."
Sweet Sincere Guy

United States

#9 Aug 22, 2010
prettyblueyes wrote:
Just curious
Very nice, attractive single man, sincere, easy to talk to, career-minded, emotionally and financially stable. I am very attracted to BBW. Feel free to email me:

mercedesman2010@yahoo.com
Dude

Richmond, KY

#10 Aug 22, 2010
I must admitt that I really am attracted to larger women and really love a larger butt, and not bragging but Have a 7.5, wide , thick penis and do live in the richmond area, and as you girls know its hard to trust people on a open public forum, so it makes it difficult to meet, but really enjoy your comments!!
Judge this

Dayton, OH

#11 Aug 22, 2010
Ummm wrote:
I'd say, of course there are. The question is why?
Assuming you mean for more than a shag: A good open-minded man shouldn't be solely attracted to any bodytype or design, at least not after the initial meet.
I mean we're all products of our genetics, to a degree: Men and women are attracted to certain traits and figures, even attitudes, that promote successful breeding and best care for potential offspring... part of being a mammal. Technically, a bigger, full-figured woman meets part of that programming well - she ia likely to bear more children and nurse better than a skinny one - but the BBW falls short in the "healthy, active offspring DNA" assessment. Most of this occurs well below any conscious level, in the very instant we see a person. The rest is down to a person's history, experience, and personal preferences.
But on to emotional and mental connections: It's difficult to judge how someone will be and how you'll like one another based on looks alone. There are vibrant, fun, intelligent people, and bitter, damaged, hurtful psychos in every size, shape and color I've dated. Never knew til I tried, really.
Now if you meant strictly for a shag, then yes, many men actually prefer so-called BBW, because on the whole, more often than not, they're easer targets, sad to say. Society, the media, and resulting self-esteem issues makes many larger women a little more desperate, a little less picky, and a lot more eager to please.
But then, if a BBW wants more than to be an easy score, she must see through her own issues (if applicable) and determine a suitor's true motives, bearing in mind that many if not most are of the "easy score-hunting" variety. So be careful, ladies! And fellas, do try to be gentle...
Me, I'm married. And in case you're wondering, she's just right!
Good luck!
Alright Dr. Phil, thanks for your egotistical summary of ALL BBW's. What a Jerk!
ThickChick

Sevierville, TN

#12 Aug 22, 2010
Thick Stick wrote:
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You post in every thread related to sex. In one, you even admitted to sleeping with white men, black men, white women, and black women. And you are trying to give others advice? Your nasty! People, veer FAR away from this fat woman's "words of wisdom."
First of all.. I post on more than just the post dealing with sex but why not speak on something I like? Secondly, I am a 27 year old, do not act like you have not experimented with people when you were younger. Like I said I HAVE been with them. I have grown and matured. These are not things I participate in anymore but yes I have done some things... so how about you take your opinion and judge someone else because what you have to say really doesn't mean shit to me. Seems like you are the only person who sees anything wrong with what I have to say so you know what that means? It's your own personal problem.
HUGE ONE

United States

#13 Aug 22, 2010
the thick chicks are the best.I like some meat on my women. And thick chick thats been posting on here I would love to chat with you .Leave me a way to get ahold of you on here.
BBW

Berea, KY

#14 Aug 22, 2010
Ummm wrote:
I'd say, of course there are. The question is why?
Assuming you mean for more than a shag: A good open-minded man shouldn't be solely attracted to any bodytype or design, at least not after the initial meet.
I mean we're all products of our genetics, to a degree: Men and women are attracted to certain traits and figures, even attitudes, that promote successful breeding and best care for potential offspring... part of being a mammal. Technically, a bigger, full-figured woman meets part of that programming well - she ia likely to bear more children and nurse better than a skinny one - but the BBW falls short in the "healthy, active offspring DNA" assessment. Most of this occurs well below any conscious level, in the very instant we see a person. The rest is down to a person's history, experience, and personal preferences.
But on to emotional and mental connections: It's difficult to judge how someone will be and how you'll like one another based on looks alone. There are vibrant, fun, intelligent people, and bitter, damaged, hurtful psychos in every size, shape and color I've dated. Never knew til I tried, really.
Now if you meant strictly for a shag, then yes, many men actually prefer so-called BBW, because on the whole, more often than not, they're easer targets, sad to say. Society, the media, and resulting self-esteem issues makes many larger women a little more desperate, a little less picky, and a lot more eager to please.
But then, if a BBW wants more than to be an easy score, she must see through her own issues (if applicable) and determine a suitor's true motives, bearing in mind that many if not most are of the "easy score-hunting" variety. So be careful, ladies! And fellas, do try to be gentle...
Me, I'm married. And in case you're wondering, she's just right!
Good luck!
You are only speaking about yourself on this. I am a very SEXY BBW and I have 3 boyfriends and more standing in line wanting to be my boyfriend. No I am NOT a shag as you put it. I am treated like a princess and all three of these men profess their love to me and want to be the only one in my life. All BBW's do NOT have self esteem issues. In fact most of us love our size and so do a lot of the men and not just to "shag". They love us because we ARE confident and happy with who we are. They love us because we don't try to be something or someone we are not, unlike most American women.Before you go name calling on me remember this........you do NOT know me or my situation so reserve your nasty thoughts for yourself. Remember assumptions is the mother of all f*k ups.
ThickChick

Lexington, KY

#15 Aug 23, 2010
BBW wrote:
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You are only speaking about yourself on this. I am a very SEXY BBW and I have 3 boyfriends and more standing in line wanting to be my boyfriend. No I am NOT a shag as you put it. I am treated like a princess and all three of these men profess their love to me and want to be the only one in my life. All BBW's do NOT have self esteem issues. In fact most of us love our size and so do a lot of the men and not just to "shag". They love us because we ARE confident and happy with who we are. They love us because we don't try to be something or someone we are not, unlike most American women.Before you go name calling on me remember this........you do NOT know me or my situation so reserve your nasty thoughts for yourself. Remember assumptions is the mother of all f*k ups.
I completely agree with you... People don't realize that all bigger women are not self consisious... We do carry ourselves proudly and you can see a difference in the ones who do and don't. If you walk all slumped over and head hanging then yes you look like a fat slob but if you carry yourself with confidence then you are a beautiful woman no matter a size zero or a size 24. These men get on here and talk about us like we're nothing but I am sure they are the ones sitting at home masterbating to porn because they can't get a girlfriend.
Ummm

Mount Sterling, KY

#16 Aug 23, 2010
I mentioned that there were exceptions. But even as an exception, you have to admit that we live in a society where women of a larger frame are burdened with an almost automatic stigma, unjust as it may be, and that self-esteem issues are rampant as a result. Carefully read the posts I made before assuming I've lumped all shapely women into a category - I said "more often than not," which I suspect is accurate, meaning "more jar these issues than not." this is based on personal experience and my own associations, and yours maybe different.

I mentioned it only to illustrate the dubious motives of certain less scrupulous men I have known who prey on such things for their own reasons. I was not endorsing the behavior, but providing a warning.

I appreciate your desire to assert yourself, but no personal insult was intended. I'm sorry that any of you felt that it was.

Ummm

Mount Sterling, KY

#17 Aug 23, 2010
correction: "...more *have* these issues than not"
Tall Women Lover

Richmond, KY

#18 Apr 23, 2012
If she is taller than I am, I have no problem with the concept.
ILoveThickGirls

United States

#19 May 6, 2012
Define bbw? I think a girl with a little junk in the trunk is definetly attractive. Thick girls are way more attractive than an skinny anorexic girls. But I do have a limit there's no way I could ever be with an obese girl. I would say the perfect girl would weigh about 150-200 pounds but any bigger than that and it's just starts to be a little much.
Relmac

Richmond, KY

#20 May 8, 2012
If they are very tall, I like them. The taller the better. I am not kidding, either. Try me!!!

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