Instead of starting posts, calling/emailing her friends, family and exes and jobs.
Whatever you say is taken with a grain of salt because what she told you was what she wanted to because she knew that once she left you would tell everything, which you did. And since none of it was true that you blabbed you made yourself look absurd.
When you've broken the law, it's not a good idea to call other people 's places of business.
You are too old for such childish behavior.