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Winchester, KY

#1 Aug 6, 2011
Share your idea's for making a cheating spouse's life miserable.

What did you do that gave you a big laugh and some satisfaction.

Let's have some fun and share.

“Fighting Cancer”

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#2 Aug 6, 2011
Pay Forward wrote:
Share your idea's for making a cheating spouse's life miserable.
What did you do that gave you a big laugh and some satisfaction.
Let's have some fun and share.
I divorced him and left. He had no clue what was going on, until he came home from work one night. The kids and I were gone, and his copy of the divorce papers were laying on the kitchen table.

SNAP

:P
why

Clay City, KY

#3 Aug 8, 2011
Why waste your time? Just divorce them and move on or if that's not what you want to do try to move past it and fix the relationship. If you try to get back at them you are being childish and honestly as bad as they are.
Heyday

Winchester, KY

#5 Aug 12, 2011
why wrote:
Why waste your time? Just divorce them and move on or if that's not what you want to do try to move past it and fix the relationship. If you try to get back at them you are being childish and honestly as bad as they are.
You're right, but have you the experience of feeling like a used appliance with an expired warranty, so you were traded in for a new model?

It is good therapy to fight back. Better than a nervous breakdown or lengthy emotional damage.
Laughing X

Winchester, KY

#6 Aug 12, 2011
Pay Forward wrote:
Share your idea's for making a cheating spouse's life miserable.
What did you do that gave you a big laugh and some satisfaction.
Let's have some fun and share.
I put iodine in his aftershave. Stained his pretty face really well when he decked up for a dinner date with his new ornament.
Happy

Winchester, KY

#7 Aug 12, 2011
Made a sign that read MR. VIAGRA with a couple hot pink hearts on it and taped it over his license plate. Don't actually know when when it was found or by whom, but it stayed there for a couple of days with him driving around before it disappeared.

Not one word was said about it but he sure was moody for a couple of days.
Too Easy

Tomball, TX

#8 Aug 13, 2011
Immediately file for divorce. Never look back. Avoid playing childish games and lowering yourself to similar levels of foolishness and move on with your life.

Anything else should be beneath any grown, well-adjusted person.
why

Manchester, KY

#9 Aug 17, 2011
Yes I have had that experience. I was not only cheated on, my ex did a horrible job hiding it (he used condoms out of an unopened box.) He lied to me (said the neighbor borrowed them) even after I had a confession from the girl he cheated with. All of this broke up two marriages and forced me to move to another part of the state (he stalked me.)

So I think I can give my opinion.

The thing about cheaters is that they typically think the person they are cheating on will not leave them. When you do leave its worse then anything else you could have done. It also may teach them a lesson so the next person they are with doesn't have to go through the same thing.
NOT CHILDISH

Ajax, Canada

#13 Nov 1, 2011
My ex was a chronic online and phone dater, used our money to take all these girls on dates who had no idea, it wasn't 1 or 2 it was almost 500 girls. He got stds and knew about it but keep having unprotected sex. I got a hold of some of these girls number and thats how some of them found out. He even cheated with someone in the same apartment building. I know if it was exposed what he was doing he would be crushed cause he thinks he's a good person. I wish I knew how to get in his email and send all his lies to everyone so they know who he is.
Especially childish

Ironton, OH

#14 Nov 1, 2011
NOT CHILDISH wrote:
My ex was a chronic online and phone dater, used our money to take all these girls on dates who had no idea, it wasn't 1 or 2 it was almost 500 girls. He got stds and knew about it but keep having unprotected sex. I got a hold of some of these girls number and thats how some of them found out. He even cheated with someone in the same apartment building. I know if it was exposed what he was doing he would be crushed cause he thinks he's a good person. I wish I knew how to get in his email and send all his lies to everyone so they know who he is.
Focusing on him, what he's done/doing, and spending your time fretting over anything related to him is, in fact, childish.

It's also giving him more of your attention than he deserves. Live your life, and let him live his. Quit living in the past.

And don't delude yourself into thinking your proposed actions would be some sort of public service. Each girl he sleeps with/infects has a responsibility to herself to make sure he's clean, and take precautions in the meantime. If they are stupid enough to roll around with him and get infected, that's just natural selection at work.

Speaking of stupid... How the hell did you get cheated on 500 times and never clue-in? Christ!
Check Mate

Lewiston, ID

#15 Jun 23, 2012
oh but when that significant other is going to take everything you have worked very hard for away from you and you have to sacrifice to much.......... revenge is a cleansing art.
I recently came across some texts between an enemy of mine and my boyfriend who recently fell off the old proverbial wagon.
We are at war because he took off for a ride and never came back until the next night. I traced where he went by his credit card use. I also called up what he would use as an excuse (his mom) at 3am and expressed my concern that he had wrecked somewhere and found out that they hadn't heard from him. When he did get home he told me he had gone to see his father.. when confronted with his moms testimony, he said he went to a non drinking friend Larrys house (whom by the way, I have never heard of or met..and the town he is from is almost not a town, its so small I dont know how I could have missed a guy named Larry) Finally he admits to drinking but deny's seeing the woman there that he slept with the last time he fell off a wagon..the meth wagon)......so this is what I have done about all of this. So far I changed the phone number under her name to my bff's phone number and had my gf send him a text.. I then text him something after replacing the phone to alert him to the other text. He never batted an eye...never mentioned getting an offer to "have fun" in a provocative way from his friend Kim... when my gf wakes up i get to see what his response was...but he is following protocol so far ever time I have gone upstairs to the bathroom or kitchen he has come out and growled at me and just started yelling that I was fucking a bunch of bikers (WHAT...lol),,[dont even know where that came from] and retreated to my downstairs room. He is now in the process of justifying ..trying to escalate the battle so he has a justification... we will wait to see what the verdict is tonight. will he have nair hidden cleverly in his head a shoulders? Will the inside of his jeans fly have a little bit of lighter fluid on the inside? Will his coffee be decafinated so its more effective to switch his generic pain killer with extra strength anti-diarrhea medication...only time will tell. Its his move. I will stay with him and we will make up... I will get him to marry me because the house we bought together and he got the mortgage.
I found the Realtor, the m broker, and the house..even some of the signatures are his name in my hand. I paid the ernest money, rented us a suite to live in until we could find the house, paid the down payment and I have 3 yrs of sweat equity in improving this house and working on it. something he does not do.. I mow lawn, and have put in a big raised garden and another big garden beside it and one alone the house...it was hard work... this is my house... all I have to say is ..CHECK MATE sweetheart..
Yes

United States

#16 Jun 23, 2012
Check Mate wrote:
oh but when that significant other is going to take everything you have worked very hard for away from you and you have to sacrifice to much.......... revenge is a cleansing art.
I recently came across some texts between an enemy of mine and my boyfriend who recently fell off the old proverbial wagon.
We are at war because he took off for a ride and never came back until the next night. I traced where he went by his credit card use. I also called up what he would use as an excuse (his mom) at 3am and expressed my concern that he had wrecked somewhere and found out that they hadn't heard from him. When he did get home he told me he had gone to see his father.. when confronted with his moms testimony, he said he went to a non drinking friend Larrys house (whom by the way, I have never heard of or met..and the town he is from is almost not a town, its so small I dont know how I could have missed a guy named Larry) Finally he admits to drinking but deny's seeing the woman there that he slept with the last time he fell off a wagon..the meth wagon)......so this is what I have done about all of this. So far I changed the phone number under her name to my bff's phone number and had my gf send him a text.. I then text him something after replacing the phone to alert him to the other text. He never batted an eye...never mentioned getting an offer to "have fun" in a provocative way from his friend Kim... when my gf wakes up i get to see what his response was...but he is following protocol so far ever time I have gone upstairs to the bathroom or kitchen he has come out and growled at me and just started yelling that I was fucking a bunch of bikers (WHAT...lol),,[dont even know where that came from] and retreated to my downstairs room. He is now in the process of justifying ..trying to escalate the battle so he has a justification... we will wait to see what the verdict is tonight. will he have nair hidden cleverly in his head a shoulders? Will the inside of his jeans fly have a little bit of lighter fluid on the inside? Will his coffee be decafinated so its more effective to switch his generic pain killer with extra strength anti-diarrhea medication...only time will tell. Its his move. I will stay with him and we will make up... I will get him to marry me because the house we bought together and he got the mortgage.
I found the Realtor, the m broker, and the house..even some of the signatures are his name in my hand. I paid the ernest money, rented us a suite to live in until we could find the house, paid the down payment and I have 3 yrs of sweat equity in improving this house and working on it. something he does not do.. I mow lawn, and have put in a big raised garden and another big garden beside it and one alone the house...it was hard work... this is my house... all I have to say is ..CHECK MATE sweetheart..
Get him girl!! Keep us posted!!
yeahhhhhhhhhhhh

Macon, GA

#18 Jun 23, 2012
Check Mate wrote:
oh but when that significant other is going to take everything you have worked very hard for away from you and you have to sacrifice to much.......... revenge is a cleansing art.
I recently came across some texts between an enemy of mine and my boyfriend who recently fell off the old proverbial wagon.
We are at war because he took off for a ride and never came back until the next night. I traced where he went by his credit card use. I also called up what he would use as an excuse (his mom) at 3am and expressed my concern that he had wrecked somewhere and found out that they hadn't heard from him. When he did get home he told me he had gone to see his father.. when confronted with his moms testimony, he said he went to a non drinking friend Larrys house (whom by the way, I have never heard of or met..and the town he is from is almost not a town, its so small I dont know how I could have missed a guy named Larry) Finally he admits to drinking but deny's seeing the woman there that he slept with the last time he fell off a wagon..the meth wagon)......so this is what I have done about all of this. So far I changed the phone number under her name to my bff's phone number and had my gf send him a text.. I then text him something after replacing the phone to alert him to the other text. He never batted an eye...never mentioned getting an offer to "have fun" in a provocative way from his friend Kim... when my gf wakes up i get to see what his response was...but he is following protocol so far ever time I have gone upstairs to the bathroom or kitchen he has come out and growled at me and just started yelling that I was fucking a bunch of bikers (WHAT...lol),,[dont even know where that came from] and retreated to my downstairs room. He is now in the process of justifying ..trying to escalate the battle so he has a justification... we will wait to see what the verdict is tonight. will he have nair hidden cleverly in his head a shoulders? Will the inside of his jeans fly have a little bit of lighter fluid on the inside? Will his coffee be decafinated so its more effective to switch his generic pain killer with extra strength anti-diarrhea medication...only time will tell. Its his move. I will stay with him and we will make up... I will get him to marry me because the house we bought together and he got the mortgage.
I found the Realtor, the m broker, and the house..even some of the signatures are his name in my hand. I paid the ernest money, rented us a suite to live in until we could find the house, paid the down payment and I have 3 yrs of sweat equity in improving this house and working on it. something he does not do.. I mow lawn, and have put in a big raised garden and another big garden beside it and one alone the house...it was hard work... this is my house... all I have to say is ..CHECK MATE sweetheart..
Touche' haha.
karma

Dallas, TX

#19 Sep 12, 2012
When I found out my ex husband was cheating on me I rubbed his boxers with poison ivey folded them neatly and put them back in his drawer. The next day he comes to me confessing he cheated and must of caught a STD.After giving an award winning performance of a wife just finding out I told him we better go to the Health Department and both get checked and we will get into counceling and try to work through this. I droped him off at the Health Departments entrance and told him to sign us in I'm parking the car. Needless to say I drove off leaving him there to find out he only had poison ivey. Haha been divorced 13 years.
All Alone

United States

#20 Sep 12, 2012
Super Glue, hand penis, get tje picture, permanent masterbator.
Playthegamesmart

Chicago, IL

#21 Mar 9, 2013
Thing about a lying no standards cheater is they usually can't handle their own inadequacies...so they have to try to drag you down to bottom with them it makes them feel better about the scum scraping company they keep down there. I think how far you allowed that person to drag you down sometimes determines how much scratching and clawing you feel you need to do to make it back to the top...if you feel you must sharpen up and sink those claws all the way in to get back on top no one has a right to judge that and your probably justified in in a lot of ways. If you must make sure of two things 1) if there are any legal ties try to restrain yourself until they are settled 2) others may not have the right to judge those actions but believe you will judge them after your in good shape and back on top...the cheater has to deal with their Karma and you have to deal with yours. No sense in cutting yourself with those newly sharpened claws.
Yeah

Richmond, KY

#22 Mar 10, 2013
If you want to torture them, I suggest you just keep doing whatever it was you were doing to make them cheat in the first place. Obviously being with you was so terrible that they had to seek comfort with someone else.
ashley

Versailles, KY

#23 Mar 10, 2013
Pay Forward wrote:
Share your idea's for making a cheating spouse's life miserable.
What did you do that gave you a big laugh and some satisfaction.
Let's have some fun and share.
We hadn't been getting along, so I would go a couple of days without showering and not wear deodorant, brush my teeth or douche...so I knew he wouldn't try to have sex...
JUDY BLUE EYES

Bellmawr, NJ

#28 Jul 1, 2014
After 20 years of marrage i found out he was cheating on me.I was so hurt and then mad he would do this to our marrage and to me.I though i was a good wife did any thing for him.I took good care of my self went to the gym and kept in shape.I though we had a good sex life i did what he wanted me to do.But he did what he wanted with a younger women.I was hurt then mad and then i was going to get even.But i didnt know what to do and had to think about it.I always would fantasize about having wild sex with a well hung well built handsome black man.I knew just were to find one in my gym was tom he was always hitting on me.So i made a date with him and told him i wanted to have sex with him.After my husband went out i got ready.I put on a sexy red corset red thong black stockings a very tight red low cut mini dress red spiked heels.Met him for dinner we walked in and every male head in the room turned and watched us walk in.Oh i forget to tell you my husband and girlfriend were there to.His chin and mouth hit the floor when he seen us.And i gave him a real show then i started to play with his cock under the table.We left and went to a motel where he screwed my brains out in all three holes all night into the next day.And yes i now see him and screw him twice a week. As i am now single and love it or should i say black cock
rayelynn

Ashland, KY

#30 Jul 1, 2014
I just up and left. After a couple of weeks he asked when I was coming home to fix dinner? Needless to say he never got his dinner. I've been gone for almost a year. It's been a blessing.

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