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Paige Kelly

Baltimore, MD

#1 Jul 4, 2012
I’m writing this because this is what is on my mind , and I feel the need too express my opinion. Now my daddy once told me not to write anything that I did not want read because once it is wrote there will always be a chance that someone will read it no matter how the come across it . you see the thing is I do not care if anyone reads this or not…. Anyways, before you judge someone, you need to remember that they have feelings to. The person of subject eats, breathes, sleeps and lives. They function humanly in source just as you and i. therefore, they feel. They feel pain, hurt, hunger, shame, health and happiness. You need to take that into consideration before you say or do something that will hurt another person. That other person may not care about your feelings, but you need not stoop to that level. Be the bigger and better person and remember that personally you do not like to feel hurt. Being only human, if you do not like to hurt, neither do they. My message in what I am trying to say goes deep within reference to the saying,“treat people how you want to be treated.” Right along side of,“if you have nothing nice to say, do not say a thing at all…” you dislike when people say things that hurt, when in truth they haven’t the slightest idea what they are talking about, so don’t level down to that. Do not say things about other people. Even murderers and child molesters have feelings. They might not have been thinking about the feelings of the people that were murdered or the children who were molested, but do not give them the satisfaction of knowing you do not care. Just pretend you do and move on with your life. Do not be like them and not even bat an eye. Do not run your mouth or try sizing up someone that you know absolutely nothing about, aside from what you have heard. Hearsay can make one of the greatest people in the world out to be a monster. When someone does not have as much money as you, or look as good as you, or dealt as fortunate hand in life as you, automatically in human nature, you start to gossip, whether you know if what you are saying is true or not. This ruins a person before they even have the chance to defend theirselves or let you know what is really true. Gossip can be most informational at times, when what is being said is indeed true, but in retrospect it can be upmost crucial when spoken from lies, turning what’s true into exaggerations that lead to more lies, that lead to stories so far from the truth that they lead to ruined lives, families torn apart, and hurt feelings. All this in truth spoken from personal experience. Furthermore, into experience, with the judgment of people and the excessive yet arrogant way that people like to talk, a walk and a talk can go from just that to statutory rape behind a public building. Anyone who might happen to be reading this, I want you to know it did NOT happen. This coming from me, the supposed victim. Nevertheless, from there rumors flew and family ties and loving relationships were destroyed. In addition, law enforcement were called, the CPS system invoked, and the removal of children from the loving care of their families (I, myself, being that child whom was removed.) since then nothing has remained the same. To beat it all, all of this is a result of people not knowing how to mind their own business, exceeding the judgment and gossip from others. So in reading this, the next time you decide to “judge” or “gossip,” first do not jump to conclusions and secondly, look into the future and think of what one word to the wrong person can cause and to further that search, look into the past at what it has actually caused. Seeing that, remind yourself,“what if that was me, my family? I wouldn’t want that.” One weakness, I only the young age of sixteen, have come to realize in todays society is: NOBODY thinks before they act or speak….
Anonymous
#2 Jul 4, 2012
A bit "long winded" but well put!:)
Paige Kelly

Baltimore, MD

#3 Jul 4, 2012
heather_76 wrote:
A bit "long winded" but well put!:)
thanks :) and yeah it was a bit much but people need to know how i feel about what they are saying about me when i know that its not true....
F U

Welch, WV

#4 Jul 4, 2012
Paige Kelly wrote:
I’m writing this because this is what is on my mind , and I feel the need too express my opinion. Now my daddy once told me not to write anything that I did not want read because once it is wrote there will always be a chance that someone will read it no matter how the come across it . you see the thing is I do not care if anyone reads this or not…. Anyways, before you judge someone, you need to remember that they have feelings to. The person of subject eats, breathes, sleeps and lives. They function humanly in source just as you and i. therefore, they feel. They feel pain, hurt, hunger, shame, health and happiness. You need to take that into consideration before you say or do something that will hurt another person. That other person may not care about your feelings, but you need not stoop to that level. Be the bigger and better person and remember that personally you do not like to feel hurt. Being only human, if you do not like to hurt, neither do they. My message in what I am trying to say goes deep within reference to the saying,“treat people how you want to be treated.” Right along side of,“if you have nothing nice to say, do not say a thing at all…” you dislike when people say things that hurt, when in truth they haven’t the slightest idea what they are talking about, so don’t level down to that. Do not say things about other people. Even murderers and child molesters have feelings. They might not have been thinking about the feelings of the people that were murdered or the children who were molested, but do not give them the satisfaction of knowing you do not care. Just pretend you do and move on with your life. Do not be like them and not even bat an eye. Do not run your mouth or try sizing up someone that you know absolutely nothing about, aside from what you have heard. Hearsay can make one of the greatest people in the world out to be a monster. When someone does not have as much money as you, or look as good as you, or dealt as fortunate hand in life as you, automatically in human nature, you start to gossip, whether you know if what you are saying is true or not. This ruins a person before they even have the chance to defend theirselves or let you know what is really true. Gossip can be most informational at times, when what is being said is indeed true, but in retrospect it can be upmost crucial when spoken from lies, turning what’s true into exaggerations that lead to more lies, that lead to stories so far from the truth that they lead to ruined lives, families torn apart, and hurt feelings. All this in truth spoken from personal experience. Furthermore, into experience, with the judgment of people and the excessive yet arrogant way that people like to talk, a walk and a talk can go from just that to statutory rape behind a public building. Anyone who might happen to be reading this, I want you to know it did NOT happen. This coming from me, the supposed victim. Nevertheless, from there rumors flew and family ties and loving relationships were destroyed. In addition, law enforcement were called, the CPS system invoked, and the removal of children from the loving care of their families (I, myself, being that child whom was removed.) since then nothing has remained the same. To beat it all, all of this is a result of people not knowing how to mind their own business, exceeding the judgment and gossip from others. So in reading this, the next time you decide to “judge” or “gossip,” first do not jump to conclusions and secondly, look into the future and think of what one word to the wrong person can cause and to further that search, look into the past at what it has actually caused. Seeing that, remind yourself,“what if that was me, my family? I wouldn’t want that.” One weakness, I only the young age of sixteen, have come to realize in todays society is: NOBODY thinks before they act or speak….
Child molesters are scum and you are trash for supporting them!!!!
Paige Kelly

Baltimore, MD

#5 Jul 4, 2012
F U wrote:
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Child molesters are scum and you are trash for supporting them!!!!
no honey im not trash i just learn to forgive and forget....i was raped when i was 5!!!! so no i do not support them...i just know how hurt i feel when someone puts me down or starts shit with me... the Bible says that if you do not forgive those who do u wrong then the good Lord will not forgive you for doing wrong.....of course i will never forget or truly forgive but i can move on with my life...
Amen

Culloden, WV

#6 Jul 11, 2012
Paige kelly i don't know you nor have i have heard of you! but that was well put honey! i have so much on me on here but what people now days don't get is, what people say about one anther it's nothing but words PROVE them wrong and LIVE your life like you should not what other people say or want. this is why the person who invented topix's needs to die a slow and painful death....i know that is a bit much but i don't care.
g258826f

Pineville, WV

#7 Jul 12, 2012
Well please don't talk like that shame on you

Since: Feb 12

Location hidden

#8 Jul 12, 2012
I don't know you either. However I understand your words well. I too have been in that situation and I had to forgive (hardest thing I've ever had to do). I never forgot though. Forgiveness truly sets you free but it doesn't mean not to be cautious. I learned to forgive so I could forgive myself, I am imperfect and don't wish to spend my life hating myself. Also worrying about others shortcomings makes ignoring your own alot easier. Forgiving and letting people alone gives you the oppurtunity to grow and become better yourself... Oh look I too am long winded :D
Paige Kelly

Baltimore, MD

#9 Jul 14, 2012
thank ya'll so much that really means a lot. :)
really

Oceana, WV

#10 Aug 4, 2012
I hear you constantly talking about what happened. If you really forgave and forgot you wouldn't be talking about it all the time. You are just seeking attention like a small child. I am not one to be mean but sometimes you have to. I mean honestly no one gives a shit what happened to you. People will say they are sorry, but no one on this website gives a shit. You're just like any other girl looking for a way to receive attention. You are just taking a horrible experience and abusing it.
true

Summerville, SC

#11 Aug 5, 2012
really wrote:
I hear you constantly talking about what happened. If you really forgave and forgot you wouldn't be talking about it all the time. You are just seeking attention like a small child. I am not one to be mean but sometimes you have to. I mean honestly no one gives a shit what happened to you. People will say they are sorry, but no one on this website gives a shit. You're just like any other girl looking for a way to receive attention. You are just taking a horrible experience and abusing it.
Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner here!!!
Paige Kelly

Grand Rapids, MI

#12 Aug 5, 2012
really wrote:
I hear you constantly talking about what happened. If you really forgave and forgot you wouldn't be talking about it all the time. You are just seeking attention like a small child. I am not one to be mean but sometimes you have to. I mean honestly no one gives a shit what happened to you. People will say they are sorry, but no one on this website gives a shit. You're just like any other girl looking for a way to receive attention. You are just taking a horrible experience and abusing it.
if ur meaning me well then u are wrong and u are proving my point that people listen to what others are saying!!! and i said i forgsvenot forgot and i dont talk about it all the time it hurts to think about it much less talk about it....and actually i would rather not get attention i would rather be left alone but u are trying to get attention writing negative things!!! Also,you dont even have the guts to put ur name on here and say it to my face..u are hiding behinda computer screen, but thats alright. you didnt hurt my feelings only helped my point.:)

Since: Jul 12

United States

#13 Aug 6, 2012
I took a big healthy shtt this morning.
Paige Kelly

Charleston, WV

#14 Nov 12, 2012
johnnydickshot wrote:
I took a big healthy shtt this morning.
well that was random
Bill

Princeton, WV

#15 Nov 12, 2012
johnnydickshot wrote:
I took a big healthy shtt this morning.
Go back to work LITTLE Johnny!
Paige Kelly

Culloden, WV

#16 Nov 21, 2012
wow this convo changed fast
well

Hansford, WV

#17 Nov 23, 2012
You should have written all that into a private diary instead of putting it all out here. It would have probably helped you more and quite honestly I don't care about other people's problems, I have enough of my own (and no I don't go around telling them to anyone who will listen). Good luck with yours though.
tmi

United States

#18 Jan 20, 2013
Way 2 much info. U don't go on a website and tell your personal business and give your name. If u r looking for answers to your problems u need to see the school counselor, but not here. Ppl don't care, all they want is to know your business and gossip it to death. Don't do that..its not the attention you want and its not gonna help u in the long run.
Hippie

Buffalo, WV

#19 Jan 20, 2013
Paige Kelly wrote:
I’m writing this because this is what is on my mind , and I feel the need too express my opinion. Now my daddy once told me not to write anything that I did not want read because once it is wrote there will always be a chance that someone will read it no matter how the come across it . you see the thing is I do not care if anyone reads this or not…. Anyways, before you judge someone, you need to remember that they have feelings to. The person of subject eats, breathes, sleeps and lives. They function humanly in source just as you and i. therefore, they feel. They feel pain, hurt, hunger, shame, health and happiness. You need to take that into consideration before you say or do something that will hurt another person. That other person may not care about your feelings, but you need not stoop to that level. Be the bigger and better person and remember that personally you do not like to feel hurt. Being only human, if you do not like to hurt, neither do they. My message in what I am trying to say goes deep within reference to the saying,“treat people how you want to be treated.” Right along side of,“if you have nothing nice to say, do not say a thing at all…” you dislike when people say things that hurt, when in truth they haven’t the slightest idea what they are talking about, so don’t level down to that. Do not say things about other people. Even murderers and child molesters have feelings. They might not have been thinking about the feelings of the people that were murdered or the children who were molested, but do not give them the satisfaction of knowing you do not care. Just pretend you do and move on with your life. Do not be like them and not even bat an eye. Do not run your mouth or try sizing up someone that you know absolutely nothing about, aside from what you have heard. Hearsay can make one of the greatest people in the world out to be a monster. When someone does not have as much money as you, or look as good as you, or dealt as fortunate hand in life as you, automatically in human nature, you start to gossip, whether you know if what you are saying is true or not. This ruins a person before they even have the chance to defend theirselves or let you know what is really true. Gossip can be most informational at times, when what is being said is indeed true, but in retrospect it can be upmost crucial when spoken from lies, turning what’s true into exaggerations that lead to more lies, that lead to stories so far from the truth that they lead to ruined lives, families torn apart, and hurt feelings. All this in truth spoken from personal experience. Furthermore, into experience, with the judgment of people and the excessive yet arrogant way that people like to talk, a walk and a talk can go from just that to statutory rape behind a public building. Anyone who might happen to be reading this, I want you to know it did NOT happen. This coming from me, the supposed victim. Nevertheless, from there rumors flew and family ties and loving relationships were destroyed. In addition, law enforcement were called, the CPS system invoked, and the removal of children from the loving care of their families (I, myself, being that child whom was removed.) since then nothing has remained the same. To beat it all, all of this is a result of people not knowing how to mind their own business, exceeding the judgment and gossip from others. So in reading this, the next time you decide to “judge” or “gossip,” first do not jump to conclusions and secondly, look into the future and think of what one word to the wrong person can cause and to further that search, look into the past at what it has actually caused. Seeing that, remind yourself,“what if that was me, my family? I wouldn’t want that.” One weakness, I only the young age of sixteen, have come to realize in todays society is: NOBODY thinks before they act or speak….
It's about time someone spike something worth reading :)
Hippie

Buffalo, WV

#20 Jan 20, 2013
Spoke something, sorry.

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