What Would YOU Do?
Reaper

United States

#1 Feb 18, 2013
I recently found out that my wife of over 5 years was harassed and chased down by a guy from Revelo, he threatening her saying that he would beat up/kill me if she didn't screw him. My wife tried to avoid him, but he kept on calling her, even after she got her phone number changed, by calling her work number and threatening her job. My wife became so worried and scared that she finally submitted and did what he wanted. I found out immediately afterwards, when she came to me and told me the whole truth, since he was still harassing her even after she had done what he wanted. I of course came within a hair of divorcing her, but she was so distraught that she would have killed herself if I had done so, so I decided to instead look for this "man" who had threatened to harm me, in order to get to her. I have called his number numerous times, he never answered his phone and then he changed HIS phone number also.....all I wanted to do was talk to him about this. So what do you all think, should I just forget about the whole thing, or should I just find him and talk to him one day? I would appreciate ANY help from you guys, thanks!
My My

Wartburg, TN

#2 Feb 18, 2013
Reaper wrote:
I recently found out that my wife of over 5 years was harassed and chased down by a guy from Revelo, he threatening her saying that he would beat up/kill me if she didn't screw him. My wife tried to avoid him, but he kept on calling her, even after she got her phone number changed, by calling her work number and threatening her job. My wife became so worried and scared that she finally submitted and did what he wanted. I found out immediately afterwards, when she came to me and told me the whole truth, since he was still harassing her even after she had done what he wanted. I of course came within a hair of divorcing her, but she was so distraught that she would have killed herself if I had done so, so I decided to instead look for this "man" who had threatened to harm me, in order to get to her. I have called his number numerous times, he never answered his phone and then he changed HIS phone number also.....all I wanted to do was talk to him about this. So what do you all think, should I just forget about the whole thing, or should I just find him and talk to him one day? I would appreciate ANY help from you guys, thanks!
Something about this whole thing doesn't sound right.
cheater

Stearns, KY

#3 Feb 18, 2013
Reaper wrote:
I recently found out that my wife of over 5 years was harassed and chased down by a guy from Revelo, he threatening her saying that he would beat up/kill me if she didn't screw him. My wife tried to avoid him, but he kept on calling her, even after she got her phone number changed, by calling her work number and threatening her job. My wife became so worried and scared that she finally submitted and did what he wanted. I found out immediately afterwards, when she came to me and told me the whole truth, since he was still harassing her even after she had done what he wanted. I of course came within a hair of divorcing her, but she was so distraught that she would have killed herself if I had done so, so I decided to instead look for this "man" who had threatened to harm me, in order to get to her. I have called his number numerous times, he never answered his phone and then he changed HIS phone number also.....all I wanted to do was talk to him about this. So what do you all think, should I just forget about the whole thing, or should I just find him and talk to him one day? I would appreciate ANY help from you guys, thanks!
You need to leave her holding the bag. She done what she wanted.
Agree

Whitley City, KY

#4 Feb 18, 2013
Yes, sounds like she fooled around and was afraid he was going to tell you and laid all the blame on him. If it was true, why didn't she tell you in advance or just call the police? That's what EPO's are for. The story just doesn't make sense.
face it

Stearns, KY

#5 Feb 19, 2013
This is some made up story to get a reaction out of people that fall for anything coming down the pike.
Agree

Whitley City, KY

#6 Feb 19, 2013
Yes, faceit. I should have caught that.
Reaper

Langsville, OH

#7 Feb 19, 2013
Thank you all for your input. I just didn't want to face the truth, I'm sure that this was just a bullshit story concoted by her - to try to deflect the blame away from her. The whole time we have been married, all I have done was take care of her and I have given her everything that she's asked for. She married me because I have a job making nearly $75k/year, plus all of the land and rental properties I own. I am a good, decent man who doesn't deserve this. I suppose that the only thing to do now, is to just divorce her. Thank you all again for the advice.
Really

Wartburg, TN

#8 Feb 19, 2013
Well, i think no matter how much a man chased her she should have came to you first and let you handle it. Do not stay with someone just because they threaten to kill themselves. This too is another form of abuse. Most of the time someone that is really serious about killing themselves do it and not make threats over & over. Sounds like she wanted some strange. I am sorry but i do not believe this shit for one minute.
face it

Stearns, KY

#9 Feb 19, 2013
Reaper wrote:
Thank you all for your input. I just didn't want to face the truth, I'm sure that this was just a bullshit story concoted by her - to try to deflect the blame away from her. The whole time we have been married, all I have done was take care of her and I have given her everything that she's asked for. She married me because I have a job making nearly $75k/year, plus all of the land and rental properties I own. I am a good, decent man who doesn't deserve this. I suppose that the only thing to do now, is to just divorce her. Thank you all again for the advice
.....lol. whatever dude. do you write soaps for tv? because you sure aren't a good salesman.
Billy

United States

#10 Feb 20, 2013
Hey Bruce whats up
Bruce

Fishers, IN

#11 Feb 20, 2013
Not much what's up with you ?

Since: Jul 12

United States

#12 Feb 20, 2013
I read your story and I'm not sure what to think about it but I do know this...this is your wife and your life! Asking advice is okay but YOU must make decisions about your life yourself! Discuss your marriage with your wife and make serious decisions together. Don't let others tell you to love your wife, leave her or stay. It is your life. You decide!
Agree

Whitley City, KY

#13 Feb 20, 2013
If you read what we wrote, we just answered his question of what we thought and we all thought the story was BS. No one said anything about what to do about it.
Billy

United States

#15 Feb 20, 2013
Your never gonna get over this get out now before you do something stupid i have told you this before it takes two to tango and shes as guilty as that guy hell if all a person has to do is threaten to kill somone to get laid come on man wake up get out you know whats coming you have been there before and you know my name aint billy and shes feeding you another line of shit your airborne now stand up hook up hit the breeze and this is coming from someone who cares about your ass not hers ive know you awhile and theres more out there and believe it or not they aint hard to find hell SNAP OUT OF IT do this for your self and your gonna have to be hard because shes got someone else feeding you a line of shit to and you know who im talking about no son will go aganist his mother and look at this i picked you out of all of this now i must know what im talking about RED light GREEN light JUMP and dont look back you have friends that will help you through this and you know this i dont have to say it you know what to do just walk away do this for yourself you have worked to hard to throw it all away. Delta 26 out! RC
Faith

Wartburg, TN

#16 Feb 21, 2013
If a man truly did that to me, as a female,and married, of course, I would inform the police and buy me a pistol and certainly tell my husband!! Sounds like she has been involved with this guy previously and she left him, but he was harrassing her into sleeping with him again or he would tell of their former indescretions (you know blackmail) she is probably partly honest just by coming up with such a wild story...but my bet would be they were lovers for a while and she brushed him off and he wasn't going to let her get away with it...my guess is you work away from home and she was able to get involved...but if she will come clean you guys can still work it out, if you want to
dunce heads

Stearns, KY

#18 Feb 21, 2013
...this is truely RETARDED.

THE END
Agree

Whitley City, KY

#19 Feb 21, 2013
I think Reaper and Billy are the same people.
dunce heads

Stearns, KY

#20 Feb 21, 2013
...It will really be good to read when Reaper and Billy are the same person at the same time!!
rooofus

Stearns, KY

#22 Feb 28, 2013
stick my head in the sand.

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