Affair with brother-in-law

Affair with brother-in-law

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I need help

United States

#1 Mar 23, 2011
I have been having an affair with my brother in law for over a year now. I want to stop but when I told him he said he will tell his brother whats been going on. I am trapped! I know it was wrong to ever start this. It just started out as a one time thing at a party we were both drunk and everyone else was passed out. I did not plan on it happening again, then he came over one day when my husband was at work and started talking about that night and it just happened. now for the past year its been an every week thing. I wont leave my husband for him and he knows that!He came over monday and basicly forced me to have sex with him, or he was going to call my husband at work and spill it all. I think it could be considered rape because I told him NO ! I have red marks on my arms where he was holding me down.If I go to the cops the whole thing is going to come out and I dont want that , what can I do ?
guest

Paoli, IN

#2 Mar 23, 2011
tell him you have aids!
guest

Paoli, IN

#3 Mar 24, 2011
yur a sorry w­hore for sleeping with his brother.
Miss Thing

United States

#4 Mar 24, 2011
O Honey this should have never went this far. you must tell the brother-in-law hes not holding this over our head anymore. Let him know your not seeing him again and if he wants to tell your husband by all means do so. If he wants to lose his brother and cause a problem between the family then so be it. Also let him know you will press charges if he ever forces you to be pyhsical again. The 2nd option is for you to go to your husband today and tell him everything. yes, he may leave you or forgive you. either way you will have this off your shoulders and will no longer be black mailed by Mr.X , the chain of events already set in motion cant be changed, Sometimes we have to face what we fear the most to be free. I wish you the best. Miss Thing
guest

Paoli, IN

#5 Mar 26, 2011
next time he wants some se­x fill it up first with catfish stink bait and he probably won't be bothering you again, heh heh
grossssss

United States

#6 Mar 26, 2011
DO NOT DO THAT ! YUCK. Tell him its OVER! if he wont take NO then give in and say ok. tell him your going to give him a hand job to get things started and rub his dick down real good with Icy-Hot , that will take care of that !
Oh My

Brookville, PA

#7 Mar 26, 2011
This sort of thing ruined my marriage.. the brother in law is the same as sexual predator, threatning to tell his brother (same as mine) the ex felt trapped damned if she did , damned if she didn't either way 'shit was going to hit the fan'.
Time to end it .. tell him that if he ever touches you again .. you will tell your husband on him and press charges with the police. You tell him that if that is what it will take to let him know he is not welcome to touch you then so be it.
You are ready to go there if necessary to stop this.
My ex let it go on and on.. till it exploded anyway.. but you could stop it before 20 odd yrs have past.. your choice continue to be a victim or stand your ground and weather it through. It ain't going to be easy either way.. but it never should of went there to begin with.. now it is time to face the music.
I need help

United States

#8 Mar 28, 2011
he pissed me off today, he brought his girlfriend over to my house and was all over her in front of me and my husband. I know he was just trying to make me mad. I'm not going to stand for this crap , I am going through enough right now. when i went to the basement to get more ice he followed me down there and was grabbing my boobs and butt, then he pulled his "thang" out and was chaseing me around with it trying to touch me, how childish!
Oh My

Brookville, PA

#9 Mar 28, 2011
Time to pull out your determination and tell him it will stop,or you will reveal his deprivaty to all. If you have a daughter or a neice or any other female relative he may be pulling the same act with all, he sounds to be predator status with his sexual desires. Time to stop him before it gets worse.
disgusted

Paoli, IN

#10 Mar 29, 2011
You need to come clean. Period.

And it is pathetic that everyone is making this woman out to be a 'victim.' She has been freely and willingly sleeping with her husband's BROTHER. What a special breed of nasty!

I am in total shock at how many posts there are on this site of people admitting to (without even being asked) sleeping around with married people or being married and sleeping around.

Why do you care if he had a girlfriend over? You have a HUSBAND! And especially why are you bothered if you don't want anything to do with him anymore??

I TRULY hope you do not have children because this is obviously one f*cked up enviornment and you are definitely no kind of role model.
close ur shades

Washington, IN

#11 Mar 29, 2011
And you thought the other post was bad.
I think there was one where it was brother and sister or something like that. Oh well this is AR.
But hey the whole world is messed up so I guess this is really just some great entertainment.
Not much else to do in these parts.
I need help

United States

#12 Mar 29, 2011
No, we do not have children. and there is nothing wrong with dating people your distantly kin to. Im kin to my husband way down the line, 4th cousins. you can marry down the line just not 1st cousins. we meet at a reunion and I hoped he was not that kin to me, and luckly he wasnt ! I did have feeling for my brother inlaw at one point , so i do not lie seeing him flaunt that bitch in front of me. yes, i still want it to be over!
LOL

Paoli, IN

#13 Mar 29, 2011
It has nothing to do with whether or not he is kin to you... which is a whole nother ordeal that I'm not even going to touch! It's the fact that he is your husband's brother! That's worse than the best friend! And you are MARRIED, there is something wrong with sleeping with anyone who is not your husband... whether they are "kin to you" or not!
honestly

United States

#14 Apr 4, 2011
Just tell the true and get it over with an face the consequences now instead of later
nice

United States

#15 Apr 15, 2011
which one has the biggest male part and who was the best during sex or did they both feel the same love it tell your brother in law to look me up i am a 24 yr. male need some love
Rojo the Cock

Dexter, MO

#16 Apr 16, 2011
nice wrote:
which one has the biggest male part and who was the best during sex or did they both feel the same love it tell your brother in law to look me up i am a 24 yr. male need some love
nice in cherokee village - you certainly get around or at least you try to get around! LOL
meemee

Kennett, MO

#17 Apr 23, 2011
I need help wrote:
No, we do not have children. and there is nothing wrong with dating people your distantly kin to. Im kin to my husband way down the line, 4th cousins. you can marry down the line just not 1st cousins. we meet at a reunion and I hoped he was not that kin to me, and luckly he wasnt ! I did have feeling for my brother inlaw at one point , so i do not lie seeing him flaunt that bitch in front of me. yes, i still want it to be over!
honestly i would just tell him ur not fallen for his pranks anymore you love you r husband and what yall had together was a mistake and you want him to go his way and u will go his and when he comes to visit i would leave or not be in the same room alone with him i wish u luck oviously he sees this as a game
tellus

Paoli, IN

#18 Apr 23, 2011
meemee wrote:
<quoted text>honestly i would just tell him ur not fallen for his pranks anymore you love you r husband and what yall had together was a mistake and you want him to go his way and u will go his and when he comes to visit i would leave or not be in the same room alone with him i wish u luck oviously he sees this as a game
if you will tell us his name we may be able to handle it for you.
I need help

United States

#19 Apr 23, 2011
I dont want to say his name on here because he works for the city.
Stupid gurl

New Bethlehem, PA

#20 Apr 24, 2011
I need help wrote:
I dont want to say his name on here because he works for the city.
You don't need help you need to keep your legs together unless it is your husband. PERIOD Stupid SLuT!

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