Issue~ i love her, she loves me, but ...

Issue~ i love her, she loves me, but shes married

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Reading, PA

#1 Mar 10, 2012
my issue is i met a lovely woman online we got along well and are so similar we feel were soulmates. my problem is shes married, her husband is a cheap miser and shes in bad health he dosent let heat on for her when she needs it, he dosent have good insurance ect. i love her with all my heart even with her faults i mean you cant chose what defects your born with. i live alone. i can support her but i dont know what i should do we been seeing each other on a online game for over a year and we talk on the phone from time to time. i was wondering peoples oppinions. in all truth when im away from her contact all i can think about is her. am i wrong in how i feel? should i ask her to divorce him to marry me? please give me your oppinions

Reading, PA

#2 Mar 14, 2012
really no advice or even a reply.... thats just wrong....

Reading, PA

#3 Mar 14, 2012
guess ill repost this else were since no one wants to gimme adive
think twice

Elizabethtown, PA

#4 Mar 17, 2012
Hi "TheVoid,"
The fact that she is married and looking else where out of her marriage to solve her problems is not a good sign. Even if you get her to leave her husband, what is to say she isn't going to do the same thing to you!? There are always two sides to every story, and maybe he is not such the big bad wolf that she makes him out to be. I say that is dangerous water you tread upon, and a married woman isn't someone you should be messing with. If you feel guilty it's because you know it is wrong deep down. Turn off your feelings and think twice about this situation. I think anyone is going to tell you not to mess with a married woman! Who is to say once she is with you, you won't be mr. perfect in her eyes anymore either, and then she is going to look to someone. The old saying once a cheater always a cheater, some people are just emotionally selfish and she is looking to you in a way that she shouldn't. Skip the drama and find someone that isn't married!!! You don't have to rescue someone, she is a big girl!!
think twice

Elizabethtown, PA

#5 Mar 17, 2012
**look to someone else to make her happy
Need help

Manchester, UK

#6 Apr 21, 2013
I love a girl she loves me were both cousins but shes 9 yrs older then me, we dont know how to go about it with our parents any advice?

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