Quick tip for ya, don't b!tch about laziness right after you tell everyone how dependent you are upon hired help.<quoted text>
safety nets are what wealthy nations of religious people do.
Generational welfare never was the intent.
a band aide to get your life headed in the right direction is reason for safety blanket.
I am glad your friends got a leg up, but if they blew it and sat around doing nothing to fix the problem, then I say let them go hungry......that motivates by instinct bypassing lack of ambition or sheer laziness.
Makes ya seem like a self important, deluded sissyboy.