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Meddie

Hoschton, GA

#1 Mar 31, 2013
We have a right to a jury trial. I live in GA and it says I should have for 6 mo or my last residency is here. I am the Claimant/Petitioner and will prove to the court (Union County Clerk's Office of Superior Court)that I want out. They manage paperwork, keep us informed as well as lawyers, further requirements, hearing dates and times. If there was NO FAULT the court can grant me (Claimant) a divorce on those grounds 31 days from date of service on respondent (snake). However, MANY FAULTS is present and a case number is assigned, property and debt division, support, custody and visitation.

Oh a lot is involved: Disclosure statement, Domestic Relations, Financial Affidavit, Marital Settlement Agreement, Affidavit regarding custody and Domestic Relations Case Filing Information. The terminology of property means what we have had during marriage (date of marriage until filing date). This division can be 50/50 however, it usually is not and is granted when parties agree it is fair. Alimony can be paid by either spouse until spouse dies or remarries! It can be one lump sum or paid out over time.

We can't get a divorce until all legal issues listed above are resolved. These are the facts and I open up to the forum; what is fair, how much is revenge, how do you avoid becoming bitter, and lastly how long should a person really drag a divorce out? What do we do if we meet someone during this whole process? Awwwe!
prerequisite course

Clarkesville, GA

#2 Mar 31, 2013
this is a long way from 'hey I think you're cute, you wanna go out?'.
advice

Clarkesville, GA

#3 Mar 31, 2013
Meddie wrote:
what is fair, how much is revenge, how do you avoid becoming bitter, and lastly how long should a person really drag a divorce out? What do we do if we meet someone during this whole process?
Talk to God. He's got your answers.
Meddie

Hoschton, GA

#4 Mar 31, 2013
Thanks I have been talkin to God and He wants us to defend and protect ourselves. I am representing myself and yes he should have waited to say "hey I think you're cute, you wanna go out?"
I will drag it out 50 years if necessary but I am not leaving our home and I am not walkin without fair division. As for me and going out, NO after this loser no way! I will protect and bring our children up in a fine manner. Yes I cry when they don't see. My hostile conversations with him take place away from the children. I have proof, I stay very organized and I have friends who go the extra mile. She will see this and probably have her gutless buddies reply. His most prized one liner recently was "I never knew you were smart!" Sting, maybe but game on.
Just a comment

Dahlonega, GA

#5 Apr 24, 2013
Meddie wrote:
We have a right to a jury trial. I live in GA and it says I should have for 6 mo or my last residency is here. I am the Claimant/Petitioner and will prove to the court (Union County Clerk's Office of Superior Court)that I want out. They manage paperwork, keep us informed as well as lawyers, further requirements, hearing dates and times. If there was NO FAULT the court can grant me (Claimant) a divorce on those grounds 31 days from date of service on respondent (snake). However, MANY FAULTS is present and a case number is assigned, property and debt division, support, custody and visitation.

Oh a lot is involved: Disclosure statement, Domestic Relations, Financial Affidavit, Marital Settlement Agreement, Affidavit regarding custody and Domestic Relations Case Filing Information. The terminology of property means what we have had during marriage (date of marriage until filing date). This division can be 50/50 however, it usually is not and is granted when parties agree it is fair. Alimony can be paid by either spouse until spouse dies or remarries! It can be one lump sum or paid out over time.

We can't get a divorce until all legal issues listed above are resolved. These are the facts and I open up to the forum; what is fair, how much is revenge, how do you avoid becoming bitter, and lastly how long should a person really drag a divorce out? What do we do if we meet someone during this whole process? Awwwe!
Unless things have changed, you have to attend a parenting class if children are involved, then a no fault divorce can be granted after the 31 days. The property distribution can be determined later. The court also has a standard visitation form the use, unless of course there are extenuating circumstances or the two of you agree to other terms. Rarely does the court grant "full" custody to one party, usually joint custody with one person having "physical" custody. Of course all depends on if there are other negative factors. In the long run you might be better to reconsider going with a no fault to get it over with quicker. It'll be a lot of he did she did and paperwork which causes delays and mudslinging for what? Is it really worth it? Either way it will really come down to the two of you compromising and agreeing. If you meet someone else I would use discretion, keep them away from the kids for now and NEVER any over nighters while the kids are present. Time has a way of cooling people down and enabling them to make wise decisions not emotional ones. Hope this was helpful, good luck!
Lakehouse Owner

Roswell, GA

#6 Apr 24, 2013
advice wrote:
<quoted text>
Talk to God. He's got your answers.
If not, check with Alex Trebek, he always has the answers, but let's the contestants figure out the questions!
Meddie

Jefferson, GA

#7 Apr 24, 2013
Help, yes for many what you wrote would work just fine. Emotional decision, you are soft on really knowing what life can be like. Since I last posted guess what; soon to be ex's girlfriend is pregnant. Of course he said I don't think it is mine. I gently suggested I believe I would find out. So now he has our children together and now at this time in his life "a baby on the way." The girl's parents are properly ticked off.
Me, I have gone to my parenting class. Yes I always wanted joint custody. Don't you think he will want me to have physical custody because I am in the home and he thought he would use the apartment he rented as a "love nest". Like all young women she wants him to marry her, not sure how that will turn out.
So you think there is a lot of "he said, she said"! I was busy being a wife, a mother and I work. I don't have a boyfriend and did not since I met him. I have no plans for the future at the moment and no male friends. Whether you realize it or not some people enter marriage and work for it to last until death do us part. As for cooling down, I am steamed inside but I won't let the children see it and I won't talk about it before them. I am bearing my burdens alone. Our parents are devastated. My soon to be ex said he had never seen his dad so angry. I did ask him "why" he took up with a young woman and he cried actually broke down and cried. My daughter got sick when a classmate told her that daddy had a pregnant girlfriend. She said, "mom why did he say that". I requested a meeting with her, daddy dearest and me. Wow did he squirm on that one.
Just a comment wrote:
<quoted text>
Unless things have changed, you have to attend a parenting class if children are involved, then a no fault divorce can be granted after the 31 days. The property distribution can be determined later. The court also has a standard visitation form the use, unless of course there are extenuating circumstances or the two of you agree to other terms. Rarely does the court grant "full" custody to one party, usually joint custody with one person having "physical" custody. Of course all depends on if there are other negative factors. In the long run you might be better to reconsider going with a no fault to get it over with quicker. It'll be a lot of he did she did and paperwork which causes delays and mudslinging for what? Is it really worth it? Either way it will really come down to the two of you compromising and agreeing. If you meet someone else I would use discretion, keep them away from the kids for now and NEVER any over nighters while the kids are present. Time has a way of cooling people down and enabling them to make wise decisions not emotional ones. Hope this was helpful, good luck!
Meddie

Jefferson, GA

#8 Apr 24, 2013
You have to be a chicken shite, no backbone piece of work.
Lakehouse Owner wrote:
<quoted text>If not, check with Alex Trebek, he always has the answers, but let's the contestants figure out the questions!
Floridian

Orlando, FL

#9 Apr 24, 2013
Meddie wrote:
Yes I always wanted joint custody. <quoted text>
Hey I got joint custody with my divorce, she got the house, car, bank account and I got the bag of pot.
Bears Way

Hollywood, FL

#10 Apr 24, 2013
Meddie, hang in there. You already know they hard road ahead. Stay strong, allow close friends and family to help where they can.

Your husband fell victim to being a stupid, weak , and thoughtless.

I wish you well.
Lakehouse Owner

Roswell, GA

#11 Apr 25, 2013
Meddie wrote:
You have to be a chicken shite, no backbone piece of work.
<quoted text>
Guilty as charged!
not wondering

Covington, GA

#12 May 9, 2013
First of all, get an attorney! I know your probably cash straped like the rest of us but representing yourself is not a good idea unless your an attorney. Check them all out very, very good. Talk to people and get refrences. This other pregnant girl wouldn't happen to be referred by the name Skank would she? She just sounds very like someone I know of. Good luck and get an attorney.
Informed Opinion

North Fort Myers, FL

#13 May 9, 2013
Floridian wrote:
<quoted text>Hey I got joint custody with my divorce, she got the house, car, bank account and I got the bag of pot.
Great post.

It's the screwing you get for the screwing you got.

Or as they say:

Why are divorces so expensive ? Because they're worth it.
Meddie

Clarkesville, GA

#14 May 10, 2013
not wondering wrote:
First of all, get an attorney! I know your probably cash straped like the rest of us but representing yourself is not a good idea unless your an attorney. Check them all out very, very good. Talk to people and get refrences. This other pregnant girl wouldn't happen to be referred by the name Skank would she? She just sounds very like someone I know of. Good luck and get an attorney.
Good evening. Everything is proceeding just fine. I am not an attorney. I have plenty of evidence. I have awesome children and will never deprive them of seeing their dad. I appreciate that you may think my soon to be ex will walk away as if nothing happened. The judge won't allow that, I know already. This will not be over quickly because there are many components especially because of our children. Our home is being sold and I have my eye on a really nice smaller home convenient to school and my job. The tears aren't as often and I have never been more busy in my entire life which is good. The positives are the young girl did not consider abortion as my ex suggested. I believe she loved my ex however, he was not so considerate of her or me. My ex has an attorney because he honestly feels he can tell the judge what to do and will smile at his mid-life crisis. His dad is on his side his mom is a piece of work and so mad he says he no longer knows his mother. I don't know if he will ever marry the young lady but the paternity test reveals he is the father so he will be working very hard to support all his children.
just sayin

Dawsonville, GA

#15 May 10, 2013
Meddie wrote:
<quoted text>Good evening. Everything is proceeding just fine. I am not an attorney. I have plenty of evidence. I have awesome children and will never deprive them of seeing their dad. I appreciate that you may think my soon to be ex will walk away as if nothing happened. The judge won't allow that, I know already. This will not be over quickly because there are many components especially because of our children. Our home is being sold and I have my eye on a really nice smaller home convenient to school and my job. The tears aren't as often and I have never been more busy in my entire life which is good. The positives are the young girl did not consider abortion as my ex suggested. I believe she loved my ex however, he was not so considerate of her or me. My ex has an attorney because he honestly feels he can tell the judge what to do and will smile at his mid-life crisis. His dad is on his side his mom is a piece of work and so mad he says he no longer knows his mother. I don't know if he will ever marry the young lady but the paternity test reveals he is the father so he will be working very hard to support all his children.
Geez, write a book. No one cares about this shit or your personal life.
To me you are a narcissitic pain in the butt for posting your life on TOPIX.

Since: Jul 10

Blue Ridge, GA

#16 May 10, 2013
Jerry Springer anyone?
wives with knives

Dawsonville, GA

#17 May 11, 2013
Meddie wrote:
<quoted text>Good evening. Everything is proceeding just fine.
Get over this guy. It's over. Get on with your life, don't let your hatred destroy you and your kids. Don't let your hatred take you to a next step where you wind up on FOX news.

There is something good in everything bad. Find it. Emerge as a stronger person.
Meddie

Jefferson, GA

#18 May 11, 2013
This is to JUST SAYIN and IVY LOG LEONARD: You won! Continue to post your "stuff" on Blairsville Topix about Mr. Paris and put down everything that goes on in our town. Put everyone else down except yourselves. No I had no intention to write a book. I honestly thought I started a "helping forum". What was I thinking, we have you two to defend the ones just like yourself. I return Topix to its original state the Just Sayin and Ivy Log Leonard show, you probably are way more interesting in your mind than any Jerry Springer Show and uglier too. I predict topix will be nothing in less than 3 months. Congratulations.
Move on

Dawsonville, GA

#19 May 11, 2013
Meddie wrote:
This is to JUST SAYIN and IVY LOG LEONARD: You won! Continue to post your "stuff" on Blairsville Topix about Mr. Paris and put down everything that goes on in our town. Put everyone else down except yourselves. No I had no intention to write a book. I honestly thought I started a "helping forum". What was I thinking, we have you two to defend the ones just like yourself. I return Topix to its original state the Just Sayin and Ivy Log Leonard show, you probably are way more interesting in your mind than any Jerry Springer Show and uglier too. I predict topix will be nothing in less than 3 months. Congratulations.
A helping forum? Long winded posts about your ex and his girlfriend. Hey, he's just not into you. Get it? Move on.
People don't want to read your drama. It is boring. Y'all sound like trailer trash.
Bears Way

Hollywood, FL

#20 May 11, 2013
Move on wrote:
<quoted text>
A helping forum? Long winded posts about your ex and his girlfriend. Hey, he's just not into you. Get it? Move on.
People don't want to read your drama. It is boring. Y'all sound like trailer trash.
. I cannot imagine why you would call her trailer trash. You must go look in
the mirror.

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