need HELP

[Mary]

MY SON IS 18YRS OLD AND IS INVOLVED WITH MANY DIFFERENT GIRLS, HE SWEARS 2 ME THAT HE IS A VIRGIN N IS NOT HAVING SEX, MY DAUGHTER N FRIENDS N FAMILY SAY THAT I AM NIAVE N NEED 2 OPEN MY EYES....SHOULD I BELIEVE MY SON OR FACE WUT EVERYONE ELSE SEES

[Big Momma]

OPEN YOUR EYES!!!

[TX Shrink]

He's 18...if he's living under your roof, set some stronger rules (charging rent for example), but all things considered, he's an adult and can do what he chooses in the eyes of the law. If he's not bringing them home, and you have taught him about safe sex, leave him alone to discover his own path.

[Monica]

First of all you son is 18 he is considered an adult he has already passed his teenage years and now is a young man and explain to him that when he has sex with one person he has sex with lots cause it is a chain when you have sex with one person, that person had sex with another person before you, and that person had sex with another person before that person, and that person had sex with another person .... so it is best to be safe than sorry never tell your children "you better not be doing..." cause then they will do it only because you told them not to. I was a teenager and passed 18 a few years ago and mom always told me don't smoke or drink but I experimented once she told me. it's just like when you are a baby parents tell you don't touch and that's the firs thing you do. make friends with your son not enemies ask him if there is anything you need to ask me remember i'm your friend I'm here to give you advise especially on sex make him comfortable around you tell him no matter what it is you will not be mad at him even if it's wrong. AND ONE THING DO NOT JUDGE HIM ONCE HE HAS TOLD YOU THE TRUTH!! Cause then you lose the trust and then they lock up on you.