Do you know this kind, genuine, young mother named Heather Caldwell?

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#1 Sep 24, 2011
She is someone who caree about people and tries her best to make the world a better world for the people around her, especially her young son who is about 2 years old now. She is always willing to volunteer her time for others and the causes that she believes in.
I hope to be able to touch/influence at least one person as positively and dramatically as she has touched and influenced so many others. She has been faced with the dark things in life- and able to deal with them with a portion of grace, wisdom, and honesty. Leading by example. What she has done is beyond description. What an amazing person she is.
Yes, I am talking about Heather Caldwell from Pikeview school who made mistakes but has shook off all the negative people in her life so that she can raise her little boy with the fact in her mind that little boys turn into men.
Single moms have a multitude of unique challenges before them and Heather is strong enough to conquer those obstacles. How long are you supposed to go on punishing someone for the past? If a person makes a big mistake what do they have to do to merit forgiveness?
Heather should be an example for all the young mothers here in Princeton and everywhere!!
It really doesn't matter if she conceived her little boy, Landon out of wedlock, a marriage which ended in divorce, or her husband has died. It doesn't matter if her child's father is no longer in her home contributing to her provision. Who he is as a person? druggy asshole who lived day to day on a diet of meth, pills and marijuana. Maybe prison is really the best thing that could happen to them. Maybe the baby daddy withholds child support or perhaps he died with no life insurance,Ultimately, when the relationship ends, it can feel like she is experiencing a death. While in the midst of grieving her loss, experiencing her hurt and deep disappointment, she now must contend with the reality of being solely responsible for her home, her baby and their financial future. Many single moms are disillusioned in this process. Oftentimes going through the motions of survival all awhile wondering how she ended in this place.
To be honest most young mothers like her never are the same after it all. In some ways they are stronger. I'm sure Heather has learned some life lessons, she has a beautiful, brilliant little boy, and there are remnants of the old her that show thru because she is young and she is human.
I imagine Heather was probably ashamed at first. Having to ask for help would require her to be venerable. Perhaps her neighbors would gossip after her request for welfare benefits, or pretend they didn't hear her knocking at the door. She had to look her fear in the face, swallow her pride and do this in spite of her embarrassment because her child depended on her to succeed.
Heather Caldwell is remarkable!! Everyone cannot handle her journey. Everyone does not see what she sees. They may attempt to talk her out of her faith, discourage her, make her feel inadequate or like she's crazy. But she is strong and she protects her plan for her life and her son's life by knowing when to speak and when to be silent. She makes provisions for their future. It requires faithfulness. Single moms, like none other, must perfect their faithfulness in financial stewardship.
Give the girl some credit people. Help your friend out through this highly emotional time of her life. Be a shoulder she can cry on and a listening ear for her to vent her pain. Whenever possible do things to help her take her mind off things .. go to the movies, shopping, whatever she finds fun. Like most painful things it in life, this too takes time to heal.
I think everyone leaves a mark on the world from the day that they are born. A person doesn't have to do anything exceptional for people to take notice and appreciate them. The marks that even a quiet person makes are more far-reaching than they can even imagine.
yikes

Princeton, WV

#2 Sep 24, 2011
yeah the pic on Facebook where she's turned around with her backside to the cam and her thong is hanging out with both middle fingers up screamin FTW is great lol but you're right, she's young..

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#3 Sep 24, 2011
yikes wrote:
yeah the pic on Facebook where she's turned around with her backside to the cam and her thong is hanging out with both middle fingers up screamin FTW is great lol but you're right, she's young..
Perfect example of those who LOOK for the negative in a person to try and discourage them. Lift her up instead. How old r you?

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Bluefield, WV

#4 Sep 26, 2011
Bravo. This is a much more accurate description than all the cyberbullying posts that have been about her before. I don't know her well but know that she is a sweet girl. She volunteered a few years ago at a nursing home I worked at.
It is sad the way some of those little punks use the internet as a way to try and destroy someone's reputation.

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#5 Oct 1, 2011
bullynot wrote:
Bravo. This is a much more accurate description than all the cyberbullying posts that have been about her before. I don't know her well but know that she is a sweet girl. She volunteered a few years ago at a nursing home I worked at.
It is sad the way some of those little punks use the internet as a way to try and destroy someone's reputation.
Exactly why I posted this discussion. Those bad posts about her wer not tru and she deals with it in person too. The bio-dad of her son finds out who she is dating and threatens him till he goes away. He is living with a girl but for some odd reason doesn't want Heather to be happy and move on with HER life.
What I want to know is, why people don't report thos slander discussions. Words can really bring a person down to the point of suicide.
know the truth

Penn Laird, VA

#6 Oct 4, 2011
Everything in this is lies she drinks and does pills, as far as the bio dad he don't give fuck who she fdates and he is marrying someone else, she need let go of it and move on and stop tring have a fuckibg pity party for her. She want ppl think she all good and innocent but trust me I known her for years and she no angel, she dump her kid off anywhere she can to go sleep with guys, so don't be fooled by this she is not a good mother she just want try ruin someone elses relationship so she can get molre out of it.
rachdub

Penn Laird, VA

#7 Oct 4, 2011
I have watched her smoke weed around that kid and what about her being married, she hasn't been married before, I don't think who wrote thois knows what tehy are talking about
ActionSpeakLoude rTnWords

Oakvale, WV

#8 Oct 6, 2011
Heather Caldwell is a well respected girl in this community. She is doing a great job raising her son without help from the babys dad. She has a job, her own apartment, and a car....Know the truth and Rachdub...does not know Heather as long as I have known her. If the bio dad doesn't care who she dates then why does he continue to bully her? Let me answer that......He wants to keep her self-esteem low so that when the girl he's with now finds out his TRUE colors, Heather will be willing to take anything she can get, HIM. He hopes she will want to stoop so low and since she has money, place, and transpertation, he will be able to move in on her to use her like he's doing the one he's with now. There is trouble in his relationship with the one he's marrying. Princeton is a small town and word gets around.
I know for a fact she does not do drugs and does not leave her child with everyone so she can be with men. She works. Unlike you who has nothing better to do than to bad talk good people. Bullying happens in school. It's an immature thing to do when you are over 10 years old.The post didn't say Heather was married. You should pay attention in school and learn to read.
Heather Caldwell is a quiet girl and is only trying to make it in a world full of loud jealous people. Heather is a pretty girl and is the envy of ugly people with forked toungue.

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#9 Oct 6, 2011
dont you all hate it when a person starts a forum about themselves
rachdub

Bluefield, WV

#10 Oct 6, 2011
actually there is no trouble between them, i know both of them. she works and has plenty of money i hear, she got a nice ass house and a fine ass ride, so he don't want heather she aint got shit anybody wants. Nobody believes this shit you saying on here. I know what she is doing trying to make it seem like he wants her back and he seriously dont, for real heather just wants everyone to think that so she doesnt look so dumb. I know for a fact he doesnt want anything to do with her and he doesnt bully her around or care whos she is screwing she needs to move on with her life and stop trying to get people feel sorry for her.
wowie woe

Bluefield, WV

#11 Oct 6, 2011
LIL OLE ME wrote:
dont you all hate it when a person starts a forum about themselves
damn somone feeling sorry for their pathetic self
agreed

Bluefield, WV

#12 Oct 6, 2011
I agree them two make a good couple there happy tg and whoever writing this garbage just jelous and wanting to start drama for someone who is doing well. Get a life 4 real. He isnt using his girl either they been living togetrher for over a year. You need stop trying to cause problems for them and move on.
icu22

Tarboro, NC

#13 Oct 6, 2011
yea i agree i think heather a warped freak man she always does this type thing when she gets mad when she is rejected and now that he is wit a sexy girl that he loves she want start her drama. i give him props he sure as hell upgraded from that. I hope they do get married and maybe that shut yall haters up
venice

Tarboro, NC

#14 Oct 6, 2011
damn quit writing all these novels lol nobody cares yo
lol

Tarboro, NC

#15 Oct 6, 2011
ya i know a kind genuine skank i went to school with and nobody liked eewww nasty girl that one!
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Oakvale, WV

#16 Oct 8, 2011
Like I said in the other discussion...I plan to copy these posts and mail them to the WV Attorney Generals Office to bring up charges against all of Heather's haters or should we say the one person who posts using dif names. Charges= cyber bulling and slander. They will trace your IP's and prosecute you. If I hear of any of the bullying outside of internet I will do same. Leave her alone or else.

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#17 Oct 9, 2011
Heather Caldwell is admirable, amiable, approved, attractive, becoming, charming, commendable, and considerate. She is kind, loving, giving, respectful and supportive of others, full of integrity...oh, the list which makes up my own definition of the inner beauty she has could go on. She is a victim of her babys daddy harmful bashing of her. A quiet soul she is and minding her own business while Dada proceeds to try and destroy her.

We all know itís polite behavior to generally assume Heather never loved, liked, or kissed anyone until you came along. Then all of a sudden it was like a rush of hormones and they discovered all these previously unknown emotions. And then a beautiful son was born. I get that it must be annoying to have to hear about Heather and constantly reminded of her and wish to talk about her, but itís still a douche bag move to act like you never was with her. Baby dada you are being so relentless of keeping her in your emotional loop for some reason. But don't forget sociopaths don't feel emotion the way normal people do. You were jealous of her and tried to control her and took away her opportunities. You came on strong in the beginning with flowers and attention but proved to be a manipulator and liar. But It is not a simple case of booting out an assclown like you and then SHAZAM, problem solved. She suddenly feels at one with the universe because a guy has come along and treats her halfway decently because of the way you treated her.

Heather is a very lovely young lady trying to make a living for her and her child, you need to grow up. I donít know if you resent her because she had the baby or because he reminds you that you have no choice but to grow up. Why do you think she is trying to ruin your relationship? She has a baby by you. THAT'S ALL. I wouldn't stress over it so much. You are the one who changed her life forever but also the one who hurt her the most after she read things online.

Apparently, Heather is supposed to brush it off and not read things posted about her but she is human. She takes her reputation seriously and it hurts so bad to see all these false accusations made about her. I know most things that are posted are from people who just get mad to see her with someone. So then, they get online and come up with the most random posts that are Undesirable.Hateful.Rude.Ignor ant.Mean.Impolite.Vulgar.Evil. Cruel.Insolent.Graceless.Dirty .
Indelicate.Nasty.Harmful.Bad.W icked.Vicious.Catastrophic.Rui nous. You really need to figure out what is motivating your unhappiness and address it? Karma is REAL and Heather cant fix a house she didnt build! If you are that miserable and that hateful that you have to try to ruin her reputation and make up all these things about her, its not saying much about you and not that you should care but she has your 2yr old to raise as a single mother now. You took it in your own hands to spread lies thru the internet that it the new root of all evil. Now theres alot of hatred in your heart for someone you once loved due to many instances that were caused by drama. But its over so you can stop and move on with your own life with whoever.
old lady bashing

Penn Laird, VA

#18 Oct 9, 2011
Will someone shut this gay ol bag up lol

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#19 Oct 10, 2011
ANONYMOUS59595959 wrote:
Like I said in the other discussion...I plan to copy these posts and mail them to the WV Attorney Generals Office to bring up charges against all of Heather's haters or should we say the one person who posts using dif names. Charges= cyber bulling and slander. They will trace your IP's and prosecute you. If I hear of any of the bullying outside of internet I will do same. Leave her alone or else.
i dont know what you could mail from this paticular forum its all about how GREAT she is..........
old lady bashing

Penn Laird, VA

#20 Oct 10, 2011
It just some lesbos trying make a nasty skank look like mother teresa everyone knows that

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