Parents allowing boyfriends to move in with their daughters..

[be a parent]

I was just wondering what you might have told your daughter. Are you going to let him move in or not.

[Grammar Nazi]

you lie wrote:

<quoted text>
Forget the boyfriend, work on your writing and math skills.

That should either be two separate sentences or combined using a semicolon.
Ex: "Forget the boyfriend. Work on your writing and math skills."
"Forget the boyfriend; work on your writing and math skills."

[So True]

My daughter is 21 and last year I let her boyfriend AND is 2 year old daughter move in. I still feel uncomfortable with the fact that they are sleeping with each other in the other room. My daughter was told that its very unlikely that she would be able to have kids and I feel like his baby is a blessing to me. I love that little girl as if she was my Granddaughter.....the fact is she IS my Grandbaby and I AM her Nanny. Back to the subject though there is no way I would of let a boy move in with either of my daughters before they became adults. These days though parents try to be friends and sadly are just letting their kids make their own decision. I have saw parents pass a joint to their child, bust a pill up and hand the straw to their teenage child, tie them off while they put a needle in their arm. How could a parent to that? Why would they do that? It breaks my heart to see this happen. I might not win the parent of the year but there is NO way I'd ever do anything like that with my girls even if they were 30 years old.

[tom]

wise up wrote:

<quoted text> Hey!!!! Instead off talking shi==t about people here!1Why don't you go talk to then to their face?!Are you to chicken shi==t?? what business is it of yours !!Why are you losing sleep over something that is none of your business!!!!!!!

What business is to us.one it's wrong.2 20%of the girls that get pregant will have to quite school and depend on the goverment to help with the kid.3 It makes the girl look like a whore. No it's none of our business but if people don't want to hear or read our comments don't put on topix

[sickgum]

my girlfriend moved in with me when we waz14. now she my step mom

[WISE UP]

tom wrote:

<quoted text>What business is to us.one it's wrong.2 20%of the girls that get pregant will have to quite school and depend on the goverment to help with the kid.3 It makes the girl look like a whore. No it's none of our business but if people don't want to hear or read our comments don't put on topix

Got new for you ,The teenagers are geting pregant out side of the home.My neighbors daughter was 15 years old and just had a baby.The mother said oh my God i let my daughter go to the mall and movies and now she is pregant!! I have two teenagers,One of my daughters has a boy friend that stays over for the week in ,because he lives out of town. He sleeps on a air mattress in my dinning room .she sleeps in her bed room with the door closed. They are not allowed to screw in my house. they know better !!On the other hand my other daughter that goes out of the house to be with her boy friend is having sex . I have put her on the PILL!!

[Brent Barry]

sickgum wrote:

my girlfriend moved in with me when we waz14. now she my step mom

Holy moly!

[Truth]

my ex fiancee (which was 21 at the time), and i split bc he cheated on me with a 15yr old. Her mother let him move in with them and tried to tell me that they wasn't having sex Haha well needless to say she ended up pregnant not even a month later and they ended up having to get married. Me and my ex have a lil girl tg and over my dead body would i ever let her move in w/ a boy nor a boy move in w/ us.! I think its wrong and the parents be held responsible. Its teaching our children that its ok to start a family early and settle down when they really need to be focusing on school and growing up first to take care of their own selves.

[been there]

been there....bothh of us felt stuck with no way out....ended poorly

[miSswallows]

sickgum wrote:

my girlfriend moved in with me when we waz14. now she my step mom

Umm what?!? Ur gf is now your step mom?

[Brent Barry]

Truth wrote:

my ex fiancee (which was 21 at the time), and i split bc he cheated on me with a 15yr old. Her mother let him move in with them and tried to tell me that they wasn't having sex Haha well needless to say she ended up pregnant not even a month later and they ended up having to get married. Me and my ex have a lil girl tg and over my dead body would i ever let her move in w/ a boy nor a boy move in w/ us.! I think its wrong and the parents be held responsible. Its teaching our children that its ok to start a family early and settle down when they really need to be focusing on school and growing up first to take care of their own selves.

Wow!! With another 15 year old????? Am i the only one not seeing that these cases are statuary ***e??? I mean is west virginia a 3rd world country where this doesnt exist?

Wow!

[tom]

WISE UP wrote:

<quoted text> Got new for you ,The teenagers are geting pregant out side of the home.My neighbors daughter was 15 years old and just had a baby.The mother said oh my God i let my daughter go to the mall and movies and now she is pregant!! I have two teenagers,One of my daughters has a boy friend that stays over for the week in ,because he lives out of town. He sleeps on a air mattress in my dinning room .she sleeps in her bed room with the door closed. They are not allowed to screw in my house. they know better !!On the other hand my other daughter that goes out of the house to be with her boy friend is having sex . I have put her on the PILL!!

How do you know they are not doing any thing do you stay up all night watching them.and the reason girls are getting pregant is because parents won't talk to thier kids and get the girls on the pill and if you have a boy heck go your self and buy them condome because teenagers,I don;t care they are going to have sex better to prepare them.girls that are 13 and 14 are to young to be dating anyway.really 15 is to young.used to be parents wouldn't let you out alone with a boy to you was 17 or18

[wise up]

tom wrote:

<quoted text>How do you know they are not doing any thing do you stay up all night watching them.and the reason girls are getting pregant is because parents won't talk to thier kids and get the girls on the pill and if you have a boy heck go your self and buy them condome because teenagers,I don;t care they are going to have sex better to prepare them.girls that are 13 and 14 are to young to be dating anyway.really 15 is to young.used to be parents wouldn't let you out alone with a boy to you was 17 or18

No i don't stay up all night and watch my daughter.I talk to my daughter She does not want a baby that she can't take care of. And she will not put a burden on me . Both my daughters make honer role in school. They tell me about all the high school girls that are pregant ,and they say they don't want that. they are seventeen now. Now one of them i did have to put on the pill because she was honest with me and told me that her boy friend was useing condens.So i thought it would be safe for her to be on the pill. All im saying is almost all the teen SEX is out side of the home. were they are away from the parents!!!

[tom]

wise up wrote:

<quoted text> No i don't stay up all night and watch my daughter.I talk to my daughter She does not want a baby that she can't take care of. And she will not put a burden on me . Both my daughters make honer role in school. They tell me about all the high school girls that are pregant ,and they say they don't want that. they are seventeen now. Now one of them i did have to put on the pill because she was honest with me and told me that her boy friend was useing condens.So i thought it would be safe for her to be on the pill. All im saying is almost all the teen SEX is out side of the home. were they are away from the parents!!!

Yes that is true and good for you that you put her on the pill.Alot of parents think if they put them on the pill it gives them the ok and have sex.But 9 out of ten teenagers you put under the same roof will have sex.And ,I hope your daughter keep doing well in school

[charlie whitaker]

I LET A BOY MOVE IN WITH MY DAUGHTER ROSE.SHE WAS 12 YEARS OLD HE WAS 17.I DID IT YO SHUT HER BIG MOUTH UP.NOW SHE HAS KIDS OUT THE ASS.I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AT THIS POINT.NEED SOME ADVICE.

[Jennifer]

I can't believe you let a boy move into your home with your 12 year old child. That is what she is A CHILD!!! You should be put in jail. If this is for real!! Things like this is one reason WV gets a bad reputation. Let alone what your doing to this child. If indeed she does have children. She's in trouble because she will surely not get any help from someone that has allowed this to happen to her. She needs to go to the DHHR and ask them for help and get as far away from you and this boy as possible.

[4 real]

kids are having sex earlier and earlier they dont listen to anything a parent has to say about it so go get your child on the birth control shot as soon as ur daughter even mentions a boys name.

[So True]

My friends 14 year old daughter ask to be put on the pill and used the excuse that she was hoping it would make her body develop more....her breast get larger. My friend replys she's only 14 she shouldn't worry about the size of her breast. Does anyone else think she's being so ignorant? She said she knew her daughter wasn't having sex. She let's her go on vacations, over-night trips, and allows them to stay alone in her house for hours....in the bedroom....with the door locked so her sister can't come in. I want to shake her and I've told her over and over to be prepared to raise a grandbaby.

[Marie]

Yes the kind of things you are talking about is going on all over. Boys are coming over staying in the girls room with the door closed for hours. Go on vacations,over-night trips with the parents an just like you said stay in the house for hours..Well what do the parents think is going on when their away all of this time. Then their surprised when she get's pregnant!! I truly don't know what's going to happen to the next generation. It really worries me..

[miSswallows]

charlie whitaker wrote:

I LET A BOY MOVE IN WITH MY DAUGHTER ROSE.SHE WAS 12 YEARS OLD HE WAS 17.I DID IT YO SHUT HER BIG MOUTH UP.NOW SHE HAS KIDS OUT THE ASS.I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AT THIS POINT.NEED SOME ADVICE.

That's a lie!