Best friend told a secret of mine and now trouble has started.

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Need advice

Charleston, WV

#1 Dec 19, 2012
12 years ago my Sis had an affair with a married man and I told my friend some things and she went and told the wife all about it.Why I don't know now my sister wants to know where all the info came from and I think it was me that told my ex friend now. We all are Christians but my ex friend isn't what do I do tell my sister the truth or whip my ex friend...Help me I am so upset. I have to be honest.I don't know why she told this lady all of this and it was about 12 years ago...
If It Was Me

Continental, OH

#2 Dec 19, 2012
Go to your sister. Admit the truth. Tell her you had to talk to someone because you were worried. Let her know that you confided in your friend out of love and concern and now you have been betrayed. Honesty is the best policy plus if you are a Christian as you say you are then admit your wrong doing and do nothing to the ex friend. Lesson learned.
advice

Mount Hope, WV

#3 Dec 20, 2012
Need advice wrote:
12 years ago my Sis had an affair with a married man and I told my friend some things and she went and told the wife all about it.Why I don't know now my sister wants to know where all the info came from and I think it was me that told my ex friend now. We all are Christians but my ex friend isn't what do I do tell my sister the truth or whip my ex friend...Help me I am so upset. I have to be honest.I don't know why she told this lady all of this and it was about 12 years ago...
You betrayed your sister by telling and your friend betrayed you by telling. It is karma. This is just proof that what goes on in the dark comes out in the light. Tell your sister the truth.
nope

Washington, DC

#4 Dec 20, 2012
advice wrote:
<quoted text>You betrayed your sister by telling and your friend betrayed you by telling. It is karma. This is just proof that what goes on in the dark comes out in the light. Tell your sister the truth.
Christians are not suppose to believe in Krama that is a buddist term. And no, I done married men but I sure don't go telling either. Especially their names!
But sister, you were in the wrong for telling. Your friend was more of a friend to this lady then you two were. Or your friend loves drama. Drop her and deal with this situation.
really

Pearisburg, VA

#5 Dec 21, 2012
some call it karma, others call it the consequences of your actions. own it and deal with it. thats all any one can do.
dennis

United States

#6 Dec 23, 2012
Are you and sis single! What do you ladies look like?

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