bird

Webster Springs, WV

#44 Jan 15, 2013
I can tell you this... my grandmother commited suicide when my mother was small. She had four children when she hung herself. My Aunt was on her death bed and she was asking for her mother, talking to her too. It had been more than 50 yrs since her mothers passing btw.

What I am trying to say is the effects of that choice are still being felt today. My own mother wasn't sure how to be a good mother as she never really had her mom around. If you have children you really need to rethink how selfish this would be.
doa

Bellevue, WA

#45 Jan 15, 2013
Survey Says wrote:
<quoted text>
EXCUSE ME LiL Miss Topix Katie that's ALL OVER TOPIX....I DO know what I'm talking about and YOU are NO expert. I live this every Flippin DAY over a selfish family member checking out of this world IN FRONT OF ME. Understand? Its selfish and self centered and BULLSHIT for ANYONE to do this not only to themselves BUT also to people that love them!
your so hateful to someone you dont even know
WhyWait

United States

#46 Jan 15, 2013
doa wrote:
<quoted text>ive looked for work for a year . cant find any . child support takes 55% of my check . who can live with 45% of your hard worked money . i have nothing anymore . nothings gonna change . thanks for all of your help
I was buying into your bs until I read this. I agree with that one person that you r bein selfish. So just because u r bein forced into taking care of your kids u going 2 end your life n let yur innocent kids go through life thinkin their dad killed himself because of them?????? Way to go daddy! What a real piece of work u r!!!! What a rol model!!! Dude, u need 2 do sumptin else and grow some balls an take care of ur kids!
doa

Bellevue, WA

#47 Jan 15, 2013
thank you for saying that . im 36 and live in pctn . look for me in the paper . goodbye and goodriddence
friend

Bellevue, WA

#48 Jan 15, 2013
WhyWait wrote:
<quoted text>
I was buying into your bs until I read this. I agree with that one person that you r bein selfish. So just because u r bein forced into taking care of your kids u going 2 end your life n let yur innocent kids go through life thinkin their dad killed himself because of them?????? Way to go daddy! What a real piece of work u r!!!! What a rol model!!! Dude, u need 2 do sumptin else and grow some balls an take care of ur kids!
let me tell you something . he has taken care of his kids . he has them 70% of the time and the courts wont do anything . you better hope he doesnt do anything . and if he does you better hope i dont find out who you are cause ill leave you where i find you . and you will visit him . bytch
WhyWait

United States

#49 Jan 15, 2013
How dare you blame me or anyone else for him getting on Topix saying he is going to end his life in a few days?! Clearly all this sweet talk he is seeing on here isn't working! He needs to get help in order to save his life and he needs to think about what this is going to do to his kids! When you have kids you no longer think of just yourself. He needs to live in order to teach and love his kids the right way. Great! Just great! You can't tell me that anyone seriously feels they can come on this site and say stuff like this and it be all peachy hunky dorey! Someone needs to shake the stuffing out of him and wake him up. If he has his mind made up to off himself as he says he is in 10 days then don't you think that someone needs to report this thread to the cops and a Mental Welfare thing needs to happen here? If he wants to end his life, its not his kids fault which, they will blame themselves for it since he got on an open forum and said its because of child support and it damn sure isn't going to be my fault for telling him like it is instead of sugar coating the facts!
WhyWait

United States

#50 Jan 15, 2013
And another thing. You call me names and you seem to know so much about him and he is saying he is going to kil himself and YOU do nothing to help him but get on Topix and bytch someone else out because they are trying to wake this depressed dude up? IF he IS serious and offs himself and YOU did nothing legally to get this guy some help THEN that will be the Cross YOU will have to carry. Not me or anyone else on here and most definately NOT his kids!
friend

Bellevue, WA

#51 Jan 15, 2013
WhyWait wrote:
And another thing. You call me names and you seem to know so much about him and he is saying he is going to kil himself and YOU do nothing to help him but get on Topix and bytch someone else out because they are trying to wake this depressed dude up? IF he IS serious and offs himself and YOU did nothing legally to get this guy some help THEN that will be the Cross YOU will have to carry. Not me or anyone else on here and most definately NOT his kids!
let me find out who you are . you get on here and run your mouth like you know everything . we are getting him help . you know nothing about him or me . so i say you can go somewhere else and run your mouth before i find out who you are . and trust me by this time tm i will know who you are
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In it together

Mebane, NC

#53 Jan 15, 2013
friend wrote:
<quoted text>let me tell you something . he has taken care of his kids . he has them 70% of the time and the courts wont do anything . you better hope he doesnt do anything . and if he does you better hope i dont find out who you are cause ill leave you where i find you . and you will visit him . bytch
Didn't he say he had been in service? Why doesn't someone (if not himself) get in touch with the VA hospital. I feel sure there would be programs to help..probably in all directions! He owes it to himself, and to his kids, to get hold of this. DON'T EVER give up! The time will come that you will be glad of making the right choice. If nothing else..see about going to college! BE something! You may say "Oh..yeah..but, that would take 10 years..I would be 46 instead of 36."..but, How old will you be in 10 years if you DON'T do it? You could be a Doctor, Lawyer, Engineer ..whatever! If you get into college (and veterans could help you get it done!) You would , just by being a student, have a roof over your head..A bed to sleep in, An ID card that you can use for meals, and for any activity (like concerts, ball games)..You can also get a job at college that will HELP cover YOUR expenses. There ain't NOTHING like trying.DOA.. DON'T give up! Somebody does care about you. At least TRY.. There ain't nothin' like TRYING! Take the first step. Go to a VA hospital.' A journey of a thousand miles begins with ONE step'. Do it! You will be glad later that you didn't quit!
WhyWait

Whiting, IN

#54 Jan 15, 2013
friend wrote:
<quoted text>let me find out who you are . you get on here and run your mouth like you know everything . we are getting him help . you know nothing about him or me . so i say you can go somewhere else and run your mouth before i find out who you are . and trust me by this time tm i will know who you are
I just made it real easy for you to "find me" as I just decided to contact the police AND Topix about this disturbing thread. I gave my name and number as well as telling them to read all. I don't recall making threats and/or threatening promises on here. Do you?(0:
liloleBeBu

Princeton, WV

#55 Jan 15, 2013
Oh wait.
I recall someone saying there is always something to live for.
I would wait.
I can't imagine coming on here with what you said.
I do know what its like to feel like the world is against you. Please, find someone to talk to. From a loved one, to a stranger. There is something to live for. Wishing you the best. Not wishing you luck if you want to end it all.
Katie

Bluefield, VA

#56 Jan 15, 2013
When someoen falls into depression its hard to pull out of it, especially if they can't afford going and getting professional help. Hence why I suggested he seek out Roger Cook an amazing Pastor who has had his share of issue and is very helpful and Willing to help. My mother is extremely depressed it seems to run in my family. If she were to kill herself I'd be hurt extremely bad, but never would I say she was being a selfish bitch. I would have wished I could have made more of an effort to help, as opposed to letting jerks tell her to go do it and say shes being selfish. Depression is no joking matter nor is it selfish. Think again before you speak so damn rudely to people who have hit this point in their life.

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#57 Jan 15, 2013
Ok so I am no expert on this topic, but I know you must be having feelings of hopelessness and helplessness. I have been there. Try 800-784-2433 or go to this website, if you don't want to talk in person, they have live chat. It is much better than this site for what you are experiencing. God bless and be with you and surround you with love. I want to see you back on this site on 01/28/2013. That is a Monday.

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Since: Nov 12

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#58 Jan 15, 2013
suicide aftermath victim

Glasgow, WV

#59 Jan 15, 2013
Do not do it. You don't realize what it does to your family and friends. It will hurt them more than you can imagine
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Since: Mar 12

Location hidden

#60 Jan 15, 2013
FACT, Anyone saying what this person is stating is looking for attention.....Noone i have ever saw kill themselves has ever told anyone first.Get a girlfriend or get a piece friend...You will fill better
Curious George

Alexandria, VA

#61 Jan 15, 2013
Sorry Bobby Light you are wrong, I have a uncle that's been very dead since 1983, and yes he told someone first.
lightening bug

Oakvale, WV

#62 Jan 15, 2013
More than 25 years ago I lost someone who meant the world to me because she was depressed, fighting a serious, but not terminal health issue, hurting, and so filled with regrets about choices she made, that she couldn't look beyond tomorrow to see that her life could get better. Just as she said, she ended it all, and left behind family who had done everything they knew how, to help her. Not one single day has gone by over the last 25 years that I have not thought of her and cried over her. My family has not celebrated a holiday or a birthday in the last 25 years that her presence has not been missed. Even on a gloomy and rainy day like today, I think of how I want to call and talk to her, or go visit her. How I wish I could hug her and say "I love you" one more time, and how I wish my children could have gotten to know this very special person who meant so much to me! When I look at the beautiful faces and personalities in my extended family, I think of all the things this person had to live for, and I am so hurt and so full of pain knowing she couldn't find something to hang onto, to continue living. Like I said, I'm still crying over this person 25 years later, so if you know you have someone, ANYONE; parents, siblings, an ex spouse, children, even cousins, who love you enough to be crying over you 25 years later, I urge you to put more effort into looking for the reason to live! This is a terrible time of year to fight depression, but please seek help to realize you have more to fight for than you currently think you have. Suicide is an awful thing to do to anyone you say you love and care about. If you have ever looked someone in the eye and said you love them, or have ever hugged someone and said you love them, then you have a reason to live, and you need to work through whatever sadness you have that is making you only see a dark day instead of a happy and bright day ahead. Praying that God will give you the strength to fight your current thoughts.
friend

Bellevue, WA

#63 Jan 15, 2013
blobby light wrote:
FACT, Anyone saying what this person is stating is looking for attention.....Noone i have ever saw kill themselves has ever told anyone first.Get a girlfriend or get a piece friend...You will fill better
thank god for blobby lights expert attension on this subject . yourself and why wait can suck a dyck . and for you why wait you are a lieing sack of shyt . you did not give the police your name you chicken shyt . i will find you !!!!
Katie

Bluefield, VA

#64 Jan 15, 2013
blobby light wrote:
FACT, Anyone saying what this person is stating is looking for attention.....Noone i have ever saw kill themselves has ever told anyone first.Get a girlfriend or get a piece friend...You will fill better
you couldn't be more wrong. I know quite a few people who have lost someone to suicide who actully sought out help multiple times but it got blown off like the little boy who cried wolf. Don't be so ignorant. Jackass

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