chopper

Philadelphia, PA

#1 Jan 28, 2012
Permission to see others, is it cheating?
to chopper

Watseka, IL

#2 Jan 28, 2012
yes you piece of crap it is cheating. if your not happy get the hell out dont use your spouse. marriage is between a wife and a husband not 3. you sound like an old chick that thought she could have an open marriage but she found out different.
chopper

Philadelphia, PA

#3 Jan 28, 2012
Why are people so ugly on this site? I didn't deserve that rant. I happen to agree with you completely. I just wanted to make sure that I wasn't alone in my "1 girl/1 guy" view of marriage.
ghostrider

Cadiz, KY

#4 Jan 28, 2012
I am all for it. We've had a open marriage for years and it works for us.
long timer

Madisonville, KY

#5 Jan 28, 2012
Be open to getting a deadly STD like HIV and watching you and your spouse waste away. God put one man with one woman for a reason. Don't bring home any coodies and don't think you won't get any if you let them stray. Its wrong Nuff said.
wth

Clarksville, TN

#6 Jan 28, 2012
why do people even bother getting married if they are going to mess around with others?
welllllll

Spirit Lake, IA

#7 Jan 28, 2012
one could also ask why cheat in a monogamous relationship when there are plenty of willing participants in open ones you could be involved in. I, personally, and a one woman kinda guy. But if you are just impossibly inclined to sex up more than one...well...there are options there and no reason to hurt people who don't want that lifestyle.
Also, your serious swing circles stay disease tested and cleared. Open relationship doesn't mean screw everything that walks. It also doesn't mean your relationship is doomed either. Its hard, given, to find people who are actually mentally ready for it. You have to be able to entirely separate love and sex and be able to function without requiring sex as a part of committal love.
Most cannot do that. Which is also perfectly fine, and respectable even. It would do the world favors to remember to apply to others the same rules they hold for themselves. Most of these issues arise because a mate will expect total devotion and not also expect it should apply to them.
Men, especially, cannot often stand to play anything less than #1 for a woman. Pride, you see, gets in the way. The same Pride also demands they be ALL women's #1, because when they are not some other man has become their better in some way. Its pure childishness in my opinion. And its a self defeating mentality.
I digress.
Open relationships are not cheating because they operate under different agreements. Cheating is when you break the rules, and for them the rules allow other sex partners. I couldn't care less whether you find it morally wrong or not, the fact remains the same either way.
to wellllll

Manchester, OH

#8 Jan 28, 2012
you are the type of person who probably screws anything that walks and breaths. you are a sick individual. marriage is a sacred covenant that god created for two people who love each other. people who think open marriages are ok are sick f&*()(* and i mean all of you that think that. if you are in a open marriage i hope you get crotch rot if your female and if male i hope your b%^^& and d(*& fall off.
What if

Clarksville, TN

#9 Jan 29, 2012
your partner was in an open marriage or relationship without your knowledge? thats what mine was doing, screwing anything and everything that walked and behind my back.
just a day

Tifton, GA

#10 Jan 29, 2012
What if wrote:
your partner was in an open marriage or relationship without your knowledge? thats what mine was doing, screwing anything and everything that walked and behind my back.
Then that's not an open relationship that's cheating BIG difference
welllllll

Spirit Lake, IA

#11 Jan 29, 2012
its not an open marriage unless both partners are involved in that agreement, it is, as has already been said, cheating.

An open relationship is where both partners find acceptable sideline sex partners that they can go to. Some do swing circles, where on given times they both go to other partners. There are more extreme examples, where groups of open relationship unions meet for giant swap orgies, but you have to realize how insanely hard it would be to organize such a thing in a way to ensure all potential groupings were clean and willing.

I assume the most common types are dual couple swing groups. Two men, two women, and they just trade up every once in awhile. Other common examples are just casual one night stand situations. But, you'll fine, those are hard to control in terms of disease is concerned. Even open partners would rather not have aids, let alone have one pass the other such a disease from poor judgement.

Again, those sorts of relationships aren't my thing. But, logically, its not hard to see how they work. Most people just do not possess the amount of sex/love disconnect required for it to.
to wellllllll

Goshen, IN

#12 Jan 30, 2012
you are an ignorant piece of s&*( you didnt understand a d(( thing i said. cheating ,open marriage what the f^^^ evr its not right. likeis said if your female i hope you get crotch rot and the man gets his d%^& falling off.
Lol

Spirit Lake, IA

#13 Jan 30, 2012
It's cheating but if you agree to the open relationship or marriage, that's whatever.
Peter

United States

#14 Feb 4, 2012
You are all illiterate. Wellll is idiotic to boot. Besides... Who gives a shit?
hmmmm

Greenville, KY

#15 Feb 4, 2012
Anyone tried cuckolding their husband by having him watch you and your partner?
they are

Watseka, IL

#16 Feb 12, 2012
trash pure and simple trash!!!!!
no name

Spirit Lake, IA

#17 Feb 12, 2012
if you go into the marriage and you are open to the whole open marriage things then that is tottaly their business. maybe thats how they get their rocks off. their are alot of couples who do it that you would never think of. country club folks at that.
hey no name

Watseka, IL

#18 Feb 12, 2012
you still sound like a wh)(*. so why dont yo go seek mental help.

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