Is there any good guys left out there...

Is there any good guys left out there????

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hope

United States

#1 Dec 8, 2012
Really are there any decent men left out there?
no luck here

Syracuse, NY

#2 Dec 8, 2012
Honestly.. I don't think so. I've searched.. think I found him, then surprise!! Turns out to be like everyone else. I'm a good person, with a great heart. I'm faithful and loyal. And a damn good girlfriend. I believe I'm good looking,... But no luck!! Best advice, do as I'm doing now, don't look. Let it find u.
cool story bro

Rome, NY

#3 Dec 8, 2012
Oh there are. You just have to know where to look.
Learned from Experience

Utica, NY

#4 Dec 9, 2012
no luck here wrote:
Honestly.. I don't think so. I've searched.. think I found him, then surprise!! Turns out to be like everyone else. I'm a good person, with a great heart. I'm faithful and loyal. And a damn good girlfriend. I believe I'm good looking,... But no luck!! Best advice, do as I'm doing now, don't look. Let it find u.
First of all, avoid the bar scene. Those are just screw affairs waiting to happen and many good guys want no part of that nonsense.

Second, don't limit yourself to the most outgoing guys. The usually want to do nothing but party and that is not good for the long term. Remember, if they are very outgoing when you first meet them just think how they will be with the next lady that catches their eye.

Lastly, don't dis those who still live with their parents. These are usually the ones who have lots of respect for their mothers and will give the same respect to their future brides. I have seen guys like this passed over only to become very happily married with great families.

Hope this helps.
jacques

Utica, NY

#5 Dec 9, 2012
You ladies have to get away from the immature young pukes.
Just a Troll

Long Eddy, NY

#6 Dec 9, 2012
jacques wrote:
You ladies have to get away from the immature young pukes.
It is just amazing that the young immature pukes are the most sought after. The young ladies should really consider what the want to have in life down the road. The young pukes will soon become disgusting miserable old men with no career. Do you really want to support them?
Better Idea

Tully, NY

#7 Dec 10, 2012
Become independent...then you don't have to worry! Get a good job and your own place and you don't have to settle for anything! There are just as many loser 40 and 50 year olds as there are 20 and 30 year olds! Relationships are very OVERRATED!
jacques

Fairfax, VA

#8 Dec 10, 2012
Better Idea wrote:
Become independent...then you don't have to worry! Get a good job and your own place and you don't have to settle for anything! There are just as many loser 40 and 50 year olds as there are 20 and 30 year olds! Relationships are very OVERRATED!
You said it best!
goodluck

Utica, NY

#9 Dec 10, 2012
Guys will never respect a girl who gives it up the first time you meet. And once you get that reputation it's hard to shake.
Maybe so but

Tully, NY

#10 Dec 10, 2012
goodluck wrote:
Guys will never respect a girl who gives it up the first time you meet. And once you get that reputation it's hard to shake.
Maybe guys shouldn't try so damn hard to get a girl in the sack the first time he meets her! So sick of this double standard bs! Why is sex with EVERYONE great for the guy, but a horrible sin for the woman?? It takes two to screw!
Also True

Tully, NY

#11 Dec 10, 2012
hope wrote:
Really are there any decent men left out there?
There aren't many decent people out there period...men or women!
Diane

Washington, DC

#14 Dec 20, 2012
There is just too much temptation today. Tons of porn, young naked or half naked girls everywhere willing to perform sex on the Internet or in person. Men are becoming addicted to this and with an endless plethora of available and willing attractive girls, they just want the pleasure without the commitment. They are finding less need for relationships. Unfortunately, we woman still have a desire for romance and foreverness while men just want to have lots of fun with lots of different people. And, they are becoming unapologetic about it. They very bluntly will say that they are visual and will want to procreate with as many women as they can because it's their nature. They don't care about us anymore. Relationships bore them. Sexual variety is what they want and today there is more variety at their fingertips than they could ever imagine.
harley

Oswego, NY

#15 Dec 20, 2012
Diane not all of us are like that....I seek a companion, a partner, a soulmate I know she is out there.......somewhere
So What

Tully, NY

#16 Dec 20, 2012
Diane wrote:
There is just too much temptation today. Tons of porn, young naked or half naked girls everywhere willing to perform sex on the Internet or in person. Men are becoming addicted to this and with an endless plethora of available and willing attractive girls, they just want the pleasure without the commitment. They are finding less need for relationships. Unfortunately, we woman still have a desire for romance and foreverness while men just want to have lots of fun with lots of different people. And, they are becoming unapologetic about it. They very bluntly will say that they are visual and will want to procreate with as many women as they can because it's their nature. They don't care about us anymore. Relationships bore them. Sexual variety is what they want and today there is more variety at their fingertips than they could ever imagine.
Get over it...all that love shit doesn't exist anyway! Keep on searching if you choose...but you will be disappointed over and over! Good luck!
what the

Potsdam, NY

#19 Dec 21, 2012
grow up and learn to be independent and happy. everything else will fall into place.
Diane

Washington, DC

#20 Dec 21, 2012
If you are talking to me "what the", I have a master's degree, own my own home, have 2 cars, and make 6 figures annually. I'm quite independent and not looking for someone to support me. I'm talking about mature love, respect, integrity, intimacy based on romance (which doesn't mean boring), and someone to share a life with that isn't an immature dog that can't tell the truth and has the desire to hump anything that crosses his path. Say what you want, but I know my beliefs have far more character than any crap you dish out.
Hmm

Tully, NY

#21 Dec 21, 2012
Diane wrote:
If you are talking to me "what the", I have a master's degree, own my own home, have 2 cars, and make 6 figures annually. I'm quite independent and not looking for someone to support me. I'm talking about mature love, respect, integrity, intimacy based on romance (which doesn't mean boring), and someone to share a life with that isn't an immature dog that can't tell the truth and has the desire to hump anything that crosses his path. Say what you want, but I know my beliefs have far more character than any crap you dish out.
Once again, you should quit looking for something that does not exist! How long have you been searching for this already?
wow

Norwood, NY

#22 Dec 21, 2012
Maybe you can buy some lovin' with your 6 figures.
Diane

Sykesville, MD

#23 Dec 21, 2012
Lol, so done with this thread.
I wish you all happy holidays.:~)
cool story bro

Rome, NY

#24 Dec 21, 2012
Expectations cause unhappiness.
Expect too much? You will be consistently disappointed.
Expect nothing and you will be pleasantly surprised from time to time.

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