Child Support Judge Sharon Lumb
Wrong wrong

Ilion, NY

#63 Nov 1, 2012
Sorry wrote:
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I guess the bottom line is....stop having children. If you have no money and no job ....how the hell do you expect to take care of a child in the first place?? USE A CONDOM OR GET FIXED. I am sorry, but the tax payers cannot continue to take care of your children.
Sorry woman are just as responsible for having children as well maybe they should get on the pill to prevent having children better yet be more selective of who they sleep with. Your a dumbass.
Wrong wrong

Ilion, NY

#64 Nov 1, 2012
Dad wrote:
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Go back and read post #29. Is that what the NYS Legislature requires the judge to do? I don't think so!!!!
So your saying it is okay to be a slave to the system and the state of new york to have leash shoved up your ass?
Wrong wrong

Ilion, NY

#65 Nov 1, 2012
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Man I could not agree more, the system is screwed up i am in the same boat, and pay for everything else for my kid because my ex and her hubby dont pay for anything and my kids seem to be spending more and more time with me which is great but they need to adjust the system. I wish there was more we could all do to get a change but hiring a lawyer and going to family court with documentations does not work but down that road and got the shaft.
You need to all grow up and file a misconduct charges against her it is not a hard process; if all us submit reports and they all have merit she will be officially sanctioned.
Wrong wrong

Ilion, NY

#66 Nov 1, 2012
For all those who feel that they have had their rights under the Constitution of the United States of America and the State Constitution of New York I say why are you standing by idle while a judge tramples your rights. I have a few suggestions go to the court where your hearing was at request the transcripts and secondly this a link to report misconduct. Stand up for your rights We the People of the United States run this country not the politicians. So here is the link http://www.scjc.state.ny.us/
Wrong wrong

Ilion, NY

#67 Nov 1, 2012
For all those who feel that they have had their rights under the Constitution of the United States of America and the State Constitution of New York have been violated. I say why are you standing by idly while a judge tramples your rights. I have a few suggestions go to the court where your hearing was at request the transcripts and secondly this a link to report misconduct. Stand up for your rights We the People of the United States run this country not the politicians. So here is the link http://www.scjc.state.ny.us/
Notfair

Auburn, NY

#68 Nov 1, 2012
I have to agree wrote:
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Man I could not agree more, the system is screwed up i am in the same boat, and pay for everything else for my kid because my ex and her hubby dont pay for anything and my kids seem to be spending more and more time with me which is great but they need to adjust the system. I wish there was more we could all do to get a change but hiring a lawyer and going to family court with documentations does not work but down that road and got the shaft.
I have been down the same road. I have spent $10,000 in legal fees in one year. The mother is neglectful, and even admitted to it in front of the judge. It did not make a bit of difference. The judge actually said they were "past" problems, and granted 50/50. And NY State and Sharon lumb believe that is fair to take advantage of good parents that don't deserve to get the shaft.
north country gal

Syracuse, NY

#69 Nov 2, 2012
Get a load of this..I know a man who raised his daughter in his home til she was 18.she moved out before her graduation and was living with boyfriend. The guy and wife split up and the guy continued to pay daughter money every week as a peace offering I think but anyway.the daughter thinks she can get more if goes to court..so at 19 and having a job she pulls her dad to court to get even more money and the judge says you can't get money if you live on own...that passes and a month later off to court again...this time she tells the court..o.ya ..I live with mom and have post office box not home address...the judge doesn't even care she was just there a month earlier saying she didn't live at home and orders dad to pay child support and keep health insurance on the girl til she is 21.well she is almost 21done and is engaged to the guy she lives with and pregnant. Do you think the courts care? Nope.. this guy has been a great dad and has always had health insurance and gave her money but she intentionally put him in this court system. I wouldn't do that to an enemy!!this is how we are raising the ungrateful nasty kids these days.thought I would tell his story.its just sick.now he pays all her pregnancy bills too caused she's too old to get maternity insurance through his insurance.nice child huh?
Ben Dover

Sauquoit, NY

#70 Nov 2, 2012
No it's not just dead beat dads! She has it out for men in general. I always paid my support, asked her if I could ask a question.NO! This happened two times eight years apart. I honestly think she hates men. Talked to me like I was trash, and I probably paid as much annually as she makes.$3,030.00 a month. Plus whatever cash my kids needed, because there mother was smoking crack and left them alone.
north country gal

Syracuse, NY

#71 Nov 2, 2012
So true.this guy I know was always a great provider and is being treated awful and run through the ringer.its just a bad bad situation.this woman is lying and almost 21pregnant and engaged and is living with fiancee and still getting child support.this makes n58o sense !!!
inteesting

Utica, NY

#72 Mar 5, 2013
So you low lifes on here running your mouths to low rate people and make the things that
Sharon Lumb does are ok, When she is in the court room trashing people, yelling and saying what ever she damn well feels like since the only people in the court room are people from social services, sheriff and Sharon to run her mouth before she has any facts about anything only beleives what ever social services has to tell them. Draw up there bs summons with false dates ect. As i know and still have to deal with her bs. And summons stating i haven't lived with my kids since they were babies which is a total. I had different AFFIDAVITS done up by friends telling the truth and the truth of how long i lived in the house with my kids.My Ex girlfriend also is commiting welfare fraud, she quite her job, sold close to 2000.00 selling her craft items at craft shows, went on vacation her and my daughter and leaving my then seventeen year old son at home to watch over the animals and feed them. She informed no one that my son was left alone at home to check in on him and see that he was ok as i only found out when my son called me on the phone after the fact and he was there alone.
So i check in on him and make sure he is ok and taken care of. Then a few days later when she returns from sc myrtle beach, Then goes and signs up for welfare and them put a lien on the house she only part owns. Fraud in different ways and i plan on my support case being moved so that it's seen in front of a real judge not to be going in
front of support magistrate with pending fraud charges. Things are out of control in that court room with Sharon Lumb and i for one plan on making a difference in my case. As i already have been to a lawyer of fraud of my house, And was told to go to the police and file a report as well on all the fraud. My ex and her defamation of character on the computer with her low life friends ect.
Hope other people stand up for there rights as well as you don't have to have your case heard in front of Sharon Lumb it's your right to have your case heard in front of a real judge.
help

Tully, NY

#73 Mar 6, 2013
and how is that possible when a friend of mine wrote to change judges because she order way to much money. and they denied him he been figtening forever if u can give me some information i would appreicate it alot
wow

Rome, NY

#75 Mar 17, 2013
hate to tell ya but u can put in as many complaints as u want on Lumb, guarantee nothing will change. and as far as Family Court Laws : read them real good because if u notice it is at the dicretion of Lumb [judge or examiner] to rule however she feels fit. Lumb has a lot of complaints filed against her already believe me.
ChocoRoyal

Dexter, NY

#76 Mar 17, 2013
Sharon Lumb treats everyone like they are scum.Even if you are decent and pay out your a$$ she will still treat you like shit.
WV Business Law Student

Papeete, French Polynesia

#77 Mar 27, 2013
Is it her job to demand a father to stop chemotherapy, post pone his back operation, rob a bank for gas so he can drive to court 10 hours away? Is it her job to allow children to go with mothers even after receiving pictures of them doing drugs? Is it her job to take 50% of the mans weekly paycheck for one child? No. In fact, it is illegal.
If a person is on disability, receiving medical treatment for life threatening illnesses, a judge, by law, must waive all child support and post pone all court hearings. But Ms. Lumb seems to think she is above the law and continues to threaten deathly ill fathers with jail, loss of license, loss of their entire paychecks, etc...
So before you go grouping all fathers into a deadbeat class, I suggest you hear their side of the story first.
Retiring

New Hartford, NY

#78 Mar 27, 2013
She will be retiring soon anyway.
whatever

Utica, NY

#79 Apr 16, 2013
WV Business Law Student wrote:
Is it her job to demand a father to stop chemotherapy, post pone his back operation, rob a bank for gas so he can drive to court 10 hours away? Is it her job to allow children to go with mothers even after receiving pictures of them doing drugs? Is it her job to take 50% of the mans weekly paycheck for one child? No. In fact, it is illegal.
If a person is on disability, receiving medical treatment for life threatening illnesses, a judge, by law, must waive all child support and post pone all court hearings. But Ms. Lumb seems to think she is above the law and continues to threaten deathly ill fathers with jail, loss of license, loss of their entire paychecks, etc...
So before you go grouping all fathers into a deadbeat class, I suggest you hear their side of the story first.
I hear ya sharon lumb is a real ass and has been truly hateful for years, if she is to retire soon thats great but still we all need to band together and file complaints against her she deos as she damn well pleases,turns off her mic so things can't be heard on what she says,nods off on the bench in the middle of everything and doesn't even have the facts as to why your there she has to be told by ss. She yells she is hateful and doesn't even let you speak alot of the time to tell your side of things violating your rights she is totally hateful and ignorant. we need to all speak up against her to have something done.
power authority

Tully, NY

#81 Apr 21, 2013
Good luck to all you people collecting from someone when the money is done coming in.lol..you have burned bridges and hurt relationships and all for money. I have news for anyone even thinking about bringing the courts into your situation,once you cross that path there is no turning back the amount of emotional psychological damage that is done. I was never taken to court and I gladly kept my children on insurance til they could no longer be on my insurance and my wife and I have a good enough post divorce relationship that any time either of us needed something and the other could help we would.I will bet that doesn't happen to those that bring the courts in and make it dirty.I know ppl that even the kids got greedy and they don't get a dime from their father after the court order.something to think about
truth is

New Hartford, NY

#82 Apr 21, 2013
The problem is that there are many parents who do not want to support their children.
Steve

Utica, NY

#83 Apr 21, 2013
Keep your pecker in your pants....very simple people.
4 sure

New Hartford, NY

#84 Apr 21, 2013
Steve wrote:
Keep your pecker in your pants....very simple people.
Good idea...even a limit on the amount of children, like China does. 2 children is plenty for anyone. Lighter load on the taxpayers also.

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