Child Support Judge Sharon Lumb

Posted in the Potsdam Forum

First Prev
of 5
Next Last
Think about it

Potsdam, NY

#1 Apr 21, 2012
What do you know about her??
A man

United States

#2 Apr 21, 2012
Dyke bitch who hates anything with a penis and doesn't deserve her job she should have been our the door along with Potter

Potsdam, NY

#3 Apr 21, 2012
Sharon is married to a man and has been for years. IT'S HER JOB TO MAKE PEOPLE PAY THEIR CHILD SUPPORT...THAT IS WHAT SHE GETS PAID TO DO! Thanks Sharon for keeping some of these kids off the welfare system for us tax payers to take care of! If you don't want to take care of kids be responsible and use birth control...DUH!
Look at facts

Potsdam, NY

#5 Apr 22, 2012
There is nothing wrong with paying child support. This judge goes way over the line. I have been in front of her a couple of times. She ordered me to pay support beyond my means to pay. I couldn't pay my rent, buy food, or put gas in my car to go to my job. I put out many applications for additional work, with no luck.
I fell behind on bills. I sold my personal stuff to by food and pay for gas to get to work. I fell so far behind on bills, my electric was shut off. I couldn't pay my car insurance then the state police took my plates off my car. I had to walk to my job every day, 13 miles each way. It got to the point, I finally lost my place to live. I bounced from place to place to take showers and wash my clothes. It started to be a pain to people that let me clean up at their homes. I could not shower anywhere anymore and started to look and smell like a bum. Because of that I lost my job.
I went in front of this judge again unemployed with no source of income. She then yelled at me, listened to nothing, told me to pick cans on the side of the road, looked at me as if she wanted to shoot me, then increased my support. What an ASS she is.
I couldn't pay my support over the next year and was ordered to appear back in court. I was in another county looking for work with another friend. At that time was cleaned up and doing the best I could looking for work. The car broke down and I missed my court date. I brought the receipt for the repair to the court with a letter telling what happened with NO results. Later I was pulled in front of this judge for non payment of child support. When I told this judge why I missed my court date, gave a copy of the receipt of the repair and told her to her face what happened. She yelled at me all pissed off calling me all kinds of names, threatened me with jail, then doubled my child support knowing I had no way to pay it.
I finally met someone who helped me out, helped me clean myself up. She pushed me to keep looking for work and get back on my feet. I owe her a lot. She saw something in me that I forgot I had in myself. She fell in love with me as I did with her. Finally someone who did not turn their back on me like everyone else had because of all this.
After a long period of time, I finally landed a job and thought I was on my way back to getting myself back on my feet. Instead child support took my whole paycheck because I owe back support. How can I live on nothing? I went to social services to see if I at least can get food stamps, I couldn't because I was working. It made no difference that my pay was going to support and I had nothing left for me. I then filed to get my support lowered in the hope I can put a roof over my head and buy food to support myself.
I still have no place to live but at least can clean up and shower. The only way I can eat is to depend on the kind souls of others at this point. I've had others buy me food and the food banks help.
The thing that really pisses me off about this crap is that the whole system here is unfair. It makes no difference my ex has a history of child abuse with social services. It makes no difference that my kids are in old clothes and not showered and dirty. It makes no difference they are not fed right. It makes no difference their safety is at risk. It makes no difference she keeps screwing with my visits with them. She gets food stamps but yet my kids don't get what they need. She doesn't spend the money taking care of the kids. She spends the money on her, her friends, family members, and the kids do without.
I did everything right by my kids and still in family court fighting for them every day even though I've lost everything I own. I've met fathers who care about the kids, lots of them. This judge and family court judge should be thrown off the bench and put in jail.

Sharon enjoys punishing good fathers because of her personal biases on the bench about gender. She is a disgrace. I hope soon that the media puts a light on her.

Oswego, NY

#7 Apr 22, 2012
^^^^ Btw, this is the second time I posted this statement. It apparently was removed the 1st time. Way to go TOPIX!!!!!

Syracuse, NY

#8 Apr 22, 2012
She is an idiot. I am a father with custody and my childs dead beat mother wasnt paying support. So i took her to court and the dumb ass judge cant read apparantly bc she asked me why I wasnt paying support!!!
Ummm, because I have custody and the worthless mother should be paying me. Get your facts straight sharon before you open your mouth. Dumbass.
Robert Labrake

Utica, NY

#9 Apr 22, 2012
Don't know how to say this, BUT SHE IS NOT A JUDGE. She can't order you to do anything, she can't jail you, she doesn't have that authority.

She is just a support magistrate.
caring grandfather

Geneva, NY

#10 Apr 22, 2012
Our time in family court and support-court was one of the saddest times of our life. NY State Law decrees the court act in the best interest of children...and I regret to share that in St. Lawrence county: THEY DO NOT. This is not just sour grapes...our son was humiliated and emasculated only because of his gender. There was absolutely no attempt to mediate...only intimidate... our system is an extremely gender-biased agency. The mother of our grandson wanted to sleep with someone else and the rest was a cookie-cutter case of: he is male, therefore the father must be wrong. A customer/client survay and some civil oversight would be welcomed. Ms. Lumb certainly seems to hate men, which is sad and probably not how she would choose to be viewed.
just not fair

Potsdam, NY

#11 Apr 23, 2012
its not fair for the fathers i mean paying child support they should but they have to live to and she doesnt care if they do if they dont get paid their b ills then they lose their place not car no job

Potsdam, NY

#12 Apr 23, 2012
just not fair wrote:
its not fair for the fathers i mean paying child support they should but they have to live to and she doesnt care if they do if they dont get paid their b ills then they lose their place not car no job
I guess the bottom line is....stop having children. If you have no money and no job the hell do you expect to take care of a child in the first place?? USE A CONDOM OR GET FIXED. I am sorry, but the tax payers cannot continue to take care of your children.

United States

#13 Apr 23, 2012
Sorry.... You are a self righteous human.... Don't worry cause your time of hardship will come, hope society is there for you when it happens.... Idiot!

Potsdam, NY

#14 Apr 23, 2012
i am mom with a father paying me support i am thankful he is but their is time that he doesnt have enough money to live they have to live to.

Potsdam, NY

#15 Apr 23, 2012
Sorrier wrote:
Sorry.... You are a self righteous human.... Don't worry cause your time of hardship will come, hope society is there for you when it happens.... Idiot!
I am sorry if this sounds harsh, I am a single mother of two now grown children...who I raised on my own without child support! I have alway had 2 jobs and sometimes even I don't want to hear about hardship! You bring children into the take care of way or the other. Find a way and be prepared to work your ass off!

Potsdam, NY

#16 Apr 23, 2012
i do work my self and my kids are also grown and doing wonderful job all in college

Snellville, GA

#17 Apr 23, 2012
It is not just fathers she goes after. How about ex and I have 2 sons. Both of which lived with me. I was SUPPOSED to get $55 a week in child support. He NEVER paid and to this day owes me $13,000. Then one of our sons went to live with him and we dissolved the support order both agreeing to support the son we had. then he goes and puts the one son on public assistance and I get sued for support. Well I have one son and he has one son and I get whacked for $65 a week in support and he does not have to pay at all because it is beyond his means. So now I am supporting both sons and he gets off? Where is that fair??

Potsdam, NY

#18 Apr 23, 2012
that isnt fair and iam sorry about that his ass should be made to work and support both of his kids
just saying

Potsdam, NY

#19 Apr 23, 2012
Bottom line.... She hates "dead beat dads"!!! Get a job and pay your support!!!

Potsdam, NY

#20 Apr 23, 2012
If you prove you are dead beat she is gonna suck it to ya, Do you know how many men have quit there jobs to work under the table cause they thought they would get out of paying or wouldn't have to pay much, alot!!! Iknow one my ex!! had a pretty good job abd quit after he got his bitch knocked up, well he will have a rude awakening I hope!! but the sad thing is he will probably end up taking her back just so he doesn't end up having to pay, he can't stand her and not to many people can but who will suffer, the baby will!! like really people if you don't love each other and haven't had quite some time in a relationship with that person, then what the hell are you thinking cause there are many forms of birth control. I understand things go wrong such as people that are married and have children and have been with their spouse for along time. but there are way to many 17-20 year olds having babies every friggen day!!
Look at facts

Potsdam, NY

#21 Apr 25, 2012
Hmm, just saying, and sorry...

You guys are morons. As I said earlier, there is nothing wrong with paying child support. The system is based on a % of income. That's what the law states. Sharon doesn't see past her biases and throws out what the law says and pushes ordered child support payments beyond fathers abilities to pay. This has nothing to do with the children, she enjoys breaking people because of her hatred of men. She thinks every guy that comes in front of her is a dead beat, most are not. The court should look at what you need to live, food, rent, stuff like that. If you can't live, how do they think you can pay child support in the amounts they order. I don't even keep enough money to rent a room anywhere. I can't keep enough money to feed myself. There is suppose to be a limit on how much they can take.
sickof welfare people

Watertown, NY

#22 Apr 26, 2012
Sorry wrote:
<quoted text>
I guess the bottom line is....stop having children. If you have no money and no job the hell do you expect to take care of a child in the first place?? USE A CONDOM OR GET FIXED. I am sorry, but the tax payers cannot continue to take care of your children.
So it is ok for these mothers to sit on thier a**s and draw welfair, and collect child support and not support thier kids. Let a father go to court and sharon is telling them to get a second job if they cant pay thier support. What about the mother getting a first one.

Tell me when this thread is updated:

Subscribe Now Add to my Tracker
First Prev
of 5
Next Last

Add your comments below

Characters left: 4000

Please note by submitting this form you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

Potsdam Discussions

Title Updated Last By Comments
Video footage sought in Hillary trial 2 hr Wait a minute 79
Why do men cheat 3 hr Repeatly 44
2010 Hillary complaint challenges deputya s sta... 3 hr old dog 1
HILLARY& his lawyer Ed Narrow have aLOT in comm... Mar 2 Not unsettling 36
How To Improve Your Muscle Mar 2 Gaynellekemn 3
dollar tree potsdam Feb 28 cheaters are disg... 3
Massena man jailed on $100,000 bail on robbery ... Feb 27 Kasey 5
Potsdam Dating
Find my Match
More from around the web

Potsdam People Search

Addresses and phone numbers for FREE

Personal Finance

Mortgages [ See current mortgage rates ]

NFL Latest News

Updated 10:38 pm PST