Why do women say they don't like big ...

Why do women say they don't like big muscles when they do??

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Muscle man

United States

#1 Oct 5, 2010
I body build (100% natural) an it drives me crazy how much more attention I get now as before I started working out. A lot of the attention is from shallow chics that just want to feel on me but my question is to the decent women. Women i would consider decent flirt with me so much more now than before. so why so why do most all say one thing and act another??? We only look like what you see in magazines during and just after workouts.
WOW

Marion, OH

#2 Oct 5, 2010
I always just showed them what i had in my pants o lord they ran! mahahah
JRS

Shattuck, OK

#3 Oct 5, 2010
I dont like muscles. I actually find slightly overwieght men attractive. I dont mean obese, but 200 to 220 lbs is good. I have been trying to fatten my husband up for years but he has wicked metabolism.

Muscles actually turn me off. Especially when their are viens bulging out of the muscle.
JRS

Shattuck, OK

#4 Oct 5, 2010
*veins
yeah

Orlando, FL

#5 Oct 5, 2010
I like an athletic body, but not the body builder type at all. That's just not attractive to me.
Well

Frisco, TX

#6 Oct 5, 2010
I dont like big muscles.. But I need to feel like my boyfriend is able to protect me. Some are needed.
abagale

Lynchburg, VA

#7 Oct 5, 2010
I like muscular men always have. I am just not attracted to skinny or obese men.
why

Marion, OH

#8 Oct 5, 2010
why do guys always say they dont like super skinny girls, and say they like girls who eat more than just rabbit food ....but always chose the skinny "oh I'll just have the salad" chics? or say they dont like the dumb blonds and want someone they can actual have a decent conversation with....and then the second a girl shows some intelligence, they bolt for the braindead barbie dolls? we only look like what you see in magazines after airbrushing and photoshop
Seriously

United States

#9 Oct 5, 2010
why wrote:
why do guys always say they dont like super skinny girls, and say they like girls who eat more than just rabbit food ....but always chose the skinny "oh I'll just have the salad" chics? or say they dont like the dumb blonds and want someone they can actual have a decent conversation with....and then the second a girl shows some intelligence, they bolt for the braindead barbie dolls? we only look like what you see
in magazines after airbrushing and photoshop
HA! Dead on.

I've dated bodybuilders and long distance runners. I prefer the runners body. I like that long lean look with definition but not bulky. Whatever though because it doesn't really matter. If the person has a lot of personality then that is what you fall for anyway. How they look is just what gets you to say hello, not what keeps you there.
The Way It Is

Pataskala, OH

#10 Oct 5, 2010
Because men with muscles look incredible....no matter what age.

We women are just like men ... we like what we see but we tend to fall in love with what we hear -- at least most of us.
Golden Ticket

Van Wert, OH

#11 Oct 5, 2010
I prefer a guy 6'4" 240. I've always liked overweight guys, but not sloppy. I've had skinny guys and muscle guys flirt with me, but I just don't dig it. Possibly it is the personality characteristics that some muscle men have which are a turn off. However, looks only go so far. Of course I want someone attractive, but personality, etc. is so much more important.
Hey

Marion, OH

#12 Oct 6, 2010
Golden Ticket wrote:
I prefer a guy 6'4" 240. I've always liked overweight guys, but not sloppy. I've had skinny guys and muscle guys flirt with me, but I just don't dig it. Possibly it is the personality characteristics that some muscle men have which are a turn off. However, looks only go so far. Of course I want someone attractive, but personality, etc. is so much more important.
Hey golden ticket how old are you I'm 6' about 250 would u be interested in talking
Love handles

Marion, OH

#13 Oct 6, 2010
There is only two kind of men, good ol' big ones, and big ol' hood ones.
Golden Ticket

Van Wert, OH

#14 Oct 6, 2010
Hey wrote:
<quoted text>
Hey golden ticket how old are you I'm 6' about 250 would u be interested in talking
I said 6'4".:)~
Brett

Springfield, MO

#15 Jul 6, 2012
I've been very built from years of bodybuilding 200lbs pure muscle, and then got scrawny like 160 165, toned but definitely little! Honestly, I got way more attention when I was scrawny and when I was in between the two ranges more than I did when I was huge. Sure I would get some extra attention at bars sometimes from certain women, but most of the hot unique chicks werent into it. They were into my personality and liked my body, but those girls went way more crazy for my body when I wasn't so huge. The dumb boring soriety type women were a little less receptive at first when you are dressed,but if your in good shape even if your not huge it doesnt matter once your shirtless....but big muscles show off your body when you are in clothes easier so that helps draw women who are into that look I suppose. Honestly, it's all about how awesome YOU feel about yourself. If you feel sexy and hot then you will be attractive to women, even if they dont really like the body type. I've stolen women away from their big bodybuilder boyfriends so many times it's not even funny,*technically most of the time I never pursued it but easily could of and it was obvious...and this was when I was my least "sterotypically sexy" I was just normal looking, but I had the confidence and personality and still felt great about how I looked. It was funny! Attraction for women is WAY more complicated than it can be for me. Just love who you are and expect others to appreciate the same things you appreciate about yourself and you're good.
fagroy

United States

#16 Jul 7, 2012
Most body builders are maggots watching each other work out
fagroy

United States

#17 Jul 7, 2012
I said FAGGooot
Jayden

Denver, CO

#18 Oct 23, 2012
I think woman do like muscles. I was once in really good shape and woman couldn't take their eyes off me or stop flirting. I needed a baseball bat to scare em off(Jk, that part is fake.) But sexy beautiful girls would flirt with me without me doing anything and that is the truth. Although I was fit at the time, summer was just ending so I had a nice tan, and I was very toned because I would work out my whole body. I know woman like muscles, they like the brad pitt in his prime look. Muscles but not to the point of bulging veins and whatnot. And of course everybody likes something different BUT I am talking about most woman.
Kelly

Marion, OH

#19 Oct 23, 2012
I don't like men who have big, vein bulging muscles. I will never date a man who looks in the mirror more than I do.
Barbi

United States

#20 Oct 23, 2012
Not all body builders are egomaniacs. I think different women like different builds. I personally like big bulging muscles, it makes a girl feel good to have a guy who can scoop her up and carry her off. I don't prefer scrawny guys but each their own.

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