Do Guys Like "Good Girls"?

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#1 Nov 7, 2010
I was brought up to be a "good girl" and I guess it stuck. I am polite, have good manners and am actually pretty sweet. What I want to know is if guys actually like nice girls like me, or do they want the kind of girl who gets drunk, dances on the bar and swears like a sailor? When I see some reality shows on TV I see girls doing things like that and even more...they also dance like strippers and fight like men. But the thing is the guys loved it! To me that kind of behavior is trashy and shows absolutely no class, but that's just me. I'm not saying I'm boring or anything...I love to have fun. I'm just the kind of girl that would rather stay home and watch a movie instead of going out to a bar. So what kind of chance do normal "nice" girls have when there are girls out there who will sleep with a guy they just met? It's like once they find out you aren't the hook up type they move on to a girl that is...

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#2 Nov 7, 2010
Most guys will at first say they like the good girls, but, in the end they get bored with it. I prefer the good girls now myself, after going for many years liking the "wild" type. It's hard these days finding Good girls. As it is hard for good girls to find good guys. IMO, Sex isn't all that great unless it's meaningful for both parties. I personally try to find good girls, but, in the end they turn out to be the bad girls and want "more" in life. So it works both ways.

Why do decent girls always want the bad boys? The ones that ride the expensive bikes, the ones that put all their money into a vehicle, when they could have a guy that saves back his money and does things for others before himself? I guess it's one of those "Why is the sky blue?" questions :/

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#3 Nov 7, 2010
I myself am at that point in my life, 25 years old, that I want to grow up and have my own family soon and enjoy that side of Life. I've done the partying and all that. Now, it is time for me to grow up and at times, you just can't do that when others don't want to grow up themselves, so in the end, it's hurtful on you and the other person. Maybe I don't make any sense at all with this explanation, but, in my head I am making sense with this.

I guess for a guy to like the good girls, they have to realize they need to grow up and not worry how many guys the girl has been with or how many beers it takes for her to get drunk enough for sex.
been there

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#4 Nov 7, 2010
Nice men like nice women........trash likes trash. Be thankful those guys pass you up for an "easy" target; they are not worth your time.

Trust me.
Shisha

Portsmouth, OH

#5 Nov 7, 2010
I think that guys like good girls for a challenge to try n get in their pants. That is all.

My opinion IS biased because I am female :)

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#7 Nov 7, 2010
I understand what you mean. Just because I'm a good girl doesn't mean I'm a prude...I just don't sleep around. I don't know why a woman would "want more" if they have a man that loves them and treats them well. I mean besides my education and career that is all I really want.

I personally don't care for bad boys at all. I never have and never will. I like kind, funny, and responsible men. Someone I can trust and who will treat me like I treat them...take care of me, but also lets ME take care of HIM.

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#8 Nov 7, 2010
yeah, you sound like a good girl. Not many left in this world. Not many good guys left either for the good girls. I myself haven't even been able to find a good girl that wants happiness with a person over happiness of how much cash they can get out of the guy.

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#9 Nov 7, 2010
Proxen wrote:
I myself am at that point in my life, 25 years old, that I want to grow up and have my own family soon and enjoy that side of Life. I've done the partying and all that. Now, it is time for me to grow up and at times, you just can't do that when others don't want to grow up themselves, so in the end, it's hurtful on you and the other person. Maybe I don't make any sense at all with this explanation, but, in my head I am making sense with this.
I guess for a guy to like the good girls, they have to realize they need to grow up and not worry how many guys the girl has been with or how many beers it takes for her to get drunk enough for sex.
I guess it would be hard to settle down with someone who isn't mature enough to handle a serious relationship. As far as how many guys a good girl has been with, I assure you it will be a much lower number than the type of girls I described in my original post. Like for me it is a whopping 1 person and I'm 20 years old! And who the heck has to get drunk to want to have sex?

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#10 Nov 7, 2010
I've seen plenty of girls go from decent good girls to instant bad girl wanting sex when she gets a little bit of alcohol in her. But then again, that would make them bad girls to begin with if it wasn't the first time they have done it.

I've been with 5 girls in my life, still a low number I suppose, 5 more than I like since all of them turned out to be complete idiots. If I could take it back, I'd take it all back and would rather not have had sex even at 25. As for you saying you'd rather watch movies than go out. That actually sounds fun. I like just sitting in and watching a movie or a decent tv show. Occasionally I like to go out and get a few drinks. I know some people know who I am on here, so they will more than like poke fun, but that is just who I am. I'm sure a lot of people know who I once was also. Luckily, I've changed who I was, for myself.

Also another thing girls go after first, is a persons looks. They want the "oh he is hot" Most of those "hot guys" are going to be the jerks because its gotten to their head after hearing it so often. Girls do the same thing.

Enough of my stupid ranting though, I hope you find a good guy, you sound like a really good person and I have seen some of your posts, you seem very intelligent as well. So I wish you all the best.
Golden Ticket

Waverly, OH

#11 Nov 7, 2010
FinleyRae13 wrote:
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I guess it would be hard to settle down with someone who isn't mature enough to handle a serious relationship. As far as how many guys a good girl has been with, I assure you it will be a much lower number than the type of girls I described in my original post. Like for me it is a whopping 1 person and I'm 20 years old! And who the heck has to get drunk to want to have sex?
I've been a good girl my entire life and I'm very bored. FinleyRae, please live a little before you get too old. You do end up regretting it.
Golden Ticket

Waverly, OH

#12 Nov 7, 2010
Proxen wrote:
I've seen plenty of girls go from decent good girls to instant bad girl wanting sex when she gets a little bit of alcohol in her. But then again, that would make them bad girls to begin with if it wasn't the first time they have done it.
I've been with 5 girls in my life, still a low number I suppose, 5 more than I like since all of them turned out to be complete idiots. If I could take it back, I'd take it all back and would rather not have had sex even at 25. As for you saying you'd rather watch movies than go out. That actually sounds fun. I like just sitting in and watching a movie or a decent tv show. Occasionally I like to go out and get a few drinks. I know some people know who I am on here, so they will more than like poke fun, but that is just who I am. I'm sure a lot of people know who I once was also. Luckily, I've changed who I was, for myself.
Also another thing girls go after first, is a persons looks. They want the "oh he is hot" Most of those "hot guys" are going to be the jerks because its gotten to their head after hearing it so often. Girls do the same thing.
Enough of my stupid ranting though, I hope you find a good guy, you sound like a really good person and I have seen some of your posts, you seem very intelligent as well. So I wish you all the best.
Based on your message I could interpret it as: Idiots attract idiots or you are an abusive idiot to believe every woman you chose to bang was an idiot. Watch out ladies! If a man calls all their exes idiots, they are no good!!!!
ugh

Stafford, VA

#13 Nov 7, 2010
they do... but r there any nice girls out there?

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#14 Nov 7, 2010
uhh you took that completely wrong. They done me wrong. I didn't do them wrong. 3 of them cheated on me. 2 of those 3 stayed with me at my house a few times me and were going behind my back calling guys and later left me for those guys. 3 of them, made me choose them over my own family. So yes, They were idiots and for you to go and call me an abusive idiot without realizing I wasn't being the asshole here, is completely judgmental on your part and you are in the wrong here. Not once have I EVER put a girl I have been with. Not once have I ever been mean to a girl even if Girl #3 had done everything she had done to me that would make her a horrible person. I have not ever touched a girl meanly. So please, do not go and judge what I had just said in that with just that simple line. They are idiots because they had screwed me over when I treated them great.
ugh

Stafford, VA

#15 Nov 7, 2010
i am not in new york...
Golden Ticket

Waverly, OH

#16 Nov 7, 2010
Proxen wrote:
uhh you took that completely wrong. They done me wrong. I didn't do them wrong. 3 of them cheated on me. 2 of those 3 stayed with me at my house a few times me and were going behind my back calling guys and later left me for those guys. 3 of them, made me choose them over my own family. So yes, They were idiots and for you to go and call me an abusive idiot without realizing I wasn't being the asshole here, is completely judgmental on your part and you are in the wrong here. Not once have I EVER put a girl I have been with. Not once have I ever been mean to a girl even if Girl #3 had done everything she had done to me that would make her a horrible person. I have not ever touched a girl meanly. So please, do not go and judge what I had just said in that with just that simple line. They are idiots because they had screwed me over when I treated them great.
You teach people how to treat you, budddyyyyyy.

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#17 Nov 8, 2010
Golden Ticket, just shut up please, you have no clue who I am outside of Topix or even on Topix. So to keep judging me is pathetic and immature of you. So get a life and don't even comment again. Idiot.
IKnowTheseThings

Chicago, IL

#18 Nov 8, 2010
Proxen is a loser
HonestTruth

Chicago, IL

#19 Nov 8, 2010
Ok seriously.. If the guy isn't a complete moron or is only looking for an easy lay, then yes.. We deffinetly like women like you. Around here it's so difficult to find somebody that's not on drugs or a complete hoe. It sounds like you were one of verryyy few girls around here that was actually brought up with morals. I'm 20 years old as well and I can assure you that I do not know one girl that has only been with one person. I'm not talking about nasty/skanky girls either. I was popular all through school and hangout with decent people.I go to the clubs with The good girls/cheerleaders/churchy girls and they all end up getting trashed any sleepin with whoever. When I was still young and in highschool I used to like going for the wild girls.. But it gets soooo old. Afterawhile a good girl is all a guy really looks for. Don't be like other girls around here.. Keep your standards high. Around here it's a little difficult to find a nice guy buy it'll happen, I promise..
old man

Richmond, KY

#20 Nov 8, 2010
FinleyRae13 wrote:
I understand what you mean. Just because I'm a good girl doesn't mean I'm a prude...I just don't sleep around. I don't know why a woman would "want more" if they have a man that loves them and treats them well. I mean besides my education and career that is all I really want.
I personally don't care for bad boys at all. I never have and never will. I like kind, funny, and responsible men. Someone I can trust and who will treat me like I treat them...take care of me, but also lets ME take care of HIM.
stay just like you are , dont try to change to get a guy mr right will show up one day when you arent looking for him . how ever dont take life for granted live like theres no tomorow lifes to short . I married a nice girl myself then she changed after a bunch of years and went the other way.

Since: Jan 10

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#21 Nov 8, 2010
ahh I wouldn't poke fun of you Proxen. You are actualy a pretty nice guy. Can't really think of anything bad I know about you

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