fell in love with a married woman

fell in love with a married woman

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lover

Wilmington, OH

#1 Jan 8, 2013
Ok I fell in love with a married woman we had a 3way a few times I lived woth them 4 awhile and I fell deeply in love with her I have told her and she refuses to leave him for me she said she has kids and been with him since she was 13 she admits she has fellings for me also but now her dead beat husband and I got into a fight cause how bad he does her and now I don't get to see her or talk to her besides if I see her out which I said last night she told me she misses me and loves me
lover

Wilmington, OH

#2 Jan 8, 2013
Oh and he moved her out of town so I've only seen her once in 7 months I can't get her out of my head I've tryed to move on but every girl I try with can't compare to her she is my world
oh my

South Shore, KY

#3 Jan 8, 2013
lover wrote:
Ok I fell in love with a married woman we had a 3way a few times I lived woth them 4 awhile and I fell deeply in love with her I have told her and she refuses to leave him for me she said she has kids and been with him since she was 13 she admits she has fellings for me also but now her dead beat husband and I got into a fight cause how bad he does her and now I don't get to see her or talk to her besides if I see her out which I said last night she told me she misses me and loves me
Allow me to give u some advice before u make the biggest mistake of ur life; I have been in love with a married man for 4 years, he says he's in love with me and wants to marry me, says he's getting a divorce, and so on... He too has children, one of which he created with her while we were having our affair, my life has been torn upside down, I have never hurt so much in my life, he is never gonna leave her, and it took me 4 years to figure that out. I have broken off the affair but he won't leave me alone, it's making me crazy, I can't handle it anymore, I'm doing the right thing by getting out of this affair and I will NEVER EVER get involved with another married man for as long as I live, it's miserable and lonely, so painful, iv nearly lost my mind over him, please listen to me... Please walk away and better yourself and your life, don't put yourself through this, please. It will go on for years my friend, and in the end u will lose and her life will remain the same.
oh my

South Shore, KY

#4 Jan 8, 2013
U just have to believe me, and u have to believe u can and will get over her, keep yourself busy, and remind yourself that she chose him over you, she let u go, u have to find the strength to let her go, it's the hardest thing iv ever had to do n my entire life, trust me! But I know I can't live in this pain anymore, I deserve better and so do you
lover

Wilmington, OH

#6 Jan 8, 2013
She has never said she would leave him she was honest and said she wouldn't cause they have kids she won't sleep with me alone cause she said its cheating
blah blah

Ashburn, VA

#7 Jan 8, 2013
Fcking loser. Find a decent woman, not a 3some having slut of a mom that tells you she's not gonna be with you. Topix.com is not Dr. Phil, you know your options, be a man and man up and move on.
oh my

South Shore, KY

#8 Jan 8, 2013
That was rude! Don't think he asked for ur advice anyways so shut the hell up.
oh my

South Shore, KY

#9 Jan 8, 2013
She hasn't said it yet, but in time she would have, they tell u anything to keep u hanging on
blah blah

Ashburn, VA

#10 Jan 9, 2013
Don't think he asked for your advice either but you sure put your 2 cents in. You admit to having an affair with a married man who had a woman pregnant with child at the time, but my comment was rude? I'm sorry where are my manners ?
smh

Wilmington, OH

#11 Jan 9, 2013
Listen you need to stop making post about me and get Ur facts right we let u move in with us because you hadd no where to live after awhile we got drunk one night and yes we hada three way yes we was drunk it was our 1st time and last I've never ever said I love you u did after hitting it lol and yes we moved away because u started stalking me breaking into our house tryed to make me do ish with u then anywhere we moved u would find me and now u told my brother about this post and he showed me you need to leave me alone and my family you need help seriously dude there isn't nothing between us and never will be its been since 2010 its time to stop
oh my

Springfield, NJ

#12 Jan 9, 2013
blah blah wrote:
Don't think he asked for your advice either but you sure put your 2 cents in. You admit to having an affair with a married man who had a woman pregnant with child at the time, but my comment was rude? I'm sorry where are my manners ?
Fk you !! I have manners, how's that for manners u dumbass ????
Dear Lover

Marion, OH

#13 Jan 9, 2013
lover wrote:
Ok I fell in love with a married woman we had a 3way a few times I lived woth them 4 awhile and I fell deeply in love with her I have told her and she refuses to leave him for me she said she has kids and been with him since she was 13 she admits she has fellings for me also but now her dead beat husband and I got into a fight cause how bad he does her and now I don't get to see her or talk to her besides if I see her out which I said last night she told me she misses me and loves me
You thought a 3way with a married couple was going to turn out OK? Then you thought an affair with a married woman was going to turn out fine? Buddy, you brought your grief upon yourself. Just be glad you didn't get your butt kicked too. Time to move on. Hope you have learned a lesson about morals here. They are there for a very good reason.
Question for oh my

Powell, OH

#14 Jan 9, 2013
Do you have children? How did you meet him?
oh my

Springfield, NJ

#15 Jan 9, 2013
Question for oh my wrote:
Do you have children? How did you meet him?
I have 1 child, and I met him while on a business trip, I did not know at the time he was married.
Question for oh my

Powell, OH

#16 Jan 9, 2013
Does his wife know about the affair?
oh my

Springfield, NJ

#17 Jan 9, 2013
No
Question for oh my

Powell, OH

#19 Jan 9, 2013
I just wonder if she would leave him had she knew. I wouldn't doubt he loves you, but the guilt of leaving his kids would kill him. I've been there myself.

Since: Apr 12

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#20 Jan 9, 2013
Oh this sounds like Sarah mustain or sorry Sarah Donaly what a nasty overbite slut
oh my

Springfield, NJ

#21 Jan 9, 2013
Question for oh my wrote:
I just wonder if she would leave him had she knew. I wouldn't doubt he loves you, but the guilt of leaving his kids would kill him. I've been there myself.
Yes I would say it would have, and I can't hold that against him, I just wish he would have been honest from the start and been honest about not leaving her. I didnt expect him to until he told me wanted to and he was going to. It's best he stays with her now. The kids need a normal life and they should come first. I just want to move on with my life and him to move on with his. The pain he has caused me has left a hardness in my heart that can never be softened. I just need to get over him and move forward, and I feel he owes it to me to just walk away and let me go so someday I can find someone I can be happy with and someone I can spend my time with like he does with her.
jfk

Springfield, NJ

#22 Jan 10, 2013
If he really loved you he would have left his wife, 4 years is a long time wasted, he would have left in the first year if he was going to. I don't understand how u really think he loves you after staying with his wife 4 years and putting you through hell for all those years, not to mention the hell he could have put his wife and kids through had they found out. What kind of man does this to two women he claims to love? What kind of man cheats on his wife and hides it for 4 years? And how can you not tell her about it? Why would you just let him get by with that? He has torn your life apart and you allow him to just go back and live his normal life as if nothing ever happened? Wow! He could probably get by with murder !! Sounds to me like he's selfish and only cares about getting what he wants, and you care way to much for this a$$hole. Glad your making the change in your life for the better! Hope you find happiness out there someday and forget about this selfish pig

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