anyone know a cheating/deckhand husband

anyone know a cheating/deckhand husband

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WorriedWife

Lexington, KY

#1 Oct 7, 2009
I got married in June and my husband is a deckhand with ACL lines and he's ben acting very strange lately, now out of the blue he wants a divorce. Can anyone please give me any info on what goes on these boats. I am devestated. Please only helpful info.
The package

United States

#2 Oct 7, 2009
was he in the navy?
WorriedWife

Lexington, KY

#3 Oct 7, 2009
no...He works for American Commercial lines and drags the barges up the river. Do you know anyone aor anything about it?
glad you asked

Portsmouth, OH

#4 Oct 8, 2009
WorriedWife wrote:
no...He works for American Commercial lines and drags the barges up the river. Do you know anyone aor anything about it?
i know a little about it, the only women on the barges are the cooks.so unless he is messing with the cooks chances of him cheating while he is working is slim to none.they dont get off the boat while their working.maybe its what he is doing while he is home that has changed his mind.wish you luck.
just asking

Lexington, KY

#5 Oct 8, 2009
glad you asked wrote:
<quoted text>i know a little about it, the only women on the barges are the cooks.so unless he is messing with the cooks chances of him cheating while he is working is slim to none.they dont get off the boat while their working.maybe its what he is doing while he is home that has changed his mind.wish you luck.
yEAH, I know he "says" that the women are all over 50, but then I start looking up applications to the company and these girls are 18+....He slipped up last year and told me about a captain and mate tieing off and driving into Wal-mart, supposodely. So, I can't believe they wouldn't venture anywhere else either. I just can't believe anything he says right now. I also caugh him talking to his female dispatcher, on/off the boat 20-30 times in a month? I haven't talked to my boss that much in 3years.
funnyman

Portsmouth, OH

#6 Oct 8, 2009
just asking wrote:
<quoted text>yEAH, I know he "says" that the women are all over 50, but then I start looking up applications to the company and these girls are 18+....He slipped up last year and told me about a captain and mate tieing off and driving into Wal-mart, supposodely. So, I can't believe they wouldn't venture anywhere else either. I just can't believe anything he says right now. I also caugh him talking to his female dispatcher, on/off the boat 20-30 times in a month? I haven't talked to my boss that much in 3years.
now that doesnt sound so good.i know they talk to dispatchers,but not that often.hang in there.
Newguy

Portsmouth, OH

#7 Feb 9, 2010
Is his name Brian Shepard?
curious

Portsmouth, OH

#8 Feb 9, 2010
Why do you know that Brian Shepard cheats on his wife?
to curious wife

United States

#9 Feb 9, 2010
if u think he is cheating then chances are he is. sorry to break it to you but i have been through that and i would just get out while you can. the trust never comes back even if u decide to try to work it out and it's pretty miserable not to trust your husband.
X waLmart employee

Minford, OH

#10 Feb 9, 2010
Don't listen to that guy some ppl are insecure! I've had moments some guys I dated was cheating but the guy I'm with now isn't and never has cheated he's wonderful sometimes u want it to buy a reason to why he's leaving ya know makes u feel better if it's not you or something u did? And makes u like easily to get over it but maybe he just wants something else kinda sounds like he's doing something talkin to a girl! I know a woman that was a cook on the barges and she was in her 30s she was a wild one and ended up getting married to a guy and quit working on it and he's still working on it tho lol well goodluck I hope ya the best I know how it is it sucks bc I sure the hell know me and my hubs had our ups and downs
Newguy

Portsmouth, OH

#11 Feb 10, 2010
Ask Shepards wife to check out his Tagged profile.His wife went to a tanning salon..and did'nt know he was talking to an employee there.
curious

Portsmouth, OH

#12 Feb 10, 2010
talking doesn't constitute as cheating
Newguy

Portsmouth, OH

#13 Feb 10, 2010
curious wrote:
talking doesn't constitute as cheating
...but seeing them when he's off-duty is.
cougar

Portsmouth, OH

#14 Feb 10, 2010
I don't think its a woman you have to worry about. Being on a boat for 20 to 30 days is like being in prison. From what my friend went thru, her Exhusband was having sex with other men on the boat! Sick People
Boat Pilot

Arlington, TX

#15 Feb 15, 2010
Well I work on the boats and it's very far and few times I get off of it can't really remember the last time, Look at greenup dam brokedown I don't see people jumpin off/on boats anywhere do you?My own personal advice is if he wants it give it to him.I've went through it also 30 days is a long time from home people change their outlook on alot of things besides acl office is in jeffersonville Ind.long drive but you never know besides the wheelhouse people talk to the dispatch he probably talkin to crew dipatcher.usally cooks can be male or female,they like to hire women who havecooked for a while and are usually over 50.quit with the worry if he leaves get a new one .
in portsmouth

Ashburn, VA

#16 Mar 14, 2010
kenny nickels cheats everyday and lisa knows it and stays
imagoodytoshoes

San Francisco, CA

#17 Mar 14, 2010
Its not cheating its wife-swaping dang it get the facts right..
justasking

Portsmouth, OH

#18 Mar 14, 2010
imagoodytoshoes wrote:
Its not cheating its wife-swaping dang it get the facts right..
Maybe he turned gay ?
walmart bank

Bedminster, NJ

#19 Mar 15, 2010
the man who works walmart bank. married to rissa newman had baby not long ago... he is a cheater! he tried sleeping w my best friend. but she wouldnt! even sent pics of himself naked. over 4 girls there say he has tried to f&ck them! how low! i mean come on!

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