Ok, so I am from a small town where women are suppose to be size 4 and only do what they are told. Or at least that is what the guys want. I wasn't raised that way, I know when to speak up and when to shut up. I guess I am just wondering if what men really want is someone a size 4 or someone who is in shape no matter what size she is? Do you want a dumb blond or a female that has a brain and knows just as much as you?

I am also a strong willed, strong minded woman in the military. Does that really scare guys or are there that many wimps?

Just wondering