men that free load off women

men that free load off women

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just wondering

Chagrin Falls, OH

#1 Mar 25, 2009
My boyfriend moved in with me and doesn't attempt to pay any of the bills around the house.Is it me, or could I possibly being played as a fool.
been there

Chagrin Falls, OH

#2 Mar 25, 2009
sounds to me like you need to open your eyes and look at the situation a little closer. If he doesn't pay his part, why keep him around?
Post-it-Note

Penrose, CO

#3 Mar 25, 2009
If you don't know the answer, you are a fool.
just wondering

Chagrin Falls, OH

#4 Mar 25, 2009
Post-it-Note wrote:
If you don't know the answer, you are a fool.
He makes me feel like I am the one being selfish. He does help around the house by cleaning and the money he earns he says he is paying off HIS bills so later on he can help pay some bills around here.I don't feel that is being fair, but somehow he always twists it around to make it sound like all I want from him is money.that isn't the case. I just want him to pay his part.50/50 is what I believe should happen in a relationship, but he doesn't see it that way
Guest

United States

#5 Mar 25, 2009
just wondering wrote:
My boyfriend moved in with me and doesn't attempt to pay any of the bills around the house.Is it me, or could I possibly being played as a fool.
I have an even better one for you!!! I know a woman who has free loaded off of three different men, had 4 kids with three different men, and now that her son is 18 and emancipated, she now free loads off him. How is that for a free loader??? This woman can't even pay her own cell phone bill, her son put her on his own plan and pays for it. Now, that is what I call worthless, white, trash!!!!!
chidoug

Chicago, IL

#6 Mar 25, 2009
just wondering wrote:
<quoted text> He makes me feel like I am the one being selfish. He does help around the house by cleaning and the money he earns he says he is paying off HIS bills so later on he can help pay some bills around here.I don't feel that is being fair, but somehow he always twists it around to make it sound like all I want from him is money.that isn't the case. I just want him to pay his part.50/50 is what I believe should happen in a relationship, but he doesn't see it that way
looks to me you got yourself a real loser. if you don't pay rent or the light bill then you must leave. so what, he is paying his bill, which i would like to know since he is living with you. i'm sure his credit is already shot, but the rent still needs to be paid or not only him but you might find yourself without a place to lay your head.

what i would suggest is finding out what bills he has and what he has paid. that you both should come up with some sort of budget.. if he keeps twisting it around then you know what to do.

when i moved back to chicago from florida i moved in with my now wife. gave her every penny i had. she in turn would make sure i had a few bucks in my pocket while i looked for a job. and i was out there from the first day until i found one. i didn't sit on my @ss at the house
just wondering

Chagrin Falls, OH

#7 Mar 25, 2009
chidoug wrote:
<quoted text>looks to me you got yourself a real loser. if you don't pay rent or the light bill then you must leave. so what, he is paying his bill, which i would like to know since he is living with you. i'm sure his credit is already shot, but the rent still needs to be paid or not only him but you might find yourself without a place to lay your head.
what i would suggest is finding out what bills he has and what he has paid. that you both should come up with some sort of budget.. if he keeps twisting it around then you know what to do.
when i moved back to chicago from florida i moved in with my now wife. gave her every penny i had. she in turn would make sure i had a few bucks in my pocket while i looked for a job. and i was out there from the first day until i found one. i didn't sit on my @ss at the house
I earn my own money. I earn enough to pay all of my bills, it's just the point that he doesn't pay his part.It's as if I am being taking advantage of. I would love to be out of debt too, but he chooses to pay off all of his instead
chidoug

Chicago, IL

#8 Mar 25, 2009
i understand, my wife was able to make all her bill but the fact remains that i moved in there with her meaning that i needed to pay my part as well.

once people realize nothing in life is free then they will be better off
George

Columbia, MO

#9 Mar 25, 2009
Guest wrote:
<quoted text>
I have an even better one for you!!! I know a woman who has free loaded off of three different men, had 4 kids with three different men, and now that her son is 18 and emancipated, she now free loads off him. How is that for a free loader??? This woman can't even pay her own cell phone bill, her son put her on his own plan and pays for it. Now, that is what I call worthless, white, trash!!!!!
Is her Angie and she lives at dexter!
Guest

United States

#10 Mar 25, 2009
George wrote:
<quoted text>Is her Angie and she lives at dexter!
Wow! You mean there is more than one freeloading, white, trash woman in PB?? LMAO! No, her name is not Angie. This crazy woman lives in PB. I don't know about Angie, but this woman is a real looser! Anyone who has to sponge off their own children because they are too lazy to get a job is in my opinion a looser. She hasn't maintained a job in over 4 years. Got into drugs with her hubby and that was the end of working! Now she just steals people blind and sponges off her own son!
Niki

Patton, MO

#11 Mar 25, 2009
you should put him oot he is plaing you and your being screwed I have a friend that goes through this and I just think it's bull I bet that you man lies too .... his bills what about you and your bills wehy should you have to struggle to make it just for him?? put him out!!
Lurker

Houston, TX

#12 Mar 25, 2009
I think it all depends on your relationship. When me and boyfriend moved in together 5 years ago, he pay most of the bills. I paid the cable and bought all the household supplies including food. When he got laid off in 07 I paid all the bills and food. Then we moved to Texas he got a better job and has been paying all the bills and most of the food. I had to take a cut in pay, so he's been helping me a lot. I think it all depends on how the relationship works for you.
Keep It Real

Greenville, NC

#13 Mar 25, 2009
Is he black.
Guest

United States

#14 Mar 25, 2009
Keep It Real wrote:
Is he black.
NICE! Are you saying that if he is black that he fits the profile of a moocher???? Come on!!! Lets at least leave the race card out of this! There are numerous people from all walks of life that fit the category of moocher!!
just wondering

Chagrin Falls, OH

#15 Mar 25, 2009
Keep It Real wrote:
Is he black.
no he isn't black! what does color have to do with it anyway. black, white, we are all the same. This post is about how can you tell if a guy is taking advantage of a woman or just trying to get set up to be able to help out financially.
i think

Chagrin Falls, OH

#16 Mar 25, 2009
I think that you should open the door and kick him out. He is not helping, he is using. Please open your eyes before it is too late and he has drained you and you lose your self-respect. He could pay some money toward his bills and give you the rest. He should be contributing. How would he survive without you paying the bills? No one else would let him do this to them. He owes you respect.
just wondering

Chagrin Falls, OH

#17 Mar 25, 2009
i think wrote:
I think that you should open the door and kick him out. He is not helping, he is using. Please open your eyes before it is too late and he has drained you and you lose your self-respect. He could pay some money toward his bills and give you the rest. He should be contributing. How would he survive without you paying the bills? No one else would let him do this to them. He owes you respect.
thank you! that is what im going to do.
Cassie

Poplar Bluff, MO

#18 Mar 25, 2009
You can add Jim Magill to that list. He can't survive without a sugar momma.
angela

Saint Louis, MO

#19 Mar 25, 2009
just wondering wrote:
My boyfriend moved in with me and doesn't attempt to pay any of the bills around the house.Is it me, or could I possibly being played as a fool.
I know how that is my ex lived off me and my kids for 3 years finally he left with some neighborhood skank "Bre". The messed up thing is he still stalked me for weeks, I had to get a restrainin order. She was the one bringin him around,if that wasn't messed up. My advise its always cheaper in the end to get daycare if u have kids, "i kept mine around for a sitter". My advise kick him to da curb.
angela

Saint Louis, MO

#20 Mar 25, 2009
Hey u can always c if friends will move in and split the bills u don't need him if he ain't helpin out. If u felt the need to post this all ur askin for is conformation. And from what i've read u already know. He knows how to make u feel bad about askin his help huh? No matter how u felt before u tried to talk to him about ur problem u leave the conversation feeling guilty.?
Let him pay his own bills in his own house. If u need a friend to talk to unless this is Bre then u got what u deserve. My e mail is [email protected]

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