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True Life

Faridabad, India

#1 Sep 21, 2008
Who else is with me on this? I know a woman who has twisted sh*t around so bad, that she has her daughter hating her father. I can't stand woman who use their kids to hurt their ex's. If you are a woman like this, then you need to go to hell. The only person you are hurting in the long run is the child. Think about your kid before yourself for once. In the future when the truth comes out and your daughter wants nothing to do with you and it will happen. Just remember, I told you so.
java

Seattle, WA

#2 Sep 21, 2008
were you invovled with the mother. if you were you are to blame too
True Life

Faridabad, India

#3 Sep 21, 2008
java wrote:
were you invovled with the mother. if you were you are to blame too
What is that supposed to mean? But if you have to know, no I wasn't involved with the mother. I'm not a lesbian.
java

Seattle, WA

#4 Sep 21, 2008
the lesbian part is good to know. maybe you just need to stay out of their businesses. things like this usullay will work its selfout if others keep their noses..... out of it like you.
True Life

Faridabad, India

#5 Sep 21, 2008
Lesbian part means I'm a chic. So, I wasn't involved with her. As for keeping my nose out of it. She brought me into it herself. But I was just seeing if other people have this problem with other woman. But your probably one of those woman who like to play games and are out for only your personal gain. Woman who do these things should be ashamed of themselves. Men are getting sick of woman who do these things.
Woman, you need to grow up and find so class.
hohmmmm

United States

#6 Sep 22, 2008
How about "how to be a LADY" 101.
True Life

Faridabad, India

#7 Sep 22, 2008
hohmmmm wrote:
How about "how to be a LADY" 101.
Yeah, no kidding. Most of these "ladies" and I use that word lightly, live their lives, from what I have seen, to ruin other peoples lives for their personal gain.
lol

AOL

#8 Sep 22, 2008
i know this b@$^*
Black Jack

Paragould, AR

#9 Sep 25, 2008
True Life wrote:
Who else is with me on this? I know a woman who has twisted sh*t around so bad, that she has her daughter hating her father. I can't stand woman who use their kids to hurt their ex's. If you are a woman like this, then you need to go to hell. The only person you are hurting in the long run is the child. Think about your kid before yourself for once. In the future when the truth comes out and your daughter wants nothing to do with you and it will happen. Just remember, I told you so.
Sounds like your talking about my ex-wife. She isnt a nurse is she? This exact thing is happening to me right now. My daughter wanted to live with me on Labor Day and now she acts like she is scared of me. I dont know what her mom has said to her but its a real hurtful ordeal. We are now in a court battle. I almost think we are talking about the same thing. Man isnt this strange?
2sidestoeverysto ry

AOL

#10 Sep 26, 2008
there is always 2 sides to every story, and kids are smarter then we give them credit for sometimes the parents aren't telling them to do anything some kids can think for themselves no matter how old they are. P.S. this just isn't a woman thing men do it to.
2sidestoeverysto ry

AOL

#11 Sep 26, 2008
and ur soooooooo right... the kids are the most hurt in the end.

Since: Apr 08

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#12 Sep 26, 2008
2sidestoeverystory wrote:
there is always 2 sides to every story, and kids are smarter then we give them credit for sometimes the parents aren't telling them to do anything some kids can think for themselves no matter how old they are. P.S. this just isn't a woman thing men do it to.
Actually, I think not. Men hardly have the chance to do this. The main reason being that the State endorses the woman bastardizing the father. The state uses all it's power and position to stand behind the mother and allow her to turn the children against the father. This not opinion this is fact.

Women use flesh and blood to exact their revenge. They do it very well.

To those ladies ( and I use the term in it's fullest meaning) who are better than this, and would never do such a horrible thing, I thank you.

“Heya:)”

Since: Sep 08

Poplar Bluff, Mo

#13 Sep 26, 2008
Some men do things like this too.
People in general can be vicious, its not a sexist thing.
What people need to realize is they are only going to end up hurting themselves when it backfires on them.
I agree with you that she is gonna get hurt in the long run when her kid grows up and sees things for herself, but I do not agree with you on classifying this as a female issue because its not.
raven

United States

#14 Sep 26, 2008
my husbands ex has kept him from seeing his daughter for eight years now she wont let us see or talk to her. his daughter doesent even know she has a half brother and sister. He was granted visitaion rights to have her every weekend the state wont tell us where she is but they sure make sure he pays his child support. we still dont know where she is.
Proud Mommy

United States

#15 Sep 26, 2008
raven wrote:
my husbands ex has kept him from seeing his daughter for eight years now she wont let us see or talk to her. his daughter doesent even know she has a half brother and sister. He was granted visitaion rights to have her every weekend the state wont tell us where she is but they sure make sure he pays his child support. we still dont know where she is.
We're in a similar boat, my husband hasn't seen his daughters in almost 5 years...his ex won't let us talk to them at all...the states make sure they get the money...but not their visitation rights. This psycho woman even got our child tax credit this year(intended for MY kids)adn there's nothing to be done. We know that she has filled their head with nonsense. But, hey, as long as they get paid, right? The system is SERIOUSLY flawed. I think if they don't co-operate with the custody agreement, then child support should be with-held.
Proud Mommy

United States

#16 Sep 26, 2008
hey raven...email me, I might be able to help you. [email protected]

Since: Sep 08

Location hidden

#17 Sep 26, 2008
had this simalar situation a year ago and rectified it...
Proud Mommy

United States

#18 Sep 26, 2008
p_b_res wrote:
had this simalar situation a year ago and rectified it...
we're battling bwetween 2 states. Mo won't modify the order because it originates in PA, and PA won't touch it because they say Missouri now has it. If you have ideas, we're all ears.
dew drop

United States

#19 Sep 26, 2008
we to lost our taxes this year also. And when we called the family payment center they tell us they cant give out her information but they no all of ours. We cant even take her to court because a officer has to serve her in person and we dont no where she is. It has been ten years since we saw his daughter. Wow i didnt know there were so many people who were dealing with the same crap we are.

Since: Apr 08

Location hidden

#20 Sep 27, 2008
I realize I sound bitter here, but I assure you, I am speaking as a man who has not been allowed to see my son in over 13 years. Reason? An evil ex that is all. I have no criminal background which would justify any sort of drastic measures. Plain and simple she decides she cant stand me, and wishes to harbor hatred towards me.

I have sought help for this. I have talked to judges, lawyers, and even state reps, but alas! Nothing! The only recourse I have to me, is to take her to court. I have spoken with lawyers, and and it would cost me well over 5000 for the case. As it stands, I cannot even earn a living by myself. the state has garnished my wages.

That is another hard lesson in life I learned. She tells the state that I have not paid since 1991 and the state accepts it, and seizes my bank accounts, and garnishes my wages. I simply owe it. I am a man, therefore have no paternal rights, I have no right to raise my child, I have no right to defend myself.

I mean this sincerely, to my knowledge, and after searching for help any where I could, I have not found one state office which concerns itself with father's rights. There is parents Fair Share, but it offers little in help.

I do believe though, if I were to become addicted to drugs of some sort, commit crimes for the sake of getting more drugs, then get incarcerated, then I believe there would be some sort of agency that would intermediate on my behalf in eagerly give me support in becoming a father instructing me on how to be responsible.

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