I need some help on child support

I need some help on child support

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Helpme

Farmington, MO

#1 Jun 22, 2012
Okay, so me and my husband Have separated. He has my 15 year old boy with him. He filed for child support and I got papers to fill out today. I called him and told him i would give him 100$ every time i got paid and he said no. And he said hes going to let the court handle it. But the problem is, he lives with his mom, he gets food stamps, and has Medicade, he has no job, he has no payments. He filed for disability for depression and anxiety. But I know for a fact he works under the table. So my question is does he also have to support my son? Or can he keep living off the state while half my paycheck gets sent to him?
Word

Qulin, MO

#2 Jun 22, 2012
Seems odd that he would get custody with no job and no home of his own. Normally the mother wins almost no matter what.

What's your record that kept you from getting custody?
Helpme

Farmington, MO

#4 Jun 22, 2012
He doesn't have custody, my son just chooses to be with his dad.

Since: Sep 11

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#5 Jun 22, 2012
Wow I have heard the same story from men for years almost word for word. Weird to see the tables turned.
Really

Poplar Bluff, MO

#6 Jun 22, 2012
Helpme wrote:
He doesn't have custody, my son just chooses to be with his dad.
Well if the child chooses to live with the dad, then u really must not b a good parent!!!!!
Dumbass

Poplar Bluff, MO

#7 Jun 22, 2012
Helpme wrote:
He doesn't have custody, my son just chooses to be with his dad.
Whoever the child lives with that person has custody
Helpme

Farmington, MO

#8 Jun 22, 2012
You people don't know me, I was a good parent, but I can't help that he has a good relationship with his father, but his father is just trying to get money out of my working ass so he can sit on his and live off me. Is that right!? All of you on here must be men.
stringtown mafia

United States

#9 Jun 22, 2012
sounds like you need to just pay up, its only for 3 more years. just go find a man to support your skank ass and quit your job then you dont have to pay shit.
godaddygo

Poplar Bluff, MO

#10 Jun 22, 2012
If a man gains custody of a child there is always a reason.maybe u would be better to keep it from the court but you won't you can't its funny you probably degrade him to his child and it bit you on the ass you lose just pay what you owe the man and shut up to the father I say go daddy go.
interesting

United States

#11 Jun 22, 2012
He has medicaid, he will get $50.00. The state gets the rest, to pay for Medicaid.
Nope

Poplar Bluff, MO

#12 Jun 22, 2012
Helpme wrote:
You people don't know me, I was a good parent, but I can't help that he has a good relationship with his father, but his father is just trying to get money out of my working ass so he can sit on his and live off me. Is that right!? All of you on here must be men.
Ha no I am not a man just saying if u was a real mother ur child wouldn't want to leave ur home RIGHT!!!
guest

Haslet, TX

#13 Jun 22, 2012
She may not be a bad parent. The dad may allow the kid to do whatever he wants and that may be why he chooses to live with him.
Helpme

Farmington, MO

#14 Jun 22, 2012
He's 15, he's old enough to make his own decisions. He may not like my new boyfriend, but I still go visit an see him. I pay for him to have a cell phone. But his dad doesn't contribute anything. Still no one is answering my question. Why do I have to pay child support when my husband doesn't have a job and is living off the state, and refuses any money from me!?! You tax payers should be pissed! Along with me.
Helpme

Farmington, MO

#15 Jun 22, 2012
guest wrote:
She may not be a bad parent. The dad may allow the kid to do whatever he wants and that may be why he chooses to live with him.
Your exactly right!
wibble1

Poplar Bluff, MO

#16 Jun 22, 2012
At 15 most any boy is going to choose to live with their dad. I'm not sure other than taking him to court, where u might be able to gain some specific rights & custody established &u point out is work history & lack of responsibility. Whoevee has the kid will get the child support, but if he were to get disability & you had your kid you would get a portion of that.
Word

Qulin, MO

#17 Jun 22, 2012
Helpme wrote:
He's 15, he's old enough to make his own decisions. He may not like my new boyfriend, but I still go visit an see him. I pay for him to have a cell phone. But his dad doesn't contribute anything. Still no one is answering my question. Why do I have to pay child support when my husband doesn't have a job and is living off the state, and refuses any money from me!?! You tax payers should be pissed! Along with me.
I'd probably choose having my child at home for the next three years and worry about my sex life after that.
Helpme

Farmington, MO

#18 Jun 22, 2012
Word wrote:
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I'd probably choose having my child at home for the next three years and worry about my sex life after that.
Would you leave the person you love for 3 years? I don't think so. I'm not making my son stay somewhere he doesn't want to.
Helpme

Farmington, MO

#19 Jun 22, 2012
Will my husband have to help me support my son even if he's not living with me? That's what I'm asking.
guesticles

Delight, AR

#20 Jun 22, 2012
Helpme wrote:
Okay, so me and my husband Have separated. He has my 15 year old boy with him. He filed for child support and I got papers to fill out today. I called him and told him i would give him 100$ every time i got paid and he said no. And he said hes going to let the court handle it. But the problem is, he lives with his mom, he gets food stamps, and has Medicade, he has no job, he has no payments. He filed for disability for depression and anxiety. But I know for a fact he works under the table. So my question is does he also have to support my son? Or can he keep living off the state while half my paycheck gets sent to him?
Let it go to court. He'll be lucky to get any more than what you offered him anyway. Sucks dealing with losers like that. Typical Poplar Bluff trash.
Helpme

Farmington, MO

#21 Jun 22, 2012
guesticles wrote:
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Let it go to court. He'll be lucky to get any more than what you offered him anyway. Sucks dealing with losers like that. Typical Poplar Bluff trash.
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