Need to know and find my lost love.

[Challenge]

You know what "bring it" "his wife". If I didn't think that he was such a nice guy and would hate to hurt him. I would bust you out on the times you cheated on him. If you want to leave a e-mail address I will send you my proof. You just might lose the argument and your husband!!!!

Terry I think you should at least let hopefull talk with you and see what happens. It sounds like she really still likes or loves you, seen how bad she want to find and talk to you. Good Luck

[Terry]

****LOOK HERE****
I am happy with my family and happy in my marriage, so lets drop this crap. What's in my past is in my past.

All this trash talk about my wife cheating, is very upsetting to my wife. SO STOP!!!! If you have proof keep it I don't want it. Anything that may or may not have happen is between my wife and me!

To hopefull- we may have had something 19 years ago, but it was 19 years ago. I have a new direction in my life. So other than to say HI I don't really have anything to say to you. Its not like you are going to change my mind about giving you another chance. So I don't know what it is you want from me. I do believe I know who you are and you may have hurt me then but I am happy now. Please leave me be!

[guest]

Hey I know this couple! His wife did cheat on him, at least I am almost sure, but they seem to have worked things out either way. There still together, anyway. He is a nice guy , most of the time. I know I work for him now and used to work for his wife years ago. To hopefull you haven't said much lately, but I don't think you will have a chance at him. If he comes open I want first shoots with him. LOL Well he is pretty HOT.
So good luck but I would move on.

[Hopefull]

Someone told me that is why his wife has moved around to all the different stores she at. They find out that she is doing another employee and they have to move her around. What a you know what, i feel bad for her husband. I would love to have him back and i will treat him better than what he is being treated now. Id bet that he doesnt even know about all the other guys she been with. Terry you need to stop being in denial and if not give me a shot back with you, then you need to find someone eles that will treat you better in life, relationship and partnership. Leaving you was my one most regret that i have. I will leave you be as you requested and hope some day you come to your sences.
A.H

[look here]

YOU don't know me. Your just mad because you don't have anyone. You just 2ant someone that you can't have. He doesn't even remember you. That to me means that you weren't that special or your he is just in your imagination. look, he is mine now and mine forever. just grow up and get a single man. are you really that ignorant to f with me. the lies you people tell will cause problems in yourselves. people l8ke you just want to destroy lives. does this make you feel better about yourself. you don't even know me. you say things about me on here and can't even say it to my face. your not a real woman. your just that little girl that wants to be loved. apparently you can't get your own man. kiss my ass.

[guest]

Go DH I worked wit here and i loved working with her and i am not a guy

[Hopefull]

Ok that's how it is. Not only am I going to talk to him, but im going to do what ever it takes to bang his brains out. So it looks like you better keep him happy because if not I will be right there to make him all better!!!
O and I will work on getting that proof of you cheating on him, you never know he might just get pay you back. Once I get a hold of him, you won't get him back.
A.H

[lets go]

you can try all you want to get proof. you will not find it. i've never cheated on him. bitch you won't have a chance. HE DOESN'T WANT YOU. who are? you won't show your face or even say your name. all you do is hide behind this site. we are done!

[Seriously]

Hopefull wrote:

Ok that's how it is. Not only am I going to talk to him, but im going to do what ever it takes to bang his brains out. So it looks like you better keep him happy because if not I will be right there to make him all better!!!
O and I will work on getting that proof of you cheating on him, you never know he might just get pay you back. Once I get a hold of him, you won't get him back.
A.H

When you started this thread I really felt for you. I know what it's like to have had a great guy, let him slip through your fingers, and then regret it for years. However after reading this entire thing I think that you seriously need to seek help.

1. People change. The guy you knew way back when may not be anything like the man he is today.

2. He's married. Happily or not, it really isn't any of your business. You sound pathetic and desperate when you continued to go on and on after you discovered this information.

3. His wife was being nice to you even though you were acting like a lovesick teenager over husband instead of a reasonable adult. She told you she didn't mind if you wanted to talk to him, but to please respect their family. What about that is so unreasonable?

4. You started bringing up stuff about his wife based on what? Heresay? He's told you point blank that he isn't interested and he wants the bashing of his wife to stop. It even looks like he might have figured out who you are. Even if his wife had cheated on him do you really think he'd be interested in you after you ignored his wishes?

5. You have the nerve to say that you are going to try and break him and his wife up. Does the fact that they have children even register with you. Do you have a conscience at all? This isn't high school.

6. Grow up and move on with your life because he obviously has.

[Wise Up]

I think it's pretty apparent that Hopeful's not really an ex-girlfriend hoping to reunite with Terry. Heck, I bet it's not even a woman.

Terry, who did you *iss off recently. Or, who did your wife *iss off? It's very apparent this person is just trying to upset you guys and cause trouble. So, if I were you, I wouldn't let their childish pranks get to me. I'd tell them to screw off and never come back to this thread. Don't let them accomplish their goal of upsetting you. Don't let them win.

[guest]

Hopefull wrote:

Ok that's how it is. Not only am I going to talk to him, but im going to do what ever it takes to bang his brains out. So it looks like you better keep him happy because if not I will be right there to make him all better!!!
O and I will work on getting that proof of you cheating on him, you never know he might just get pay you back. Once I get a hold of him, you won't get him back.
A.H

It is obvious that this was posted by someone other than the person who started the thread. Why start problems? Why don't you get a life?

[disturbed]

Yea guest y don't you practice what you preach. I c You everywhere being mean to everyone. Seems you need to get a life too.

[ArkansasMan]

Ya I know Him!! I live by him He live in Jonesboro,Arkansas we be friends for awhile now and as far as I know hes still single??

[ArkansasMan]

Guest is pretty Rude to everyone there on Different forums starting up trouble!

[Hopefull]

Just so everyone knows, i was not the one that said all of these bad things about Terry or his wife. I would however still like to talk with him and ask him a few questions that has bothered me for a very long time. There is a few things that i would like to tell him as well. Terry if you read this i have tried to get in touch with you a few times, but i was told you were busy. All i want to do is talk with you. I dont want to interfer with you and your wife, but and not to be mean, if something ever happen between you and her i would love the chance to make things right with you. Please dont think that i am obsest with you but i do have real fealing for you and i will respect that you are married. So i just want to talk.
A.H

[RESPECT]

Hopefull wrote:

Just so everyone knows, i was not the one that said all of these bad things about Terry or his wife. I would however still like to talk with him and ask him a few questions that has bothered me for a very long time. There is a few things that i would like to tell him as well. Terry if you read this i have tried to get in touch with you a few times, but i was told you were busy. All i want to do is talk with you. I dont want to interfer with you and your wife, but and not to be mean, if something ever happen between you and her i would love the chance to make things right with you. Please dont think that i am obsest with you but i do have real fealing for you and i will respect that you are married. So i just want to talk.
A.H

Learn the meaning of this word because it's obvious to everyone you have none for your self or terry and his family. Ever thought he is having people say he is busy because he does NOT want to talk to you. You seem so PSYCHO and STALKERISH Do you go to his job and watch him in secret? Go get a life and a man of your own and some professional HELP you need it lady! here are a few tips as well Feelings,obsessed,and as far as needing questions answered get the F over it already and move way on down the road.

[Give me a Break]

Obviously you have never been in LOVE before. On top of that to have lost a love because of something that you regretted later. Hopefull is likely wanting a close friend out of the deal. She doesn’t sound like a stalker just someone who really cared about a guy who won’t give her the time of day. I say shame on him for not even giving her the opportunity to get what she has on her chest. I mean come on does he think she is just going to SCREW him where he stands. No guy is that good looking!!!!!

One more thing for all the other TRASH talkers. She said that they were together 19 years ago, so obviously he is a grown man, he can decide if he wants to act on any urges. What’s he afraid of that Hopefull may be better than what he has now or that she might offer him something that he doesn’t have in his marriage. Give a girl a break and let her have some piece of mind with the one she lost!!

[Butters]

Give me a Break wrote:

Obviously you have never been in LOVE before. On top of that to have lost a love because of something that you regretted later. Hopefull is likely wanting a close friend out of the deal. She doesn’t sound like a stalker just someone who really cared about a guy who won’t give her the time of day. I say shame on him for not even giving her the opportunity to get what she has on her chest. I mean come on does he think she is just going to SCREW him where he stands. No guy is that good looking!!!!!
One more thing for all the other TRASH talkers. She said that they were together 19 years ago, so obviously he is a grown man, he can decide if he wants to act on any urges. What’s he afraid of that Hopefull may be better than what he has now or that she might offer him something that he doesn’t have in his marriage. Give a girl a break and let her have some piece of mind with the one she lost!!

Or maybe he just has nothing to say to her and doesn't care what she has to say.

[O Yea]

Terry you need to talk to this girl, f her a couple of times and see whichever of them you like better. Or keep them both and don't tell the wife. Maybe you can get them both together and have some real fun.

[bullsht]

Terry maybe you get lucky and she move in with you and your wife and they can share the responsibility of taking care of ya, they can swap out every other night. ahahahha that would solve the i don't feel like it tonight.... I guess this comment is something Jeff would come up with or want to do about it,..ahahahah